Cheater or not?

Question

how can you tell if your bf is cheating on you?...common lies??

Answer 1

go on the show cheaters they will catch him if he is

Answer 2

You know your bf, so most likely he is cheating if you are thinking that he is. 85% of woman who think that their bf is cheating are right.
Catching a cheating partner is difficult because cheaters have the upper hand when it comes to infidelity. You should observe him carefully and sometimes ask a question. Write down what you observe and monitor and write his answer. You should soon have enough information to see what next you can do, Remember it is not wise to let him know that you suspect him, if he knows it he will be super careful.

Answer 3

They become stand offish

Not as tender

Not as compassionate

Selfish "all about him" "who cares about how you feel"

Hiding his phone

Not wanting to spend the time you used to spend together

Being late

Making excuses after excuses

Being cold to you

Phone rings, he leaves the room

Becomes defensive when you ask him questions

Becomes short with you and don't want to hear it

They don't want to "argue" when your just talking

They don't love on you anymore

They don't care to be loved on

They become distant

Not answering the phone

Not returning your calls

Not wanting to stay on the phone that long

Instinct.. follow it.. if you think it, unless your insecure the whole time your together.. majority of the time your instinct is right!

Wish you the best of luck, keep you head up and don't put up with it.. you let it go once you will continue to let him run over you! Best of luck :)

Answer 4

I was charging my phone, that's why I didn't answer.

I turned it off to watch the game.

I was with the guys, I didn't hear it.

She's just an old friend.

He starts showering and shaving to go out "with the guys"

He stays out late and doesn't call.

He gets angry if you question him about anything. He has lame excuses when he bothers making any.

He seems to be too broke to take you anywhere, but he seems to have plenty of cash when he's going out by "himself"

Doesn't want you anywhere near his cell phone, or e-mail account.

Sex is something you used to do.

If you think he's cheating, trust your instincts. Dump the jerk.

Answer 5

with me it was easy to tell. i didn't know if he really was cheating or not, but i have a pretty good idea. he had this look in his eyes. you could tell just by looking at him that he had something to hide. and i didn't know what it was, but by the way he was always with her ("i'm there to see my SON, i SWEAR!!!") i knew it had to be something with her. and the night he didn't come home, and i knew he was with her cuz i had a friend drive by and the car was there, and the way he lied straight to my face when i confronted him about it, it was over.

otherwise you couldn't tell. except for the eyes, he was the same as he always was.

Answer 6

my brother is a big cheater so i can help you out.if he acts all sweet when he's with you but a butt when he's with his friends. if he has more girlfriends than guy friends he might be cheating on you.if he is talking on the phone with you alot and he says call on the other line. if he says he's busy call back later.he might be cheating on you.

Answer 7

u don't matter anymore, he makes excuses, got to work late, got to work out of town, he disapears for hours and hours, saying he is going to see a friend, but he never spent that much time with that friend before. he no longer acts as if he cares for u, isn't interested in talking to u anymore. can't make eye contact with u. goes into another room to talk. something has changed about him, and u can't put your finger on it, only your intuition tells u things aren't right. he picks fights, insults you, or is especially nice to u, and buys u gifts because they feel guilty about their cheating. finds falt, critical of u, name calls. it feels like they aren't even in your life anymore.

Answer 8

The fact that you are even asking the question is a good indicator that something is wrong with your relationship, cheating or otherwise.

Answer 9

Give it up, you can't. Unless your a mind reader. There is cheating going on in the head. It happens in all guys.

Answer 10

Guys are pretty original when faced with coming up with excuses. Eventually everything comes out in the wash.

Answer 11

Men are dogs and dogs know how to hide there bones really well, so there is really no way of knowing. Maybe if you are lucky you will see some clues.