Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2006

All I see is a bunch of racist questions from you black guys. What are you trying to prove? All you prove to me is you are more racist than any white people I know.

2006-11-30 03:04:07 · 11 answers · asked by unionjack07 2

Me and my husband have been together for a while, we have 4 children between each other. He has a son and a daughter and I have two daughters. For the most part we all get along well, all the kids get along well, but sometimes I just get jelouse of my husband and step daughter relationship. I love her very much she has been apart of my life since before she was one, now she is six. Any advice?

2006-11-30 03:03:07 · 23 answers · asked by its just me 3

he knows i am dating my husband but he doesnt know we are married and he is still against me being with him.My mother is aware she says i should tell my father. What do u think

2006-11-30 03:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am always in need of good advise

2006-11-30 03:01:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfirend has made it clear to me that he wants some freedom. Like going out with his friends and stuff. I am ok with that, but he is going out for hours at a time...like last night he left at 5:30 pm and didnt return home until 5am this morning. What do I do to get through to him that this behavior is not of a husband or father but of a tennaged boy? Please help me!

2006-11-30 03:00:52 · 10 answers · asked by hollytaylor_18 2

how can you tell if your bf is cheating on you?...common lies??

2006-11-30 02:54:45 · 14 answers · asked by chastity 1

I have been married to my husband now for three years and i am so unhappy.He gives me anything i could want a new car every year, i live in a big house, and i can buy almost anything i want.I feel so lonley though he is never around he is always at work his pet name for me is kid or the kid wife!it makes me feel like i am being put down.I talked to him about how i felt and he brought me home a dog!I currently know own 3 dogs , a cat, and 4 horses. Any time i bring up how i feel he buys me something the last talk i had with him about how i felt he said why dont we have a baby!This years vacation he could not make so he sending me and my best friend instead.We never go out anymore and when we do its to further himself job wise by net working.I have family and friends that i emotionally compinsate with but i want a husband?Is it me?

2006-11-30 02:53:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am getting married in exactly 4 weeks. it is an arranged marriage & i know her since 3 1/2 months. i think more or less all day long whether things will be fine once we are married.
we are in a long-term r'ship now & have only met once & spend around 2 days together.initially we were in love, but then the love went (from her part). she tells me that once we are married she willlove me probably. but at the moment i am thinking about how this marriage will be all day long.i am one of the best people at work but now i am much the worst performer in work since the last 1 month or so. am i taking too much tension? is it true that mostly love will develop mainly after marriage in an arranged marriage?
me & girl we like each other & we accept each other but r still far away from saying we love each other. (atleast from her part) she had told me stuff initially like she'll be there 4 me till death & try her best to make me happy,etc. but she also says that at the moment she doesnt luv me

2006-11-30 02:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried all ways and means to keep my husband happy. Alhtough I am the only child, I have gone againt my parents wishes, converted from my relegion for him, manage the house and his family inspite of a high presure job.. the list is endless. I have caught him cheating on me for the 6th time now. Should I divorce him??

2006-11-30 02:44:14 · 26 answers · asked by Sam 3

to a wife swapping party, ended up with a pair of cricket pads, a pool cue& a gold fish in a bag, was i ripped off

2006-11-30 02:43:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always thought that, for example, if a married man cheats on his wife with a woman that otherwise has no boyfriend, husband, etc, that the single woman should still be considered a "cheater". I've heard other people say it's only the person in a preexisting relationship to begin with should be called the cheater. What do you think?

2006-11-30 02:41:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Dad is always saying "divorce is a waste of time, anyone i know who has seperated has married someone else who is the very same, albeit a bit younger or something a bit different but more or less the same person"

2006-11-30 02:41:06 · 10 answers · asked by nik 28 3

2006-11-30 02:37:56 · 16 answers · asked by nikkinoo 1

My husband when drinking talks about his x wife how she wanted the divorce and he didnt ,He told me she got into drugs! Well I happen to find a website on court records and wow! The x after there divorce was jailed for 1st degree robbery and burglery ect.and had tons stuff on her record.They were only married 3 yrs.I didnt tell him I saw her record Im just shocked ! Why would he go on about her still?

2006-11-30 02:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by jessy 3

2006-11-30 02:31:58 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6

My brother in law told me and showed me his wifes dildo, and now i look at her differntly. I dont know why he showed me but would you be embarrased if you were the woman in this scenario and she knew i knew?

2006-11-30 02:31:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a husband and for the last 3 months I have been cheating on him with our childrens nanny. I dont know what to do but I have more feelings for our nanny than my husband. Do I tell him or just leave him for big_tits12832?

2006-11-30 02:31:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam married one year ago and from the first day i knew that my husband is not interieting in kissing, i don't know why, ia sked him many times he says nothing then kiss me like he has to, can any one help me and tell me what's wrong with him?

2006-11-30 02:31:16 · 23 answers · asked by sarah_boba 1

My boyfriend has 3 children with his ex-wife. We have been dating for 2 years, he has been divorced for 3. They share a bank account "for their children". He says they both put money in it periodically to use for the children. This bothers me because if him and I were to ever get married he has an account with another woman regardless of the reason. He pays monthly child support to her (ALOT) and his kids all have pre-paid college so I know the money is not used for that. Am I wrong for being irked by the fact that they still have a joint account?

2006-11-30 02:14:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

you are increasing your chances of cheating on your spouse or having a spouse cheat on you after you get married? How's that? You ask. Well, because the issue is not the "sex" part. It's all about self control. If you are intent on fulfilling your sexual desires before you are married, most likely you will engage a sexual partner. Relationship after relationship after relationship. The more people having sex outside of marriage indicate more people lacking self control. The greater your chances of marrying someone without self control. When you are finally married, sex becomes the most important part of the relationship because you have never exercised self control in this area. Either, or, both, the husband and wife's expectations of sex in the marriage are never met, thus infidelity happens......ponder that for a while...

2006-11-30 02:10:54 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

continues to drink from the 2 liter (sp) bottles of coke I buy for the family instead of getting a glass. I had fallen asleep on the couch last night and this morning he obviously thought I was still asleep and I watched him tip up that bottle and take a drink!!!!! I was furious but didn't say anything this time. How can I make him stop doing this?? It is soooo gross!!

2006-11-30 02:06:08 · 41 answers · asked by Corona 5

See recent postings by recon if you don't know what I am talking about.

2006-11-30 02:04:52 · 26 answers · asked by fucose_man 5

2006-11-30 01:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by haqlaj98 1

Hi, I'm a girl, I'm studying degree program in Hong Kong, and I want to have further study after I graduated and get a job in US. But it would be too difficult to just get in US, can anyone tell me that how can I get a green card?

I know fake marriage would be one of the option, but how much would that be, and is anyone who really want to marry you just to help you? How can I know he is a good guy and won't mistreat me after I marry him? And how can I be sure that he won't just tell the immigration right after he got my money?

Please help me, please......
Thank you so much! Thank you so much!

2006-11-30 01:57:34 · 7 answers · asked by Pigyyy 1

actually i livei n pakistan here ratio of losing virginity was very low but these days it has grown to 15%.
tell me exact number dont hide only because asker is a pakistani.

2006-11-30 01:56:23 · 15 answers · asked by sohailahmedrajput 1

I work but am not able to afford a house by myself.I have had a dog all my life until I divorced.Don't want another man.They are not as faithful as a dog.Dogs love you no matter what.They do not fall out of love with you.I miss having a garden also.I loved planting and tending to my garden.Maybe someday again I will have that.For now I pray for it :)

2006-11-30 01:50:26 · 14 answers · asked by waterlover 4

So i am suprising my Fiance with a plane ticket to go on a surfing trip But how can i make it more intresting? Do i place it in a nice envelope ,do i add something with it , leave little hints or what.? I know his going 2 be so excited he wanted to go along time ago and he really needs a brake from work .
Please give me advise on how to make it really awsome

2006-11-30 01:47:47 · 7 answers · asked by bcb 1

are you divorced now or living in a terrible relatonship, or were any of you able to work it out

2006-11-30 01:46:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for almost a decade. He claims I'm the person he loves the most in the world. He thinks the ideal life would be us together with our cat for the rest of our days. He wants to travel the world and just enjoy each other's company. He thinks a baby would bring unnecessary stress into our lives. He has no desire to become a father whasoever. I, on the other hand, want nothing more than to have a family, with kids, not just cats. He thinks I'm selfish for wanting a baby, he says I'm only considering my needs. I think he is selfish for not wanting to give me one. I thouhgt that if a guy really loved a woman, he would want to have her baby. It's not like we're teenagers and just met each other. I love him very much, but I don't know what to do anymore. We're seeing a couple's counselor, but we can't seem to get anywhere. He thinks I'm pressuring him, and I think he's robbing me of the most meaningful experience I could have. What do I do? Help me please!!

2006-11-30 01:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by amaya m 2

I'm a single, 28 yr old and have dated a few married men. They're pretty nice usually but well umm they are married. My friends say i shouldn't date them.

2006-11-30 01:32:40 · 58 answers · asked by Ruth Ann 3