Mine had an arranged marriage in 1993. Initially she hated my mom,family. I accepted. I seperated her from family and started living together.Then she started hating me, my job. we have seperate bed for last four years, no physical relation since 8 yrs. Only dilemma is my sons and their future.Pl advise what action I should take. My age is 42 yrs and holding important and high posts in govt.
2006-11-30 17:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by shailesh m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there's no point in living together when things aren't good. if not happy together, at least can stay happy apart.
2006-11-30 17:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why force her to stay in a home that is un-happy. It may be a hard thing for your children to accept at first, but they in the long run will appreciate the fact that you took action. You should show your sons that marriage can be happy and loving, and when that goes wrong that sometimes you need to try again. You are a young man in the reality of life, you should both cut your losses, and move on.
2016-05-23 07:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you and your wife go for some councelling? If that does not work and you really feel that you cannot live like this anymore than find a good lawyer and take a divorce. She might go in for custody of the childeren.
It will be a very difficult phrase in your life. Take care
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-11-30 18:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need your family life just tell her how much u love her .after having two kids she must be busy with kids and your house work take her to candlelight dinner,or for beech walk or for a holidays only u and her nobody else.she need break or show her how mush u love her.
2006-12-04 02:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by sonu m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your possition. Better take your wife to psychologist for counselling. Some times it may work out well. You can know why she hates you.
2006-11-30 17:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by mangayarkarasi K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋