she don't want him to see his kids by putting false accusation.
My husband is stressed and is completely down.please advice
2006-12-03 22:21:35 · 15 answers · asked by lea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no father should b stopped access to his kids this is one thing that really naffs me off and it seems she is doing that to get back at him and is wrong so no wonder hes stressed,the main thing to do is not stoop to her level she wants a reaction go through the right channels so your partner can c his kids but dont throw nastiness at her coz the minute you do that shes won you must show that you n ur partner are the bigger people in this..in time she will c wot she has done the kids will hate her for it as they will realise what has gone on and she will b without them i firmly believe in the old addage wot goes round comes round and with her behaving like a child herself shes the one whos going to lose out best of luck to u both xx
2006-12-03 22:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by greyhound mummy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to court and put a stop to her issues. Please be kind to the kids and never say one bad word about her. As they grow they will see who the better people are. Its to bad she is stressing your husband, the damage she is doing to those kids is even worse. Only show love and respect to the kids I promise it will work. Your husband has rights and the court will enforce them.
2006-12-04 06:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
X-Wives, X-husbands love to use their children in the game of family feuds----Your husband needs to seek out his atty and have his atty file a motion called " RULE TO SHOW CAUSE" ! your husband has rights and sometimes an X-wife needs to be put in her place by having a JUDGE order enforcement of the visitation. Your husband needs to make sure he's current on his support for these children because if he isn't the JUDGE will order wage withholdings on him until support is current!
2006-12-04 06:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer because he every right to see his kids. that is what happened to my cousin his ex didn't want him to see the kids because he had a new girlfriend so she would do things and make to kids do things so he would come over and check on the kids so she could call the cops on him. he took her to court and now keeps the kids every other week and can go see them when ever he feels like. if u ask me they really don't need to be with her at all.
2006-12-04 06:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by nates_baby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be with him when he is low , give him lots of massage , now he has to forget about children as he is already out from the scene . Other way round, he is only troubling them by seeing them when he is not living with them.
2006-12-04 06:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document her claims carefully - when, where, what, etc. Record phone conversations. Contact Child Protective Services in advance and let them know that she is doing this. Then sue her for libel, slander, and defamation of character after you have PLENTY of evidence to back you up in court. Good luck.
2006-12-04 06:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Paul H 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Get a lawyer. Or consult the one he has now.
2006-12-04 07:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going thru the same thing but he and i arent married, just be there for him let him kno you care and you support him and dont let that witch win, jus be there dont let him get stressed beyond the point of no return
2006-12-04 06:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was you the cause of their brake up or his Mistress when they were married.Your not telling the whole story are you?
2006-12-05 01:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer to deal with her.
2006-12-04 06:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by KelO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋