If you check out porn behind your g/f or wife's back, does that mean that you don't love or respect her, Does it mean that you fantasize about the porn when you are in bed with your wife. What does this mean to you about your relationship with your wife. Help, just need some advice.
2006-11-30 18:56:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way, we have sex ALL the time. I do take care of him. Please no smart-*** comments. Real men only answer this question with dignity and respect.
2006-11-30 19:10:10 · update #1
I am not asking this question for me, I am asking because I have way too many friends that complain about it. SO STOP ATTACKING ME!!!! I'm asking what is so tempting about porn to a guy. Please stop getting offended, I'm not attacking anyone, I promise.
2006-11-30 19:25:44 · update #2
well where to begin, if a guy is looking at porn behind his wife or girlfriends back it doesn't mean that he doesn't respect or love her, there's really no reason at guy looks at porn other than just to look at it, i mean i heard that men think of sex alot so basically it's programmed into our brains, but yet if a guy is looking at porn on the internet then just be glad that he's doing that and not actually going out and cheating on them.. you know. If you find your husband or boyfriend is looking at porn then just tell him how you feel about it.
2006-11-30 20:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by The_World_Is_Mine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a need to watch and see the act of sex. It's not just looking at other women, they are more interested in seeing women or a woman perform the act of sex with another man or men or several women together. It's just the way their brain is wired, but don't play into that old myth that it's just men that are that way, the majority of women get arroused by veiwing porn as well! The difference between women and men are... women have to be in the mood first, most of the time,.,,For men, veiwing it puts them in the mood!
2006-12-01 07:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by vocalick210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question! What it means is that when you first met your husband, you had sex with him 34790523495342 times a week, but after he married you, you took control of that activity and decided that now he only deserves it say, once a week, and then subtract one more week for say, every 2 years that you are together. Well guess what sweety, you turned him into what you now want to call a discussing sex pig, and I hate to say it, but his tool still works the same as it did when you first bribed, I mean met him, so he has a choice of making a fool out of himself and begging you every night in hopes that you will say yes just one of those 7 nights, or he can yank it and just accept sex from you when you feel he has done enough work around the place and deserves a 'hurry up and get it over with because my show is starting' treat in the bedroom. So yes, as you may see by my name, we do yank it, and some of us yank it alot. But no, those pictures do not take the place of you, we do not think about those girls when we are with you, we just need a little something to get us started when we are having great sex ALONE! So just be happy if your husband is a yanker, because if he was not yanking it, I can assure you he would be getting it somewhere else, which would be much more terrible. Now if you want to help curve his bad habbit of abusing himdelf, maybe you could get off the couch and spend a little more time doing what was good enough to attrach him in the first place with him again. Trust me, it is not easy being a man. But most of us try to stay faithful, and a majority of us do, but we could not do it as easy without those photos on the net, in the magazines or on the premium channels after 10 at night.
2006-12-01 03:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2006-12-01 18:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who seek out pornography (in all its forms) are selfish. Sex is supposed to be about giving and sharing, not taking. But that's exactly what pornography is: men looking to receive sexual satisfaction, not to give it.
It doesn't mean that the man doesn't love his wife, but he damages his relationship with her everytime he seeks sexual arousal from other sources. The more he does it, the more women become mere toys to him. He will be unable to become emotionally intimate with her.
Women should be very concerned about this. And they should realize pornography can become an addiction and treat it the same way they would treat any unhealthy addiction.
2006-12-01 08:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know let me first say that there are many perverts and sicko men out there who do have an addcition to internet porn...However, if your husband is not one of these wierdos don't worry so much. I like many other guys on here love women. I like to see them, touch them and just generally love them. So.....just because us guys check out the babes on the internet doesn't mean we are unhappy with our marriage and wives. Your husband just may be your typical dude who likes women. Relax, that is of course he is one of those super wierdos that dreams about stuffing red rubber balls in your mouth. Have you ever thought that you may be kinda insecure about yourself and it is making you all crazy? Just a thought.
2006-12-01 07:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by jeffzster 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its just a characteristic of men. Women are more prone to gossip, for example. Porn is harmless if its in moderation. We are pigs, and believe it or not, you women love us for it, then become disgusted by it.
2006-12-01 04:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means the g/f or wife isn't doing it in the bedroom.
2006-12-01 03:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋