2006-11-30 18:23:19 · 10 answers · asked by suki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No problems, it was really easy....
2006-11-30 18:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I have gone through a divorce. Actually, the 1 year anniversary of our "legal divorce" date was yesterday, the 29th. She left me in July, 2 days after 2 of my best friends were buried. She lied, cheated and absoluted destroyed me, and don't even get me started on all of the sacrafices I made for her and her family.
I didn't handle it very well. First off, I didn't sleep or eat for almost a week. I've drank way too much. To top that off, I slept on my couch for over 2 months after she left, because I couldn't bring myself to sleep in our bed. In the beginning, what little sleep I did get was due to the bourbon. Otherwise, my mind wouldn't slow down enough to fall asleep. Unlike most people, I never fought, yelled or was hateful with her. I was WAY TOO hurt to be that way. I just tied myself to the whipping post and took it. It's been nearly 18 months since she left, and I am still hurt. It's not because I want her back, but because I don't understand how someone I loved and gave everything to could hurt me so bad. I wish you the best. It's some kind of horror that I never imagined.
In the end, everything happens for a reason. I am better off without her. She did me a favor, but it is still hard to accept that someone could hurt me so bad.
Holla at me if you wish!
2006-12-01 02:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not gone through a divorce yet but in a middle of one and they way im handling it is thinking of me and making sure im happy. Its hard and can get very depressing but you'll get through it. good luck
2006-12-01 02:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by yourangel558 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With dignity and pride.
Dignity because I have two children from that marriage and wanted them to know this isn't the end of the world and we will be fine and pride because I got away from that abuse and my children will not grow thinking that was ok.
It's takes time to get over things but in the end you are a much better person.
2006-12-01 02:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going through one now, time has to pass 4 u 2 heal. Surround urself with ppl who love u! Don't let the green monster overcome you...b strong this 2 shall pass. I have great friends and family who surround me with love!!!
2006-12-01 02:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very well, because I initiated it. I believe those that MAKE the choice do not have a problem.
However the other partner doesnt usually do as well. Since rejection is not something one handles with ease.
2006-12-01 02:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
50-50 and don't look back .It takes awhile to get over the hate then you start missing them , some times you go back to them just long enough to remember why you left them in the first place ,then it is really over .
How long you were married and how many children and were you abused all makes a difference .
2006-12-01 02:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A knot in my gut for several weeks!
Even now, (after 6 years), I can still get a gut knot if I dwell on it!
2006-12-01 02:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was so happy and those were the happiest days of my life - when i finally moved away from my ex husband. was partying a lot, made a lot of new male friends, was travelling a lot. so the best time of my life.
2006-12-01 02:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a party!!!
2006-12-01 04:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋