Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2006

Left after 18 years for internet pal. (see related question from
Jeepster, me). Should hope be held out for eventual return.

2006-11-30 05:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by Jeepster 1

but we still see each other its hard for us to let go neither one of us want to we make each other feel alive an we want to be togather every chance we get

2006-11-30 05:23:40 · 16 answers · asked by tykeriamala 1

I have had it. I love my wife but I cannot breath anymore. I am 33 married 7 years. I do everything for her & she appreciates nothing. I have always been 100% faithful and have never done anything to make her suspicious, but I can't go out with some coworker friends for the first time in more than FOUR YEARS without her worrying some female will get wasted and I will take advantage of her. I am just about the most reliable, trustworthy, friendly, caring, helpful, considerate and polite person you have ever met and I am tired of being told I am none of those things. I have a Doctorate & make great money which she blows and I have never complained about. I have kept myself in good shape while she gained 80 lb, & I have put myself through therapy to learn to deal with it? I am tired of dealing with it.

2006-11-30 05:23:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married my husband because i new he would take care of me financially and i loved him.My parents especially my mom taught me to do this from a young age always saying girls should marry up a class and not down. Now i fear i only fell in love with an image and not the real person.Its been 3 years and i hate myself for marrying to a certain extent for money why do people think it makes you happy?Its caused me nothing but misery for me?

2006-11-30 05:20:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been thinking about it...and i want to know different opinions... if its why?, and if it isn't then what can you do to make things better?...

2006-11-30 05:13:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

like the same thing my friend an i like to go out an have fun when our spouse like to run things we can tell each other anything but we cant talk to our spouse we enjoy each other an sneak to see each other an sneak an talk on the phone is that wrong

2006-11-30 05:13:46 · 14 answers · asked by tykeriamala 1

Neither myself or our daughter could swim. But you were a savy lifeguard and could only save one of us. One of us will die. We have no marriage problems and everythings hunky-dore. Who would you save and why?

2006-11-30 05:12:52 · 11 answers · asked by Reel Homme 2

We have been married for the past two year and have a seven months old baby. My husband loves his little girl but when I see he loves his 13 year old brother( from his aunt but he calls him brother) more than our little baby girl. He is just crazy for him ( I would say he is obsessed) and he buys him anything ( doesn't matter to him how expensive that thing is) whatever he asks for. when I was pregnant he used to go tosee him 3-4 times a week ( he has his pictures every where in a room but I told him that when we have our own baby he has to spend time with our baby now since we have a baby he doesn't get to see him as often as he used to do so he is paying him of for that buying expensive things now (eventhough he buys things for his own baby too) I didn't say anything but I asked him why he seems so crazy for him he said that he consider him as his first kid that means our baby is the second one for him ( this is very hurting to me) how can I make him understand that this is not righ

2006-11-30 05:12:36 · 11 answers · asked by hondolkk 1

it all started when my husband met this girl in a chat room.they had constant talks everyday thru phones and chat.my husband changed a lot towards me ..his personality change from good to bad..to the point he told me he doesnt like me anymore..weve been together for ten years and our relationship was really good and were so much in love with each other not until he got hooked with chatting and then met this girl.

they havent seen each other yet..because the girl lives in our home country.and we are here abroad working.but im sure when my husband goes home..hell find a way to meet this girl personally.

we were married for 6 years but started together when i was still 19 and hes 17.

im really having a hard time right now.and it reallly hurts a lot being rejected and soon to be abandoned.although sometimes he keeps on telling me that he loves me and want our marriage to be intact.
but he cant end his communication with the girl.the girl doesnt mind if hes married.

2006-11-30 05:12:33 · 17 answers · asked by bianca 1

he is constantly contacted by the other woman and tempted? He is married and wants to make it right with the wifey but has been cheating? Any comments please men preffered.

2006-11-30 05:09:11 · 34 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3

I am getting married to a girl who is from my country ..i had an affair before. we had sx together.. she told me she had orgsms 2 times out of 4 sx.. but she really enjoyed it... she told me a kind of orgasm which i never heard or read before... during x i was pting in her also i was breathing on her neck this made her great feeling of ogsm... is it true she has experience such an ogsm? how ever i left her and she was ready to die for me.. i miss her now but i wont get her again... just want to know have u girls experienced the way she told me.. is it true

2006-11-30 05:07:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

it all started when my husband met this girl in a chat room.they had constant talks everyday thru phones and chat.my husband changed a lot towards me ..his personality change from good to bad..to the point he told me he doesnt like me anymore..weve been together for ten years and our relationship was really good and were so much in love with each other not until he got hooked with chatting and then met this girl.

they havent seen each other yet..because the girl lives in our home country.and we are here abroad working.but im sure when my husband goes home..hell find a way to meet this girl personally.

we were married for 6 years but start together when im still 19 and hes 17.

im really having a hard time right now.and it reallly hurts a lot being rejected and soon to be abandoned.although sometimes he keeps on telling me that he loves me and want our marriage to be intact.
but he cant end his communication with the girl.the girl doesnt mind if hes married.

2006-11-30 05:05:08 · 18 answers · asked by bianca 1

We have been apart for 6 months and I want to make this a special Christmas. Divorce is dismissed and we are starting over together. No kids. Been married 3 years.

2006-11-30 05:04:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it just about sex or is it something deeper? If so, what?

2006-11-30 05:00:37 · 12 answers · asked by MikeyNY 1

2006-11-30 04:55:31 · 20 answers · asked by tykeriamala 1

In March of this year, my wife of ten years decided she didn't want to continue our relationship because she just didn't have feelings for me anymore. She said she wants to be on her own and not have the hassle of trying to be happy with me. We've known each other our entire lives and neither one of us has been married to any others. She told me that she has had these feelings for about 3 years, but did not voice them fully until this year. She says that her feelings for me are gone, and she wants to move on without me. I have told her many times that I want to work on our marriage and even go to counseling to fix our relationship. She refuses to do anything about it, other than end it. Have any other women on here had this issue, and is there any information that would be helpful to me in order to save our marriage? God bless.

2006-11-30 04:53:37 · 23 answers · asked by devoted dad 1

2006-11-30 04:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're months away from getting married, and my fear is that our honeymoon will be spent in 2 seperate rooms!! :( Any suggestions?

2006-11-30 04:49:54 · 22 answers · asked by LOinVE 1

I found out this morning that my husband has been checking the Yahoo personals every day as well as visiting teen hardcore porn sites. I don't think he is replying to anything and we have had a difficult first couple of years of marriage involving another man who used to be my best friend who aked me to marry him just after I got married to my husband. I though we were doing really well now, however and that was all over. I'm all over him every day and I'm usually lucky if I can even get him to make out with.me. I'm tall, thin and attractive. Why isn't he interested in making love to me? I've caught him checking the personals before and he said he felt bad and he thought I was going to leave him, since I'm so unhappy in this new town. I shrugged it off because it made sense in a weird way, but he is still checking them! EVERY DAY! Like I said, I don't think he is replying, but how should I feel about him checking them, even if he doesn't reply? Please, helpful answers only.

2006-11-30 04:48:47 · 10 answers · asked by Ophelia 1

over the last couple of weeks i have been unfaitful to my wife with someone from work. I have met this person while my wife was away... I have not had sex however we have kissed.
My wife has now found out about it and is adamant that the marrige is over. To make matters worst we are due to move into our new house on Saturday. It's not looking like we are moving toguether anywhere. I take full blame for what has happened but I don't know why I have done it. My marrige is very solid and preatty good, plus I love my wife very much... I need help finding out why I did it!!

2006-11-30 04:43:44 · 39 answers · asked by AERO001 1

2006-11-30 04:40:49 · 14 answers · asked by ri00 1

2006-11-30 04:40:15 · 26 answers · asked by lutungudahpakesarung 1

I think that we guys have somehow managed to get the better end of the stick.

2006-11-30 04:39:32 · 19 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

Does your man ever bother you if you gain weight? It's just been my experience if I put on 10-15 pounds it becomes an issue.
Does this happen to other people or do I just attract all the a holes?

2006-11-30 04:38:19 · 12 answers · asked by liberty_brooks 1

I mean how come women have so much trouble accepting the "other" woman in her husbands life? Why so much jealousy and competition?

2006-11-30 04:36:55 · 29 answers · asked by ri00 1

i have a sis, 5 years my senior. Sh'es been dating this dude for 5 months now, but "nothing serious" in her words. All of a sudden she's making plans to get married cuz he told her he hasn't had sex in 2 years, because he was waiting for the "perfect" woman to com ( my lil'sis)!?!? I've been her father figure since our fahter died 11 years ago, and i'd sure hate it if this punk is telling her lies just to sweep her off her feet. 2 years w/o sex? Should i believe this crap and let her marry him?

2006-11-30 04:34:02 · 13 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2

Is it normal for a person to want their now ex husband's relationship with the woman he had an affair with to fail? A part of me will always love my ex and the life we had together. However, I will never forget the way he decided to end our marriage - with lies, deception and pain. I have forgiven him - we have a son and we need to at least be civil. Although I will never bad mouth my ex or the other woman to my son I will never be able to forget the pain and anger they caused me and my son. Is it normal for me to feel this way? I am actually a very forgiving person but I cannot forgive her or them together (if that makes sense). I had to forgive my ex but not her. I want nothing to do with either of them or their new life together. Will this change in time or will I always feel this way?

2006-11-30 04:31:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time I ask my husband about a young woman at work he goes bright red. He never goes out and is always home, so I don't think he's having an 'affair'. She is about 25 years his junior and has been married for about one year. I do ask about other people but I don't get the same reaction. What do you think?

2006-11-30 04:29:21 · 13 answers · asked by Curious39 6

2006-11-30 04:24:24 · 23 answers · asked by Wayne S 1

I don't know him really well yet, since they live 500 miles away from us. He's an independent paint and building contractor, he likes to cook, and he loves my daughter. :)

2006-11-30 04:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous