hubby fell in love w/ sum1 else while we were in a 1 month cold war,said its over but is it really?Can he?

Answer 1

once a cheat always a cheat.

Answer 2

This can happen. I had so many cold wars with my X that I finally left and found a women who don't like nor start cold wars. The best thing to do is not to have cold wars, but it is too late for this one. If he is the cause of the cold wars, then let him go. He isn't worth it anyone. You cannot stop anyone from doing what they want, so look around, find someone you are compatible with. Even with my X, there was never a month long cold war.

Answer 3

yes it can happen just like that, but chances are he was already cheating way before the cold war began, the cold war is just the reason he gives to justify his misdeeds. he has been planning it before all this happened. he was already seeing her. yes he can do it, but he was already gone way before the war began. u just failed to see it coming. but men are so good at the cheating game, women too. it is often impossibble to see. the other woman just has the upper hand, and is pulling all of the strings. let her have him, cause there is not much u can do or say that he will listen to, he has already told himself he is finished. ofcourse the other woman has alot to do with it. yes it does hurt terribbly to think we know someone so well, only to find out we never knew them at all. yes it is quite possibble, as i said he had her way before your argument began. he has been plotting and planning for awhile. he left now because she mostlikely had to get rid of her partner first, and they just finalized their plans. yes it's been one big conspiracy, against u. try and get some help, cause it is very hard to move past when you've been betrayed. we have a tendancy to blame ourselves, and wonder what we did wrong, but in reality it is all about him and the other woman. we just have to distance ourselves from him, and realiaze he may not come home.

Answer 4

My fiance and I met when he was married. Technically, he still is married, though they have been living seperately now for 7 years. She committed adultery (common knowledge) before he and I met, and while we had a break up for a few years (after the seperation- due to distance) we are together now, and are in the process of filing the divorce papers (she is involved in this also). I don't suggest the fish or cut bait ultimatum, however ask specific, direct questions about their impending divorce if you have any, and don't accept 'political' answers. If all you get is run around answers that don't satisfy you, after openly telling him your concerns, seriously reconsider this situation. Don't second guess your gut instinct.

Answer 5

Whether or not it is over is a mute point at this time, wouldn't you say? Get into counseling and stop obsessing on something that may not have even been.
Could he....sure....did he? Give hm the benefit of the doubt and be happy if you can. Your happiness does not depend on either of you knowing every detail of either of your lives.

Answer 6

sounds more like a 1 month stand...how can you fall in and out of love with someone in 1 month? keep an eye on that one for sure.

Answer 7

sorry to hear that, but it is a matter of choice. he must have met this woman long before the cold war. be strong... & never let life end coz he said it's over... life is full of adventures.

Answer 8

yes. definitely he can. i married a man who had been on trial separation with his wify, just moved out for 2 weeks , met me in a night club - 2 years later we re married she is completely forgotten. so if u have a royal stud man - watch it girl, it is a needed material nowadays

Answer 9

If you are financially independent walk out with your chin up. If you are not and if you can make him agree to it try to forgive him and rebuild your relationship.It may just be a passing phase

Answer 10

you cannot be sure of this but in my opinion you just have to trust him and sit down with him and talk about it