I have an unusual happening! When my wife and I have sex-she usually has 2 or 3 orgasims to my 1. (no I'm not bragging) I'm 48-and she is 50. I'm just an average guy in most all respects (no I don't have a huge hammer). Been married for a long time and this just started happening in the last 5 yrs or so. I don't mind this so I'm not complaining , but it's got me wondering what has changed.
We usually have intercourse for less than an hour. Any one got any feedback????
2006-12-02 17:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by T J ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Speaking for myself, I have found that I've been a far more sexual being in my forties than at any other point in my life. I think the forties and fifties are a time of great wisdom and confidence for women, and your wife is just celebrating her confidence and sexuality.
And, as you said, you're the lucky benefactor!
2006-12-02 17:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it this way...she has arrived at a point in her life where she has gotten to know her body and how to move it to "get hers". You have gotten to a point where you know her body enough to help her "get hers" and she is thoroughly satisfied. The response is that both of you "get yours" and in the end, everybody is happy.
This is a very good thing. Women often are multi-orgasmic, if they have the right lover. Some women never know the feeling. Length of time is not always the determining factor for women and how many orgasms they get...it is the quality of the sexual act that makes it happen. That quality includes, the mind, body and the emotions...it all works together.
Your wife isn't complaining! That's very good thing!
2006-12-02 17:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kokomira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you guys just know each others bodies really well and obviously know what turns you on!!!
With a skilled lover most women are receptive to more than just one orgasm..your hammer must do the job!! LOL
Good on you, I think you are very lucky to have such a satisfying sex life!!!
2006-12-02 17:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your wife loves you and either is just understanding her body and how to make it work, maybe you are getting better at sex, or maybe she is faking so you will think you are a stud for her but a dud for other girls if you are cheating. Getting older plays all kinds of tricks on us. All I can say is just be happy taht at 50 years old, you two are still getting it on frequently and you're taking care of business. Good for you.
2006-12-02 17:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has learnt more about herself and is more willing to let herself go and explore more. Maybe she has been reading books or got educated in how to have multipule orgasams.
It may also be hormones in her body, she could be going through menopause, this could have caused a serge in hormones. but if i were you i would not be wondering or complaining at all
2006-12-02 17:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal for a woman to have more than one orgasm. I guess it's Gods way of compensating for all of the other sh*t that they have to put up with.
Anyway, congrats on the sex life getting better with age.
Don't question it, just enjoy it.
2006-12-02 17:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good thing! This does happen to women around that age group! Not all, but it does happen... Enjoy!
2006-12-02 17:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky, Lucky YOU!!
Well, she may be doing some fantasizing? Either way; I'd say the above again!
2006-12-02 17:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's in her peak and she's figured out how to get the right angle and tada!! Good job!! haha
2006-12-02 17:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by graduatecj08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋