2006-12-02 20:08:24 · 24 answers · asked by Cleng 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should hang out with the mistress(es) and get to know them. It could be a wild ride.
2006-12-02 20:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A little more input would be nice. As I know that sometimes we all need to look inside ourselves and ask ourselves If I were him why would I cheat? What is it that isn't right in the marriage? I'll be willing to bet it is time, and communication. You have the right to divorce, although the Bible says that if the woman divorces her husband, that she can only recgoncile the marriage and not re marry another man. It is all up to you. With out God within a marriage these things happen. It is usually a wake up call to the couple to fix whatever it is that went wrong. Start be reading the Bible and praying if you honestly want to salvage your relationship. If not, you have your winning ticket to leave. Be ware that unsolved issues in a marriage do not fix them selves buy having another relationship. Things just get way worse. Cause now you have your problems that never got addressed, and now trying to Learn someone new. I say stay if he, and ONLY if he will go to councling with you. And of course this is what you want.
2006-12-03 04:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by spawanee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Divorce Court
2006-12-03 04:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
building the trust back in your relationship is a long and painful road and most of the time the trust never returns. my opinion is once a cheater always a cheater and i am talking from experience believe me and you deserve better than to have someone be so selfish as to only care about what he wants and not what effects it will have on those that he has vowed to love. it shows at what level of importance he puts your feelings and he really doesn't give that really a second thought. he only seems to care when he gets caught.
2006-12-03 05:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by kattz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start by sitting him down and discussing why he did what he did?Future?asking yourself if you can get past this fedelity?
You can also get past this by constant communication, prayer and the willingness to come to each other when a problem arises...
Also in time the pain will heal and it is up to you to may the final decision....It is not always what we want, but after the talk and finding out what he did, praying to GOD for help and answers, you will know...
It is hard because I am trying to work it out...Not for the kids, but for the love I have for him and how hard he is trying.....
Wish you luck on whatever you do...
2006-12-03 20:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what is going on.
Ask yourself these questions:
Do I love him?
Can I ever completely trust him again?
Will he change?
Was this this only once or multiple times?
How long did this go on?
Can we go back to the way it was?
After you do some soul searching and ask yourself these questions you might just find the answer that is best for you.
Good luck!
2006-12-03 04:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long you have been married, kids? and whether theres is something else going on. Like he lost his job, a promotion...this may signify his need for validation. You need a professional advice, counseling should help with the healing.
2006-12-03 04:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lulu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask this, or are you one of those women who like to b*tch about what a lousy guy their husband is to gain sympathy from those around them, but never do anything about the situation?
2006-12-03 10:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find proof that he is cheating on you so that you can get a bigger share of the pie in the event you decide to divorce....hit them where it hurts most and that would be their wallet. once the crying and screaming are done, you will be glad that you have those $$$ to pamper yourself and make yourself look fabulous. he will be eating his heart out ;)
2006-12-03 04:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by labrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is just having a fling, he will turn around but if he is havig\ng an affair...than you have to do something about it. And if you still loves him try to work things out...let divorce be the last option.
2006-12-03 04:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time
2006-12-03 04:09:47 · answer #11 · answered by Brina 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋