I'm a single, 28 yr old and have dated a few married men. They're pretty nice usually but well umm they are married. My friends say i shouldn't date them.
2006-11-30 01:32:40 · 58 answers · asked by Ruth Ann 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as you like being single and being used by married men as a vessel for sex, you have got the benefit of your bargain. If you have no self respect (and who would dating a married man they are not married to?) I'd say you have a perfect profession for yourself.....homewrecker and one of the two....hoooker if you accept money or gifts from your married men, a slut if you do not. Either way, not a good label you know what I mean? Good luck honey, your plan is recipe for loneliness and disaster!
2006-11-30 01:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Only you can tell if it's "right" or "wrong". Is marital infidelity something that goes against your values? Do you feel bad for taking part in the deceit of a wife? Maybe you do feel a little guilty, but think the guilt is worth what you get out of the relationship. That's for you to decide; if these relationships are worth the risk. You have to look after yourself. In my opinion, the main risk you are taking is falling in love with a married man. It's well known that they rarely leave their wives for their mistresses because marriage can easily become part of a man's identity. Also, it would be good to do some thinking about the reason you end up with married men. Are you afraid of commitment? Are you setting yourself up for failure? I say this because at this rate you are jeopardizing your chances of a long-term, exclusive relationship. But, on the other hand, if sex is the main things you want out of your relationships, then a married man might be a good option. If they weren't cheating on their wives with you, it would probably be with someone else anyway. Good luck, honey.
And stay away from my husband!! lol.
2006-11-30 01:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by amaya m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell ya you are wrong! You are both wrong but since you asked and will tell you what I think! what the hell is wrong with you even asking this question? You need help! This is the most basic common sense answer...apparently you are lacking this so you are asking. Honey go to therapy. For your children's sake! My husband had a little dirty secret snake like you. He made me out to be some beast too, yet the other women never even met me yet made assumptions and tried to ruin my reputation based on faulty facts. I have no respect 4 women like you. How dare do you call yourself a woman of substance? You are a woman of NO substance. A great mother? what? Are you mental? Bringing a married lover and exposing him to your kids is what a BAD mother does. A great mother keeps unavailable men away from her kids. It also sounds like you envy his wife. Don't hate cuz she may be a model and you obviously have low self-esteem considering the **it hole u are in. You can tell by her pictures how she is? Do you always judge a book by its cover? You also believe the lies this man tells you about her. Why is he with her then? He loves her or he would leave. I would rather model on the net half nude if I had the body than sleep with married man and blame the wife for my immoral actions. You are the BAD woman, not the wife. You are poor excuse for a woman! Go to church, you need help! I
2016-05-23 04:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to judge you, because I don't know enough about you or your relationships. But as for whether or not it's a good idea, I think there are lots of reasons to stay away from married men. There is definately the chance of a lot of drama going down, if you're dating someone who's already attached (like if their significant other finds out about it). Also, lying and keeping secrets will eat away at you, no matter what the situation. And these married men aren't the kind of guys you want to be dating. Sure, these men may act "nice," but think about their character: What kind of man cheats on his wife?
2006-11-30 02:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some woman were to date my husband... I won't go there, my husband has character and he would not let another woman come between us. Apparently, this man is not secure in his marriage and probably being with someone else is leading him down the wrong road, I would say that I hate to say this but I don't... you and the married man(men) are wrong. This needs to be straightened out immediately.
I'll trust that you will do the right thing, find you a good single man and see how that works out you will see that he is fully committed to you.
2006-11-30 01:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by mrsdycus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You should not date a married man. Yes! they could be nice and all that but they would only date you because they want no commitment with you reason is because they are married.
They are indirectly using you to pass time. Nothing good can come out of the relationship; I MEAN NO FUTURE IN IT.
Secondly, put yourself in the shoes of their wives. If the wives should get hints of the relationship how would they feel? How would you feel?
Our motto should be do unto others what you want done onto you and remember what goes around comes around!! Law of karma!!!
2006-11-30 01:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by minny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding me right? I know you already know the answer to this one, But let me entertain this one shall we?
The answer to your question of course is NO. You are not only hurting yourself by doing this, you are hurting whomever may be in this guys life that has a problem keeping it at home. There are many reasons why people will give you why they cheat. Whatever their reasons are YOU don't have to be the receptacle for his "release" shall we say. Questions like this are so simple when you put into perspective that if you wouldn't want it done to you then you shouldn't want to do this to someone else. Married men are great another married man will say because all they are getting from you is sex, sex and more sex.. And if you find yourself involving your heart in this my lady, the only thing that will come of this is destruction. He won't leave his wife for you, so don't find quiet comfort in disrespecting yourself, you deserve way more than that. And so does his FAMILY!... Nothing good will ever come of this. Find yourself a man that is all yours and no one else's.. its easier to look at yourself in the mirror each morning.. Goodluck to you !! ~Kathy
2006-11-30 01:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by kdnh1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he's married that means he's off limits. How would you feel if you were sharing your life with someone and just because someone (partner or mate) had a feeling for them they dated. How F_cked up is that? Or is it you don't care or you have no morals. Okay you asked, now in you infinite wisdom and sole searching is this what you would want for yourself? Make up your mind to either be a good person or a F_ucker. Try to do the right thing please.
2006-11-30 02:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not date a married man. What happens when you fall for him...not to mention you are tearing a family apart. He will most certainly not leave his wife, but if he does...what makes you think that there will be another you in a few months. Just not good for anybody involved. Married people that cheat are just selfish.
2006-11-30 01:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by ransdoll90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some very good friends,giving good advice.
It's never a good thing to get involved with a Married Man or Woman for that matter.
All involved only get hurt in the end....and truthfully could you ever really trust the man....knowing your relationship was built on cheating and lies?
Just a thought
Best wishes
2006-11-30 01:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋