Every time I ask my husband about a young woman at work he goes bright red. He never goes out and is always home, so I don't think he's having an 'affair'. She is about 25 years his junior and has been married for about one year. I do ask about other people but I don't get the same reaction. What do you think?
2006-11-30 04:29:21 · 13 answers · asked by Curious39 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ollie..... I didn't ask him if he fancied her, I asked about the people at work and I use their names because I used to work there myself. I don't ask everyweek how everyone is, I only ask now and again.
2006-11-30 04:55:14 · update #1
Catavella... you made me laugh
Sandra r.. you're sweet and that is how he would think
2006-11-30 04:58:57 · update #2
just because we love someone and are faithfull to them doesn't mean we stop finding others attractive. perhaps he feels guilty for being attracted to her
2006-11-30 04:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by serephina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's attracted to her. Wouldn't you feel embarrassed knowing you had an attraction to someone that your spouse was talking about? But you say that you don't think he's being unfaithful, so it doesn't really matter. It's just a physical attraction that won't go anywhere anyway, but makes him feel awkward. Maybe you shouldn't bring her up too much since you know it makes him feel bad.
2006-11-30 12:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mid life crush, nothing to worry about. Now the motorcycle, that is something......
2006-11-30 12:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has been flirting with her maybe he has a small crush on her nothing to worry about men go through the 7 yr crazy's!!
2006-11-30 12:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I used to do this all the time when I was a kid, even when I wasn't guilty!
2006-11-30 12:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by crimson king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody has a crush on some jailbait.
2006-11-30 12:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Chazz Drizzler 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He has a tiny crush on her, but don't worry its going no where.
2006-11-30 12:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having her over the photocopier in the back office.....
But then again maybe he just fancys her.....
2006-11-30 12:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He might have a crush on her and doesn't want you to know.
2006-11-30 12:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked HIM? He's simply unable to hide his obvious interest.
2006-11-30 12:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋