I have had it. I love my wife but I cannot breath anymore. I am 33 married 7 years. I do everything for her & she appreciates nothing. I have always been 100% faithful and have never done anything to make her suspicious, but I can't go out with some coworker friends for the first time in more than FOUR YEARS without her worrying some female will get wasted and I will take advantage of her. I am just about the most reliable, trustworthy, friendly, caring, helpful, considerate and polite person you have ever met and I am tired of being told I am none of those things. I have a Doctorate & make great money which she blows and I have never complained about. I have kept myself in good shape while she gained 80 lb, & I have put myself through therapy to learn to deal with it? I am tired of dealing with it.
2006-11-30 05:23:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One thing I did get out of my marriage was a lot of sex. I am really good and if any of you ladies have ever been on the receiving end of 10 years of sexual angst from a skilled man you will have the time of your life and probably will need to take the next day off work to recover. Watch out ladies – I am going to get laid with as many hot women as I can and do it until I am finished unleashing this frustration.
2006-11-30 05:23:48 · update #1
hahaha...more power to ya!
2006-11-30 05:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have obviously tried talking to her and have gotten no response. You have also attended therapy sessions alone to try to work on whatever issues you may have, so if nothing is working you need to let go and move on. Life is too short and you can only try so much. If the other person is not willing to save a mariage there is nothing you can do. However, don't just jump into sex with as many women as possible because it's not fair to them or yourself. If you are truly the caring person you claim to be you need to end this chapter of your life and move on with hope, optimism, and trust with your next relationship. Give what you expect in return.
2006-12-04 02:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by stormy_one67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I understand how you are feeling. I've been married 10 years and after 5 years my husband had no interest in sex despite the fact that I am a successful small business owner, I have a killer bod from running marathons, and we seemed to have a happy and secure homelife.
It took couples therapy to finally work things out...I'm not going to go into details, it's not important to your case, but what I'm trying to say is that there has to be a reason she is not responding when she has it so good.
I got frustrated like you and went out and had myself a few trysts, and nearly destroyed my marriage. It did nothing to help, only made problems worse. On top of that, I felt so guilty it was horrible. I couldn't stand it.
I think you need to tell your wife exactly what's going on in your head, exactly what you wrote here. If she won't agree to therapy or counseling, well, maybe it's time you both moved on in different directions and it was never meant to be.
But I think you should try to rectify the situation before you totally blow it.
Think about it, and good luck.
2006-11-30 05:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rosebee 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-13 10:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first you mentioned that you was a good man, I do understand you frustration, about it there is nothing more annoying than being faithful being harrased for being unfaithful. But you said that your sex life with her was good, so I don't see why you want to go out there and sleep with that many females. If you are going to do it I hope that you are careful about it, because there are too many viruses are there.
2006-11-30 05:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Halal Pig Ok in Islam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an absolute loser. I hope your wife divorces you and finds a real man to love and respect her because you are not it. Who cares if you have a doctorate? You can't even treat your wife with love and compassion. You have so much deeply rooted immaturity that you're long overdue to grow up. What a waste of skin you are.
2006-11-30 05:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe I missed it but I dont think you asked a question.
2006-11-30 05:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, has King-Ding-A-Ling, stumbled over himself into our midst? Don't hurt yourself buddy.
2006-11-30 06:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk talk talk
2006-11-30 06:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by mark j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋