if you suspected your partner to be cheating on you would you consider hiring a private investigator to follow him/her?
2006-12-02 11:37:30 · 32 answers · asked by tetley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm, Magnum PI following my bird in his Ferrari and Hawaian Shirt. I am sure she wouldn't suss that out
2006-12-02 11:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Litmus180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone goes to the trouble of hiring a PI then they already have a pretty good idea that they are being cheated on but just want proof for legal reasons/closure blah blah blah!
If I felt I had to go to those extremes then I know I'd already be fairly confident of my suspicions, so! The answer to that would be no. I certainly wouldn’t ask my Husband if he was cheating…that’s as daft as asking a Child “Do you want a smack”?
Cheating means they're lying to you, they're hardly going to tell you the truth now are they???
Good question though.
2006-12-02 12:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know my husband would never cheat on me, but, yes, if I had good reason to believe he was cheating I would have to know so if all else failed I would hire a private investigator.
2006-12-02 21:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask my partner outright first. I'f I didnt believe their answer then yes I would consider hiring a private investigator
2006-12-02 11:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I'd go for confrontation. Why waste time worrying when you can find out right away? If your partner is cheating and it's sexual your very life may be in danger. These days you can't be too careful. Find out now. Good luck.
2006-12-02 14:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly, yes based on these conditions
1- if you can afford it
2- if the person is worth it.
3- If you confronted the issue with your partner first and left with unsatisfactory/untrustworthy answers.
4-Make sure that you are not paying all that money to confirm what, in your heart, you already know is true.
Some may say it's trifling, but in a world of people who can put your emotions on the side as if you did not exist, and in a world where diseases do exist, I think it's worth it.
2006-12-02 12:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by 2live 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH yeah..... If i had the money of course :)
If I did enough snooping by myself and found nothing and still had a feeling something was up.... I would call a professional. Although, I think that if your other is not honest enough to tell the truth if/when confronted :: you deserve better than that :)
BEST OF LUCK
2006-12-02 12:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't because If i suspected him of cheating I'd talk to him, we have a complete honesty policy in our relationship: If either one of us isn't happy with something we just talk about it and come to a way to resolve it.
So i know he wouldn't cheat really cos in my opinion guys only do when they ain't happy with something in their relationship and cos we talk about it before it gets to that stage then i know we'll be fine.
2006-12-02 11:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think my partner(s) are cheating
cant get it out of my head...If i had the money I would def get PI, well if I was serious about her - like plannin to marry her..or get a house with her or summat like that.
2006-12-02 11:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Im a killer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it haha! A good interrogation does the trick to, i found that if girls think you already know the truth thats when they come out and tell you. Tell her someone told you they saw her with another guy, and see what she says. Make her paranoid
2006-12-02 11:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by kgsult 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋