I'm married for 11 years with a beautiful and young woman who I used to believe to be in love with. However, it's been 6 months I've been dating her grandma. Anyone would wonder: "Why would you leave a young woman to live with an old one?". However, I just don't know how to explain the atraction I feel for her. I always felt atracted by the older women but I never had an oportunity to take a chance on one of them. And now, this 89 year old woman came along and I guess I fell in love with her. Despite her age she's just amazing, she fills me up and everytime I see her I get horny. Besides she allows me to do things I always wanted to do in bed such as anal sex without condoms (as there's no risk of her to get pregant anymore).
However, though I'm very happy for being with her, I don't know if I should tell my wife the truth. I'm not pretty sure if leaving my wife to stick with her grandma would actually be the right thing to do. I fear our family reaction also. What should I do?
2006-11-23 04:32:00 · 47 answers · asked by Myself 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either you are a sick liar or you are just plain sick. Either way, you need therapy and your wife can do much bette.
2006-11-23 04:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You may not like what I write. All the same I will do so. The relation you are persisting with a 89 old woman is unnatural,momentary and bordering on depravity. You will soon find out all these yourself,when it will be too late,when your relations with your wife would have moved beyond repair. The so called perverse sex you are indulging in with this old woman will soon turn hateful and you will get fed up with her. Traditional wisdom says two things are important in a long lasting relationship.First- compatibility of age.Second-Compatibility of looks. Age is important since both partners should age together. They also face disabilities together. This increases bonding and companionship. If one partner is young and other very old relationship can never be compatible. When one person has his sexual desire waning other will have it raging and crave for masculine company elsewhere. This brings in many problems leading to break-up or many times untold misery to both. Similar problems arise when there is a great mismatch in looks.Wisdom therefore lies in quitting such unnatural relationship and gradually disclosing all these events to your beautiful wife at an opportune moment.
2006-11-23 04:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You R-going insane over this 89 year old wrinkled vagina. There's is no way that you can be sleeping with a 89 year old women, you need to tell your wife. She deserve much better than you sleeping with her grandma. I know this is a lie cuz you married her when she was 15 years old9there's no such law) that will let you marry a 15 year old. Your an idiot trying to collect points.
2006-11-23 07:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpink4u101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, whatever floats your boat, but you are married....if you got married that suggests a belief in marrage...with that comes all the rules and liberties of that "contract" do what the contract says...or immediately break that contract...you have made a bed...now lie in it. This is not an age issue, this is a issue in respecting the person you have entered a contract with... being allowed to have an@l sex with someone without a condom does not make for love..... it makes for hedonism...and whilst I am all for hedonism .........I treat others with respect, you are hurting someone and you are choosing to do this. Life is full of hard choices. Make one.
2006-11-23 04:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by michael s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? I think you should get some therapy, because if this is true you need help..besides I think this is a lie, because you said you have been married 11 years and your wife is 26 years old, so that would make her 15 yrs old when you married her...Yes you need help....
2006-11-23 04:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by younglady7826 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess... nah... thats just gross, hot 26 yr old for grandma sex? I think you must have some kind of fetish or something, but the fact is that you cheated and thats wrong too, Your going to get a worse reaction the longer you wait.
2006-11-23 04:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by Wretched 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-03-29 06:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both you and your wife's granny need help. commiting adultery with ur own granny so to say just shows that u r insane. and for her to let u have sex with her proves that old age isnt doing her any good. both of you have to go c a physicologist and a man of God to pray for u before things get out of hand. act quickly before u regret!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 04:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess we'll see how much Grandma enjoyed when you see how much you got at the reading of the will. Seriously, though, you're lying through your teeth.
2006-11-23 04:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by klarf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest. How would you like it if this was happening to you. Just get it off of your chest. Of course there will be consequences, You did something wrong. Now you need to be a man and fess up to what you have done. You can not have your cake and eat it too. I am so sick of men doing crap like this and not being honest because they do not want to get in trouble. YOU DID THE FREAKING CRIME, NOW DO THE FREAKING TIME YOU JERK!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-23 04:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by sarahharris25 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well after reading this and everyones reaction ive come to one conculsion you were the ape that escaped the zoo ...you let granny turn you out ...how do granny feels that she turned her grand son in law out she must be clapping her dentures in happiness ....that poor wife of yours has a traflin husband and a traflin granny well we know shes not in the kitchen baking cookies....shes in the bedroom getting all the fudge rammed out her a**..u nasty fuc*.........
2006-11-26 16:27:45 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋