but we still see each other its hard for us to let go neither one of us want to we make each other feel alive an we want to be togather every chance we get
2006-11-30 05:23:40 · 16 answers · asked by tykeriamala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So you're both married but cheating together? Or it's just you that is married and got caught? If your happier with the other person, leave your spouse and be with the other person. That way your spouse can find someone esle and you can be happy too.
2006-11-30 05:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've both been cheating on your marriages for four years...why? Why are you married?
I think the only thing that would hurt me more than being cheated on is being lied to about being cheated on and being embarrassed by the one I loved most in front of my friends by them carrying on behind my back.
How many ways can you say "dishonor" in your marriage? Don't you ever think about how you would feel if the situation were reversed?
I suggest you try putting the effort that it takes to sneak around behind your husband's back with this other guy into your marriage. Possibly you could recapture some of the excitement and "feeling alive" that you say you get from your illicit affair. If you don't want to do this, for God's sake, have enough respect for your husband to divorce him and let him find someone that really loves him...and you might find someone to hold your attention too.
This isn't right. You're either married or not...or at least agree on an "open marriage" so you both have the same opportunities for "feeling alive".
Good luck!
2006-11-30 13:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by nighthawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forbidden Fruit is always better....now if your spouse leaves u and takes everything how would u feel?He something happens to your spouse and u found out he left u nothing cuz u are so unfaithful...how would u feel? now u have time after your spouse leaves u. U have all the time in the world to be with him but the thrill will be gone then.....i think u all have had your cake and it time to let go. u have hurt your spouse enough and he really luv u cuz he didnt kick u out....grow up and be a real women and not a lil girl lookn for attention......better yet how about u leave your husband and she if your boyfriends wants u then......i doubt it
sorry to be harsh but i need u to see the picture
2006-11-30 13:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u think of ur spouses and not how u make each other feel. im sure ur spouse made u feel the same way when u met thats why u got married i assume why not put ur energy into rekindling those feelings instead of sneaking around and lying. good luck!
2006-11-30 13:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by soshaun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you married? its either you love your spouse or you love the other guy/girl. Either file for a divorce or beak it up with the other guy/girl. I recommmend that you stop seeing this guy/girl. A Marrige is a special bond. After all, thats why u guys got married; you promise to love and care for her/him for the rest of your live.
2006-11-30 13:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce!!! let the other spouses have a chance at the same happiness that you two are having. stop being so selfish!!
2006-11-30 13:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either leave the spouse or the loverr, you have to make a choice before someone gets hurt even more than they already have...
2006-11-30 13:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is.
If you're cheating you should stop it and get into counseling.
A person who cheats and lies can't feel too good about himself.
2006-11-30 13:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its people like you that give married a bad name the one who dont read your married vow next time you go back to the wizard oz scarecrow dont forget what they give you
2006-11-30 13:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both dirtty rotten liars and cheats. If someone will cheat with you then they will cheat on you think about it.
2006-11-30 13:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by Belinda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋