You have a serious problem. You cannot resist logging on, tuning out, and searching for something outside of yourself to meet some need, living a fantasy where women and young girls spread for you over and over again. You do this every day, often several times each day, while rejecting the love of your real, flesh and blood wife.
Be very careful how you respond to being confronted with your behavior. If you lie or decry the invasion of your privacy, you will lose what little credibility you have left with me. Your behavior has placed our marriage, our well-being, and your career in serious peril. Before you deny any of this, consider that all you needed to do was stop. Instead, you have been willing to place your marriage and your future in jeopardy on a daily basis.
I am worthy of 100% of the love, affection, attention, time, energy, and passions of the heart that are yours to share. Can you renew your promise to me, and keep it forever? Choose now. Choose forever.
2006-12-02 11:24:35 · 16 answers · asked by RiverGrrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK....so what's the q?
2006-12-02 11:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are creatures of habit. You cannot threaten or demand a change unless they are 100% willing to comply. I have walked in your shoes and had the tough job of redirecting my life. It's scary to have to face starting over..But thats the worst part. Once you start your journey everything falls into place. Good luck with your situation.
2006-12-02 11:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give you much credit for trying to save your marriage even when it has been taken to a level of hurt.I think that it was well put on what you had to say & I pray that he will come around & see what he has. I feel you cause I recently found out my hubby was looking for women in our local area & he tried to make it like I'm just insecure. Praying for a great outcome for you both.
2006-12-02 11:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds really good.
Good luck! I hope he's willing to make the commitment to your relationship over the cybercheating.
2006-12-02 11:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellently put - I can't think of any better way to say it. Now give it to him and see what happens. Good luck.
2006-12-02 11:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by missie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll say one thing and do another. Some guys are addicted, can't admit it, and will never change.
Save your breath and file the papers.
2006-12-02 14:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very will put. Just goes to show you can't buy integrity. You just have it or you don't. I think you have it and I think he doesn't. Good luck!!!
2006-12-02 11:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont understand the ?...if ur hubby is cheating then kick him to the curb and find urself something better u deserve it
2006-12-02 11:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope it works, but I'm sorry to say I don't hold out too much hope for you.
2006-12-02 11:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl, sounds "perfect"! Good luck.
2006-12-02 11:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Include a picture of him at his computer. I'm sure it's not pretty.
2006-12-02 11:31:33 · answer #11 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋