can u hel me how to handle all the condition because i have three baby girls one is mine and two r other wife of my husband
2006-11-30 18:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by humaira k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should go to a family counselor you have little kids involved! If he cheats on you that's not love sweety, it called getting used! love has boundaries but some cross those when they want to act out. In this case he wants to act out in the bedroom, either tell him you guys are getting separated or you go to marriage counseling. Because you want to uphold some type of family setting for your children, so really think this through before you start to approach the situation of cheating!
2006-11-30 18:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by PandGbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think ur have to stay there and take that! just because of the kids, please if I'm going to get an STD then why not have some fun on the out side like he's doing, because he sure as hell can bring anything back to u if ur still sleeping with him! so if that's not what ur won't then u need to move on so ur can be happy!!!
2006-12-01 03:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value fidelity, you shouldn't be with this man any longer because he'll just cause you pain. You're not really responsible for his ex wife's kids, you're just truly bound to your own.
All you have to do is get child support from him and you're basically all set. This day in age, people can be single parents and still provide their child with proper care.
2006-12-01 02:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
living with a cheater undermines ones self worth, and causes people alot of hurt. personally even if i loved him, i would have to divorce him, because the hurt stays long after u forgive them, it's something u never forget. even if they did come home, u would always know that they chose someone else over u, and it wears down our self worth we need to feel good about ourselves. never stay with a cheater, as it does show their true character. and who wants a man they have to share with someone else, not to mention the risks of catching some disease from them, or maybe loosing your life because he got involved with someone who had hiv. focus on your child, and divorce him and move on.
2006-12-02 19:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, why put up with a cheater?
2006-12-01 03:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are the only one who can help yourself and your child. And eventually, your life will NOT include him and his children.
2006-12-01 02:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat on him back.
2006-12-01 02:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by stryc9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
But I bet he can't be bigger than mine :)
2006-12-01 02:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nisha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋