My husband doesn't know what love is. I am almost sure that he doesn't love me because he doesn't touch my hair, never hugs me, doesn't initiate sex, doesn't want to talk to me, says I am a waste of his time, and never even thinks of talking to me and sharing his thoughts, experiences, or doing any activities together. He hates me for bothering him with my feelings or needs. When I ask him if he loves me he tells me he doens't know what love is. I yell at him a lot and have even started kicking things and slamming doors and slapped him in the face. He says I'm abusive. We're going to try a period of separation. Any advice? What is love? Have you been divorced? What would you do?
2006-12-02 18:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by Cynthia W 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love is agape, and naturally expressed by you..... there are diffrent types of love..... Agape, Eros, Pragma, Mania, Ludus.. look at wikipedia for them.... and define what you feel for him and teach him what love is. what type of bond holds you and him toguether. good luck
2006-12-02 19:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by tjdeya24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hate to tell you this but the relationship you're in is anything BUT love. I honestly hope you haven't been around that type of treatment for a long period. It can have very insecure affects. Take it from me. Read 1 Corinthians 13, in the Bible. That should pretty well explain what love is.
2006-12-03 02:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can you say mid life crisis? It sounds like he is having some issues with himself how long has this behavior been going on? I have been divorced once before. I feel your frustration but please remember that there is no room in any long lasting relationship for violence. violence provokes violence do not push him into that corner. try to be patient and maybe suggest some counseling
2006-12-03 03:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kim B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been divorced. You could separate and see how you both feel. See if he misses you. Sounds like you both have to figure out want you want. Could be you weren't meant for one another. God bless.
2006-12-03 02:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love: Love is giving someone the ability to hurt you, but trusting them not to!
To love: Spend every second of every day you're together as if that moment could never be replaced
2006-12-03 03:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by jesse james 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!!! It doesn't get better. Later I'm sure you'll find someone who treats you right and then you will know for yourself what love is.
2006-12-03 02:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by southsidedrp187 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋