my husband has just said that for xmas he,d get me some gold hoops from Argos so i found a pair.Bloody gorgeous 18inch hoops (9ct gold!!!) but he said that theyre tacky and will only get me the 8inch!!!!Well im mortified.I love the way the big hoops pull me down so far to the pavement that i can actually lick my own stilletos.Anyway i think i could definatly divorce him on the grounds of emotional abuse.Im just not having it.Its not like we dont have the money ...i mean we get enough with the giro every week.Ive given him 6 kids and this is the thanks i get.What do you think?
2006-11-30 23:26:00 · 36 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Argos earrings are magic though remember, so it doesn't matter what size they are. They're magic because they turn green and they turn your ears green after about two hours of wearing them!! Wow!! I have a brilliant idea, if your pig of a husband won't buy them for you, why don't you just get one of your 6 kids to steal them for you!! Then, they can get an asbo if they're lucky. Asbo's are the height of cool don't cha know?!
;)
2006-12-01 01:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jellytot 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound good. I do hope that you put your foot down. I simply can't imagine why any normal person would have a problem with his/her partner going on a weekend trip with a friend. Your husband should be happy for you. Instead, he is ruining this experience for you by making it stressful and all about him. His behavior seems very controlling and selfish. What is worrying is that YOU are the one asking us if you're being selfish. I don't want to overreact here, but my first thought is that you need to have a long, hard think about your marriage. Do you often find that you suppress your needs / wishes to keep your husband happy? What I'm getting at is that a very common sign of an abusive relationship is when a person feels in the wrong for having normal needs / wishes. You need to have interests and friends outside your marriage. You will be happier and more interested in life, you will provide a good example for your daughter of how to be in a relationship and have a life, and marriage will be stronger for it because you'll have interesting things to talk about with your husband. Bottom line: whatever he is objecting to here--you showing some independence, you having interests and friends that don't involve him, having to step up and do extra housework and childcare for a few days, you getting to do something fun--is a problem. He should be happy for you, period. You need to stop discussing this. You're a grown woman, not a child for him to control. You want to go away for a few days. It sounds like you never have treats or fun without him. You should tell him, "I'm sorry that you're being so negative about this, but I'm going. I don't understand why you are not happy for me. I don't understand why you are not willing to step up and deal with things at home while I have this treat." And if I were you, I'd start thinking hard about whether you are happy in your marriage right now. Maybe there are some issues you and your husband need to explore?
2016-05-23 07:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly if you have 6 kids, then your giro is definitely worth it. Can we get together? I already have 3 wives, but hey, I would definitely provide you with a good quality mattress, wife number 4 left, so you can have it. I would buy you the 18inches, it's the least I can do. Oh I have managed to secure a council house, and the Daily Mail has already asked for a photo tour, something about benefit boy screws the system and middle england at the same time.
Call me on 0845Piky
2006-12-01 00:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Des does it for the ladies 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear God, you lot couldn't spot a wind up if it were staring you in the face (as this post most certainly is). Come on, didn't you spot the 9 inch then 18 inch hooped earrings?
*sighs* I despair.
2006-12-01 00:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yep i completely agree wiv u. the b*st*ard is robbing u of 10inches! maybe if u gave him another 6 kids he might appreciate u a bit more! wow imagine the size of ur giro wiv 12 kids! u`d be able to move out of that pokey 8 bedroom detached town house into a mansion! oh my god i feel a party coming on here!
2006-11-30 23:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by graham f 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Do you get everything you want or you want a divorce. I feel sorry for your husband and kids. Get a life. You need to think about someone else beside yourself for a change.
2006-12-01 00:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But remember love, when he won the lottery,bought and wrecked the cars for your enjoyment ,went and done time,and sold all his bling ,he was always there for you,so stick on your best tracksuit and stiletto's and take him for a night out down the trailer park.
2006-12-01 01:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by live life 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you're only getting 8 inches for your hoop? The rotten cheapskate! Dump him now and find a man who can meet your needs.
2006-11-30 23:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe Mr Pig just wants to pull you down half way for his own pleasure - pulling you down all the is probably why you have six kids! ;)
2006-11-30 23:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by max 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid nelly I am sure there are plenty of geezers out there who will take on yer kids (and yer 350 odd quid giro)
2006-12-01 08:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by t00t5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋