Marriage & Divorce - 23 November 2006

Ive been with my fiance for over a year now and everything has been perfect. He makes my life complete and he does everything in his power to make me happy. Hes my whole world and I cant imagine what Id do without him in it... Hes been a father to my daughter and such an inspiration to me. We are 3 months shy of our wedding date and we have already spent thousands of dollars on that. He tells me he loves me everyday. He has been so devoted and he is so dearly loved. A week ago, while I was at work, he packed his things up and when I got home he was gone. No note, no call, nothing. I called him but he never picked up. 2 days later he finally answered and told me it was over because it has to be and to forget all about him and to move on with my life. Why? I cant just do that? He says he was unhappy and I shouldve just known but I swear he never showed a thing. How do I move on when my everything is gone? Why is he doing this? Will I ever get him back? How can he hurt my child this way?

2006-11-23 23:33:39 · 17 answers · asked by Candice 1

2006-11-23 23:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by dandoon 1

Ok i went over my ex;s house last night to confront her about her sleeping with some guy !

Well it got out of Hand and she hit me and then i hit her back ! I know its wrong of me but i was drunk and she really got to me ! How long will i get sent to Prison for as im really scared. Thx

2006-11-23 23:31:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'v been married for 13 years and I love my husband dipley. I belived him so much but I just found out that he allways had other girls to talk and have sex with.He sas that that was accident eventhough he continuosley meet and ...He had a lot of money but dasn't have anymore.He dosen't have girls anymore as well He say that he love me.What should I do I dont wont to brake my kids hart but I gonig krazy Is there any help

2006-11-23 23:24:50 · 11 answers · asked by R P 1

my introduced me to his ex-wife without a title. he just stated my name and his ex-wife's name. i was hurt coz it seems he is not proud that i am his wife now. i asked him why - he told me he was confused on how to introduce us - like this is my present wife and this is my ex-wife. is it still a need to introduce her as ex? why not the mother of my kids? maybe he is still concern about his ex-wife feelings that she might hurt or something? i knew his ex-wife thinks i am just his girl coz everyday she screams at my husband over the phone without any reason. thus, my husband's day is ruined. maybe she was threatening me that she is still the control and i must leave. but i cant, i am the wife. am i just irrational?

2006-11-23 23:21:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 23:17:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is an auto mechanic. he fixes all our cars including his ex. i understand though coz his kids are riding with her all the time.everytime her car broke, she will borrow my car. But now, the kids are riding the bus. She seldoms drop them off in the morning at the bus stop (as what the kids told me) and pick them rarely if they are late in school to go home. The kids are nice to me by the way. I told my husband since the kids are riding the bus, if her car broke then let her ride the bus, too or rent a car. So, one day her car broke, he fixed it just in one day. when in fact if that was his relatives, it will stay for a week. so , i told him that ' your ex-wife is spoiled. you are still concern about her. you know she will not ride a bus, so you find ways not to. but your kids does'. am i right that he is still concern about her and not only his kids? of course im concern about her safety but since the kids are riding a bus, why cant she?

2006-11-23 23:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone used an online divorce service? Was it any good?

2006-11-23 23:12:17 · 6 answers · asked by soggykipper 2

My lover asked me do u want banana and he smiled at me? there wasnt any banana on the table while we were talking.. what does he mean?

2006-11-23 23:07:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man and a woman from West Virginia get divorced are they still Brother and Sister?

2006-11-23 22:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

will some one please help me. its been two months since my split. i still love him. we have spoken and he has made it clear its over. i dont want to seem despreate. - he thinks i am. my love is pur and genuine so were does desperate come from. anyways im doing well - atleast i thought i was... some days am good others am not. i think am going a little loco. my mental health is being effected. can someone please help and advise as appropriate?

2006-11-23 22:51:30 · 35 answers · asked by apple 1

My husband told me that the reason why he is carrying my daughter with him on holiday is because He thinks I do not have the initiative to take care of her when he is gone and does not know what I am going to do because I am pregnant again.All of his female friends and relatives including his mom are single mothers and he seems to be comparing me to them and what they have to do to get things together. I also work full time.
I was absolutely torn when he said this.
Am I being a bad mother if he decides that his financial status is more important than his family and I choose not to do things that my father sorted when I was young e.gDIY and helping with chores when mom was pregnant or ill
P.S I had to tell him that he was treating our son like his father treated him before he could actually spend time with our kids

2006-11-23 22:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

kisses

2006-11-23 22:24:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

kisses

2006-11-23 22:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife & I have been together for 3 years and since we've met she has let herself go. She has gained over 70 lbs since we met and the weight gain continues. When we "try" to make love, it is almost impossible for me to stay with it because.....there is no attraction. I love her but hate how she seems not to care about herself. I'm afraid that if I tell her it will only get worse cause she'll get depressed.....help me!

2006-11-23 22:14:28 · 23 answers · asked by makeurday 1

court?

2006-11-23 22:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can a men marry a women elder to him? Is this right or against nature? Can he&she lead a happy life? Can they satisfy each other both in love and sex? Will the society accept this?

2006-11-23 21:57:39 · 13 answers · asked by Danndy 1

2006-11-23 21:55:56 · 12 answers · asked by unpretty_gm 1

when your wife is not with you or she is sick

2006-11-23 21:43:49 · 10 answers · asked by sanjay 3

how can i find my reallove?help me pleas

2006-11-23 21:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by medo fahmy 1

2006-11-23 21:27:35 · 25 answers · asked by nitu k 1

i was in love 7 months ago with a girl & i was going to marry her. we were really in love with each other & were 100% willing to get married. but then i made the biggest mistake in life & i lost her. anyways she didn't forgive me & she ended the r'ship despite me fighting like anything to get her back. that then was over over. 3 months ago, i met another woman (thru family) & we like each other but we don't necessarily love each other. we are not dying for each other but we do wanna get married. But I wanna marry her not really b'coz I love her but b'coz I am alone here (in UK) & feel extremely lonely & I need a wife. We were in love initially (for a month) but then it cooled off. She is abroad at the moment & so we are having a long-distance r'ship now. We think things will be fine after marriage but not 100% sure, but we are wiiling to face the pros & cons of marriage. This marriage is def. taking place, but do u think this marriage will work out fine? it means everything to me.

2006-11-23 21:21:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

A man37 is with a woman36 on and off for 12 yrs and they share 3 kids. The man cheated in the past and isnt ready to be married;now he says"she deserve to get married, but im just not ready. Its not a refelection on how much i love her its that im just learning how to be to be a good boyfriend.Here is the disagreement between me and my mother. My mother says if he is being honest then its her decision and that she knows a few who did it longer than 12 years and know woman who still does and she rather a man telling her the truth about who is having sex with while in a commited relationship than to see him and and another woman. Daughter: As far as the other woman I think it would hurt even if he was being honest or not, when another person is openly sleeping with people its no longer a serious relationship and STDs are real and espAIDS. I feel like if a man tells me I complete him+I have given birth to kids then why not marry? Who would you agree with Mother or Daughter? HELP Plz!

2006-11-23 21:09:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 34 and have a nine years old daughter ...

2006-11-23 21:00:33 · 11 answers · asked by zoobin 2

2006-11-23 21:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by dream_gal 1

2006-11-23 20:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by uma 2

And I'm not talking about the kind of woman who thinks the guy is going to leave his wife.

2006-11-23 20:43:37 · 9 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

2006-11-23 20:42:00 · 17 answers · asked by depressedRen 2

i ahve reached a point of no return in my marriage. it will nevr work out this am sure of after 5 years into it.

can someone tell me how you go about ending it? do u just walk out, do u say goodbye? do u write a letter ? how do u do it. there is a 3 year old child involved here.

2006-11-23 20:17:25 · 5 answers · asked by Essie 2

completly blown off... nothing to work with

2006-11-23 20:00:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous