Thinking of separating from hubby.We've been married for 7yrs but found out stuff that has devastated me entirely.I want him to tell me something but for some reason I can't even stand the sight of him or touch anything he owns.
We have two kids together and I am 7 months pregnant with my 3rd
2006-11-30 19:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As far away as you like if you are British. You do not have to stay anywhere near your errant husband if he has done something unforgivable. However, are you sure it is not your hormones blowing up something trivial. If you are then you need to speak to someone close, mother, sister, friend. You have your children to consider first. Where can you take them to be safe. If you cannot speak to your husband then he should be asked to leave the matrimonial home as your needs, and your children's' needs, take precedence over his. There are three of you and the children should not have their lives disrupted by parental disagreement. I hope this helps, but you should try and speak to your husband and hear his side of the story before taking that first irretrievable step.
2006-11-30 20:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Joanne E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be asking a lawyer. Then see a marriage counselor. I don't know what you found out but if you haven't addressed it with him you aren't being fair to him or yourself. Because it could be a misunderstanding or bad call on your part. You don't marry someone for 7 yrs then don't walk out with no explanation. Besides, you CAN'T legally, especially with 3 kids.
As I don't know what the cause of all this other then something you think is pretty grave as you are devasted. I mean if you think he's gay or fooling around that's one thing. A pedophile? That's another thing entirely. I can't really give you anything more useful to your problem other then see a marriage counselor. To communicate your issue and if you are still determined then see a lawyer.
However if you are just asking a question then just call the lawyer. But I think as far as you can go with kids is probably limited to state lines. But that's just my guess.
2006-12-01 04:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in marriage break up doesn't stop you from travelling anywhere! So just go!! don't look back in anger - move on with your life!
Good Luck!!
2006-12-01 04:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you got problems, ever think about talking to someone you trust? Whatever you do, do what's best for your kids and yourself.
2006-12-01 04:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant stand him touching you - how did you manage to get 7 months preganant??? english law is very different to american law-if your english - go where you like, if youre american - ask God to help you
2006-12-03 19:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the?,,,,,,how far can you move away from him? legally you can't leave the state with the children until there is a custody hearing.
2006-12-01 03:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go as far as you want with someone else, YOU COULDN'T GET ANY MORE PREGNANT!!! :D
2006-12-01 04:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋