Marriage & Divorce - 23 November 2006

im sorry you guy this is my first time online and i;'m upset because i have to live with problem for another month .i thought you could help ease my mind alittle. like i said before no kids, married 16 years he was on drugs , and work for a local hospital in philly and losted his job he was supervisor. i got sick from stressing out he didn't take care of me i took care of myself i am a nurse a local hospital too and i love my job 17 years here . he raped me when we had sex last but i didn;t tell because i was sick now i;m much much better it's just my lawyer said i have to be separted for 2 years and in January 07 will make 2 years of separation i just can't. but i;m i to do now he hasn't talked to me in 6months we communcate by writng notes we share a joint account together so we pay the bills of the house but this last week he has been late with the money i wrote a note to him and i told him that the money was short he said just keep putting my money and don't worry about it

2006-11-23 07:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 07:52:19 · 3 answers · asked by lukie 1

my mum and dad where divorced but my dad came back to support us children (4 of us), i always knew he was dreadfully unhappy but he never left. we even told him we wanted to see him happy rather than be stuck with my mum who never let up on him.my mum begged him back cos she couldnt cope with us.my mum used him for his money and im very bitter of the way she treated him.but im angry that my dad put up with her when he knew he had our backing? why do people do it to themselves

2006-11-23 07:51:34 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive was with my girlfriend 3 years she was my everything and we split up 2 months ago. Since then Ive just got wasted everynight I cant stop thinking about her, even when i sleep i dream about her. I cant take it no more i want to end my life, ive been to the doctors and told him how i feel, he put me on anti depressents and they havnt helped. Im ony 21 and i know ive go the rest of my life ahead of me but i cant take the pain any more all my friends have partners and it just brings back memorys when i see them together.

2006-11-23 07:47:53 · 23 answers · asked by soma 1

u sell them to him?????

2006-11-23 07:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by zdak88 1

I dated my husband for almost 6 years and finally we decided to get married. We got married this January but everything changed after that. I was under so much stress when I was dating him but because of his Short Temper I never had a chance to discuss our problems with him. I didn't get married in the UK but when I came back here it was never ending stress for me. I have a friend who lives abroad and we started talking about my problems...things got very mixed up since then as my husband thought I was cheating on him. He wanted me to choose between him and my good friend abroad, which I refused. Since then my husband started abusing me very badly and we decided not to live together. Now I want to apply for a divorce when my first year is Completed but I have no idea how much it's gonna cost me. I have got no kids, no property attached to him. So guys and girls if there is any of you out there who got divorced recently any advice is really appreciated?? Thanks.

2006-11-23 07:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by PinkPanther 1

In order to maintain his man close to her...

2006-11-23 07:36:33 · 5 answers · asked by Potitin 5

My husband used to spank me during sex. I told him to stop. It made me feel uncomfortable. Do some men do this to feel that they are in control? Is he a sadist? Does he feel pleasure while doing it? That kind of act is not welcome in my life. I am glad he stopped at once and forever.

2006-11-23 07:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why?????????????!!!!
i KNOW im so irresistably gorgeous, and She cant get enuf of how i smell but DAMN...she is going 2 EAT MEEEE!!!!!! lol.

2006-11-23 07:20:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I am going insane.Can't stop thinking about my husband who left me 3 months ago to live on his own. I caught him cheating but he said he left because he needed time to be on his own. He had been phoning every night and coming over every weekend but wouldn't commit to the marriage, he wanted to have an open relationship with me, I think. Anyway, it was a comfort to have his come over, now I have blown it because I have been saying to him that perhaps he should stop coming over if he doesn't know what he wants because he is confusing me etc. I am finding it difficult without him as we were married for 19 years and he was my everything.I have phoned him twice this evening and he has his phone switched off so I am thinking that he is up to no good. I know that its nothing to do with me what he does, but he had been giving me hope one day and then the next taking it away, I thought perhaps he was too proud to want to come back, but it looks like he means to stay away for good.

2006-11-23 07:09:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a prob,my mother in law had a stroke 2 weeks ago and lives with my sister in law.But now she is saying that WE(My wife and me must look after her)
WE BOTH go to work Fulltime!!I have 216 hours under me this month,and my wife has 116.She doesn't go to work.
And now she is saying that WE have to redecorate the house,because We are working(I've got a bag on she wants me to pay and she can have the good life!!!)

2006-11-23 07:02:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 3 years and i have a 20 month old daughter. i have a family and friends who love and support me and for some reason, this guy just blows my mind away. when i'm with him, i feel like all the stress that's on my shoulders is gone. he helps me forget my position as a wife and mother and respected family member. i've loved him since we were kids and we share this connection, i just can't explain it. The funny thing is, i would never leave my husband for him and i feel like i just use him as my escape. Do you guys think this is right? am i totally unfaithful? no one knows about us. we see eachother once a month and just chill. what do you guys think?

2006-11-23 06:52:14 · 25 answers · asked by SD 1

spending the money she gets for child support on my daughter

2006-11-23 06:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by riovannes 1

please send it on my yahoo-id actually i know only that in hindus boy marry mother's brother's daughter,so..............thanx...........!

2006-11-23 06:37:41 · 17 answers · asked by К°~т° 2

April i was supposed to have gotten married to my college sweet heart but he called the wedding off 4 hours before it was supposed to take place and told me he needed space and time to think. We have not spoken since that day and recently he left a message now he has left 3 wanting to speak to me again saying he loves me still and he never meant to hurt me.

2006-11-23 06:10:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I'm just wondering if I am reading too much into this whole thing. I've been dating a man, who I've known for 10 years, about 6 months now. Since the beginning of this relationship I have had a problem with the fact that he is not divorced. He is legally seperated and has been for over two years now. The first excuse was money, so I printed out fee waivers. The excuse now is time but he really has plenty of it. I hate nagging and I hate that he is annoyed by me bringing up the subject but I cannot and do not feel comfortable being in a relationship with someone who is still legally married (seperated or not). Do I have a right to be pissed off? Or am I blowing things out of proportion?

2006-11-23 05:57:43 · 5 answers · asked by snow_sammy 1

thruth and has real proplems good bye every one

2006-11-23 05:41:40 · 16 answers · asked by hotmail 1

My friend has been married to her husband for 19 years.they have 4 kids all boys.about 3 weeks ago she found out her husband has been cheating on her with a co-worker. which he just lost his job because of this.now mind you this is after having been to marriage counciling for 6 months before this affair. he totally lied about alot of things about the affair.he tells her he loves her and only her and wants to make this work. he says sorry over and over. after a few days she found out all the facts and truth about the affair from the other women. he told her that the other women didnt mean anything to him even tho this went on for 4 months. when she recently went into his phone the other girls number was still in there but under a mans name. they are going to try marriage counciling again. She is really confused. What should see do? and what about the boys?

2006-11-23 05:40:39 · 22 answers · asked by d b 1

He has always been a night person, and clubs, from a teen. He's 35 yrs old now. We've always also had the argument about how late is late. I'm just concerned because I don't want our kids to think staying out till the morning is normal, every week. I tell him that this isn't good for the kids to see, but he says it's only every week or so.

2006-11-23 05:18:56 · 30 answers · asked by Deb B 1

Maybe once or twice a year in an argument, he will bruise my arm, or throw something at me. Last time I was in the shower and he kept 'snapping' me with a wet tube sock.
In the heat of it I think "I cant do it anymore" but then I remember how sweet he is and how hed do anything for me.
Guys always beat my mom , but bad, and she could never talk to them about anything or they would get mad, she'd have to walk on eggshells around them. But my relationship is not like that.
Should I leave?

2006-11-23 05:08:23 · 31 answers · asked by roxy 4

2006-11-23 04:56:24 · 20 answers · asked by â?¥Snafu 1

2006-11-23 04:45:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My B-day is saturday and my husband is going to be working his 2 jobs all day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this will be the first time he doesnt spend time with me on my B-day!!!! Im soooo depressed!

2006-11-23 04:44:32 · 25 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1

i love my wife very much. she love me too. but when i work in other country, and she found out something about my exgirlfriend. then she want to separate with me. i really dont know what to do. she doesn't answer my call and reply my messages. i sent my all salary to her. she was not like this before. i really dont know what happen to her. and i explained all my past to her before we got married. we love each other very much before i went to work in other country. i gave her what she want. i dont know how to do?

2006-11-23 04:41:40 · 4 answers · asked by zhang t 1

look at their other asked questions!!

2006-11-23 04:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by rach b 1

2006-11-23 04:36:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married for 11 years with a beautiful and young woman who I used to believe to be in love with. However, it's been 6 months I've been dating her grandma. Anyone would wonder: "Why would you leave a young woman to live with an old one?". However, I just don't know how to explain the atraction I feel for her. I always felt atracted by the older women but I never had an oportunity to take a chance on one of them. And now, this 89 year old woman came along and I guess I fell in love with her. Despite her age she's just amazing, she fills me up and everytime I see her I get horny. Besides she allows me to do things I always wanted to do in bed such as anal sex without condoms (as there's no risk of her to get pregant anymore).
However, though I'm very happy for being with her, I don't know if I should tell my wife the truth. I'm not pretty sure if leaving my wife to stick with her grandma would actually be the right thing to do. I fear our family reaction also. What should I do?

2006-11-23 04:32:00 · 47 answers · asked by Myself 1

2006-11-23 04:20:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to Wales to marry someone I met on the Internet. Am I going to be happy? Did I find my soul mate? Is it going to be wonderfull? I am sooooooooooooo excited! He is so nice and cute. I never saw him before.... What do you think is going to happen when I will get there?

2006-11-23 04:18:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 04:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by yumna 1