Does your man ever bother you if you gain weight? It's just been my experience if I put on 10-15 pounds it becomes an issue.
Does this happen to other people or do I just attract all the a holes?
2006-11-30 04:38:19 · 12 answers · asked by liberty_brooks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey I'm a guy who's married and love my wife the only way id say something about the weight would be if was affecting her health in a real bad way . other than that if she is happy and feels good so be it . some guys r as$ holes i can be at times I'm no angel but we all have flaws good luck
2006-11-30 05:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by maddog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically its the as$holes who have these issues. If your man really loved u he wouldnt mind, if u keep asking him, his answer should be " if ur comfortable and happy , y should it bother me?" but if he says yeah ur fat lose weight, then he is just using u as some kind of trophy, something to show off to friends, he should first see his flaws and correct them, NOBODY IS PERFECT.
2006-11-30 12:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by serestmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I get in a relationship and I have been in that relationship for a while I tend to mention that all the women in my family are big and then ask them straight up what they would think if I got fat. If they can't continue to love you for who you are as a person, then they never really liked YOU. They just liked your body and that means that you need to find another one. Really good men are hard to find and it may take a little while, but if you are patient he will come. It happened for me. good luck.
2006-11-30 12:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Winnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it bothers me more than anyone else.
If you're happy, then the A holes really dont matter now do they?
2006-11-30 12:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine have never said anything, but i usually just get told i NEED to gain a little weight...
2006-11-30 12:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by acollegeangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it happens to all girls. i don't see what so wrong with it?? it's not like if girls can't lose the wieght they gain. but we have to be careful and not tell them anything about their weight gain cuz then they get all butt hurt about it! but don't worry about it. if it makes you feel uncomfortable then just leave him and find a good guy.
2006-11-30 12:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Purple Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you attract a holes. sorry, but good luck in the future.
2006-11-30 12:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby never says anything,if anything he'd like me to put on a few pounds..
2006-11-30 12:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess I have been lucky and have always have men who like me for who I am inside, not just the loverly outside!
2006-11-30 13:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it happens to all of us.. but it is ok for them to gain weight...jerks
2006-11-30 12:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by >>simple<< 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋