My brother in law told me and showed me his wifes dildo, and now i look at her differntly. I dont know why he showed me but would you be embarrased if you were the woman in this scenario and she knew i knew?
2006-11-30 02:31:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hummm~
Well, I think your brother needs to be slapped! There is a difference between talking about "toys" and showing everyone your personal "stash" I mean, come on! What was he thinking!!??
For me, I am a Passion Partie Consultant... I sell the product, so I am sure everyone that knows me, knows that my husband and I probably have "stuff" But, I would kick his butt if he decided to show his friends or family my personal toys!!
Hope that helps! I would not be embarrassed though. It is part of life!
2006-11-30 03:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by candispassion.com 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would not be mortified that people knew. It's a sex toy that I use and the we use with each other on occasion. It means that we have a healthy sex life. What I would be mortified and furious is that my husband had shown someone my dildo.
OMG!!!
That is to private, and it shows that your brother has no thought concerning your S-I-L's honor and dignity. He has breached the marital trust between he and his wife. Next time you see him you should tell him that he was wrong doing what he did.
You look differently at her because now you know proof positive that she is a sexual being. Yes you knew academically before, but now you know for sure that she know how to pleasure herself. It's kinda like finding out your parents have sex. Don't treat her different, and try to forget about it.
2006-11-30 02:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your brother in law is completely without class, he's a disgusting low life and has no respect for his wife. I also have to wonder why he would show you something so private, and why you would follow him perhaps into the bedroom? How did you respond to such a showing? Were you shocked, did you tell him off? How can you look at this woman differently and judge her when YOU betrayed her behind her back along with her pig husband?!
2006-11-30 02:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ceajae 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well in your situation it is a bit different this is your SISTER and what he did was TOTALLY INAPPROPRIATE I mean come on that is someone you grew up with had fights with and laughed with, told your secrets to and he goes and shows you something so personal. in your situation yes I would be totally embarrassed, but If it were a complete stranger, not at all. I think you need to tell him you were not comfortable with the situation and to please not tell you those things again or show you. How IGNORANT. sorry you had to go through that it must make things awkward when you are around her now.
2006-11-30 03:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would - its suppose to be personal between two loving individuals and now I would think that everytime you looked at me you were picturing me with the dildo! I would be purty pissed if I was the woman in this scenario, your brother in law is inconsiderate. PS i hope its not your sister?????
2006-11-30 02:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the difference sweetie, dildo or fingers. If you have a use and a need for it, what is there to be ashamed of. We all have feelings and needs, and we all find different ways of meeting those needs. Humm, maybe we should get together, I could help you with that!!! Me Male!! G
2006-11-30 02:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by hog rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother in law needs to respect his wifes bounderies. on the other hand. I wouldn't be embarrassed having a chit chat about it infront of friends. As for family, I wouldn't even want them to know I have sex.
2006-11-30 02:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be embarassed if someone was showing off the contents of my toy box, but not by the principal of owning and using sex toys. If it wasn't so common, there wouldn't be so many products, stores, websites, etc.
2006-11-30 02:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by wildheavenfarm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be embarrassed if it was like show and tell, but not embarrassed having one
2006-11-30 02:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by sd_andrea86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both one among my different halves and maximum of my girlfriends over the past 36 years used them (and use them nonetheless, i wager)... yet a great number of ladies individuals don't like them or experience "incorrect" about them.
2016-10-08 00:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋