We are married but my husband of late is cheating. I am so hurt and have so far tried to talk to him but it turns into quarrels. I want him to change his behaviour. What can i do?
2006-12-03 23:59:02 · 9 answers · asked by Cyncon Lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him...
2006-12-04 00:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he quarrels with you when you try to talk to him about the cheating, then he doesn't care about your feelings. He obviously doesn't want to change his behavior and is probably hoping you'll leave. Why don't you get a separation and divorce from him and live a happy life? You know you don't deserve to be so disrespected. I hope you'll make a wise decision and not continue your life with such a selfish man. Good luck to you.
2006-12-04 00:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just read your last question as well. and i think you have pretty good advise on there ... there is no way to deal with a cheating husband. and something you should never try to tolerate or learn to live with. changing his behavior has got to be his choice an not a suggestion that you even have to make to him.
2006-12-04 00:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and get a divorce he obviously is not going to change his behaviour . good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-04 01:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will learn you can't change him & if he wants to change work with him. If not my best advice is to give your marriage to God & let him take care of it & give you the strength you need.
2006-12-04 00:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a good guy to take care of you. Give him the same treatment.
2006-12-04 00:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't care about your feelings, then there is probably not much you can do to change his behaviour.
It might be time to give him the boot!
2006-12-04 00:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to change him & LEAVE him! you don't deserve that kind of treatment & should be ashamed of yourself for staying with him any longer. sorry to sound so harsh, but you need to hear it.
2006-12-04 00:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by nuknuklion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharpen up the old scissors.
2006-12-04 00:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋