Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2006

have a boyfriend we have been together for 6 years.I am 24 and he is 23. both good looking and educated... I have moved here for 3 months and we have been apart since then.He wants to move here and marry me. We are REALLY good with each other and have so muh fun nd love each other SO MUCH, but the problem is that he is SOOOOOO jelous and gets mad whenever I talk to any guy or laugh or anything. When we are together, we are perfect, but when I even TALK to another guy,(i repeat...talking, not flirting or something) he becomes SO sad and sometimes doesnt say aythingbut suffers inside... I dont know what to do :( sould I break up after 6 years or I have t quit talking to all male creatures!!! cause I am sure I cant change him. I have tried for 6 years but failed....

2006-11-30 18:57:38 · 28 answers · asked by alwayss_ready 3

If you check out porn behind your g/f or wife's back, does that mean that you don't love or respect her, Does it mean that you fantasize about the porn when you are in bed with your wife. What does this mean to you about your relationship with your wife. Help, just need some advice.

2006-11-30 18:56:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I m 25yrs, my husband 35 yrs old.We are married for almost 3yrs. but I know him for 5 yrs. We had a lot of problems due to my husbands constant lying and hiding things. Almost 1 yr into the relationship I found out through is friends that he was married before and has kids. He had alot of debt which he never even intended to pay, so I had to pay his debt down so they wouldnt garnish his wages etc. Before the wedding he promised he would change, cause I was about to leave. Well he never changed even with counseling. In March06 I moved out, told him I want a divorce and it hurt cause I loved him but he was breaking me. About 3 months ago we started talking again and he asked me back. I came back home 2 weeks ago with an uncomfortable feeling. I just found out he was seing a girl just before I came home. He hardly paid any of his bills but he bought a new car, digital cameras, new laptop etc. He said he changed but obviously he didnt. It hurts and I dont know what to do.

2006-11-30 18:54:40 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle W 1

can u hel me how to handle all the condition because i have three baby girls one is mine and two r other wife of my husband

2006-11-30 18:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by humaira k 1

2006-11-30 18:44:12 · 26 answers · asked by kim 1

2006-11-30 18:43:10 · 7 answers · asked by kim 1

2006-11-30 18:41:13 · 13 answers · asked by kim 1

2006-11-30 18:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by mdrcarter 1

2006-11-30 18:35:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

We were married for 15 days when I left India. After 3 months I called my wife abroad. While she stayed in India she lived with my mother. When she came here she started stealing small things from my uncle's house (we stay close to each other) and I caught her doing so. Then after 3 months I found out that she had stolen large amounts from my mother's and sister's house in India too. She tried to commit suicide when I scolded her once. I even got to know that she had some relationship with guys while she stayed in India after marriage. Now I have sent her back to India and am seeking divorce. The girl refuses to give me divorce. How do I get one? Can I claim damages too?How long will i have to stay in India to file for a divorce? Please if the is a professional Indian lawyer who can give me some advice.

2006-11-30 18:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by indiguy 1

They don't seem to help for nothing when I try to get a hold of my husband they give me the run around and its just problem after problem?

2006-11-30 18:24:15 · 23 answers · asked by rybak5 1

2006-11-30 18:23:19 · 10 answers · asked by suki 1

suppose that after having a drink your spouse sleeps with a hore.then is it the alchol's fault?does being drunk made him lose his mind and commit adultry? or that drinking made him lose his inhibition and do what he really wanted to do? suppose you have been watching porn with your spouse for sometime and he goes abroad to have sex with a stripper. is it your fault that you made him see porn and now he is doing it with a hooker? or is it his friends fault that he has done it? or is it just that he doesnot want you sexually but loves you still?so confused.

2006-11-30 18:21:58 · 15 answers · asked by atahsina 5

....like the T.V. show

2006-11-30 18:18:48 · 22 answers · asked by ? 5

I'm so lost. I've made a very big decision by giving up my unhappy marriage but which is not hopeless for my ex-boyfriend. Coz I know it will be very hard for us to be together if I stay in my marriage and I can't love 2 men at the same time.
Now he is getting ROM very soon. I knew it when we first get back together, I thought I won't mind as long as we are together. But as the day drew nearer, I felt the heartache. The man I love is marrying another woman.
I asked if he can don't get married for my sake. He said is impossible as he is responsible for her and they had been together for coming 9 years. He won't leave her unless she leave him. He also promise me that leaving me will be the last thing he will do. I'm so hurt and don't know what can I do. I've came so far for him and don't wish to give up. Please tell me what to do?

2006-11-30 18:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think whether wives should work outside or stay at home?
Why? and please write where you are from.

2006-11-30 18:08:59 · 20 answers · asked by Cathy S 1

I have had custody of my children all of their life. After asking for a child support increase for the first time, I was sued for custody of my 2 children. We have been divorced for 6 years and I felt that it was time for an increase. It took 18 months, but the judge ruled in my favor in October. My ex- husband has only elected to see the children 10 times in 6 yrs. He called today to inform me that he had arranged for someone to pick the children up the day they get out for Christams& take them to the airport 3.5 hrs away, put them on a flight unaccompanied to go a state away. Then he would put them back on a plain in the wee hours of the morning on the 26 & fly them back home(unaccompanied again) for the people to pick them back up & bring them to me. He is doing all of this for 3 days visitation. I do not begrudge him the visitation( I believe it is good for the girls to see their father),but they are only 6 & 8 & have only flew 1 time&it was with an adult. What do I do?

2006-11-30 18:02:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl and I have been together almost 4 years and she has bothered me about getting married for at least a year. This is by far the most important girl I have ever been with (I'm 27) I love her to death. Now, just 2 days ago she actually got on her knee with a ring and asked me to marry her. I said yes and we went and had a great night. The next day, she tells me that she had slept with my friend one drunk night, after he tried to convince her that she needs to be with him and travel the world. The reason she gave is that she was so confused and worried that I would never ask her to marry me. The pain of thinking of her with this other guy is extremely hard to deal with, but she has begged me to not break it off, and told me she would never drink again. What should I do, she cheated on me, but it is a girl I don't think I will ever find another one like again.

2006-11-30 17:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i believe a guy will do anything to win a girl over if he truly likes her, if he believes she's the one. it doesn't matter what obstacles there may be (like a work relationship, student-prof), he'll do it.

agree?

2006-11-30 17:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by Eden 1

2006-11-30 17:59:05 · 37 answers · asked by chapped lips 5

Mine had an arranged marriage in 1993. Initially she hated my mom,family. I accepted. I seperated her from family and started living together.Then she started hating me, my job. we have seperate bed for last four years, no physical relation since 8 yrs. Only dilemma is my sons and their future.Pl advise what action I should take. My age is 42 yrs and holding important and high posts in govt.

2006-11-30 17:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by shailesh m 1

Mine had an arranged marriage in 1993. Initially she hated my mom,family. I accepted. I seperated her from family and started living together.Then she started hating me, my job. we have seperate bed for last four years, no physical relation since 8 yrs. Only dilemma is my sons and their future.Pl advise what action I should take. My age is 42 yrs and holding important and high posts in govt.

2006-11-30 17:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by shailesh m 1

My husband is in the miltary and we recently got married. We been married 5 months together for about 3 years. He's stationed over seas and im stuck here. Recently he called and told me he had kissed another girl. I told him that he was wrong and not to see her. He agreed. Then he called again and said he wanted a divorce. I asked why and he ssaid it was b/c he coulod'nt give me 100% in the relationship, and that he was't sure that it was gonna work from the beggining so he gave it a shot.He keeps making up excuses of why he wants one. I did everything i could to help the divorcce. I even as low as ssaying he could see her. But nothing. So my husband is leaving me and im in the united states with nothing b/c he's not sending money. what should i do?

2006-11-30 17:39:55 · 29 answers · asked by yourangel558 2

In a Visitation battle they say they go by amout of time you spend like 33% etc.. well if you go down in time.. does that mean your support goes down.. or up?

2006-11-30 17:39:54 · 7 answers · asked by msdragon04 1

My brother's,Rahul,birthdate is 2nd Sep,1979,birthtime is 00:35 midnight. He is a re-birth of my fathers' grandfather( Navkari). He is of MUL nakshatra of 4th charana. We have done nagbali, narayan bali and Kal sarpyog pooja, at trambakeshwar for him.

2006-11-30 17:38:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 17:36:35 · 27 answers · asked by indiana_ddp 1

2006-11-30 17:32:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 17:28:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that men tend to like variety, but I'd like to hear from some men (I know you're out there!) who have been with the same woman for more than two years, have never considered cheating, and are completely satisfied with your sex life.

Does your lady still rock your world after all these years? C'mon, let's hear it!

2006-11-30 17:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

on&off.We live&work in the same neighborhood so we see each other everyday unless I go out of my way to avoid it.He said he loves & misses me too but what I can’t understand is why I am always be the first one to call to make up with him even it his faults.I stop seeing him for a week every time he hurt my feelings then I will call him he always makes it hard for me before he gives in.Even when he was just my boyfriend I asked him why he can bear not calling me for weeks if he really love and miss me, his answer is:“I am just a strong guy”.He said whenever he sees me walk by, he look away because he said it melts his heart.Times I let him see me pass by & he would do something to call my attention to look his way.We made up but it is still true that if not for me walking by where he works, it will never happen.Is he really just a strong guy with high pride or he really doesn’t love and miss me that much anymore.He said he doesn’t mean all the mean&cruel things that he says to me

2006-11-30 17:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by liv 1