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2006-11-23 06:37:41 · 17 answers · asked by К°~т° 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO! She is your cousin. If you ever have children they have a 75% chance of being mentally retarded to say the least of your genetic worries.
2006-11-23 07:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. I do not believe what you are aspiring for is accepted in Hindu culture. So, get that thought out of your head. She is like your sister. If you pursue you will be making your mom, your mom's sister, and her daughter, everyone unhappy. Why? Even you will be unhappy down the road. Here are some suggestions. Tell yourself 1) I need to get control of my emotions to be happy in my life. 2) Will I really be happy by making so many people unhappy? 3) When this kind of a relationship is prohibited in so many cultures, there must be some meaning there. As a first step you may want to stop any opportunity of seeing her for at least a month.
2006-11-23 06:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by questionman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your first cousin. With regards to genetics, I dont believe you would have to worry about your kids having defects. But with regards to morality...in the US that is immoral. Maybe Hindus are different, and there is no morality issue. You should check the state that you live in. If it is legal to marry your 1st cousin, and YOUR morality dictates that it is okay...then why not? You cant live your life according to someone else's morals...and as long as you aren't breaking the law....no one has a right to say that you are wrong. But if you have to ask....then maybe there are some hidden reasons that you feel it is wrong.
My cousins are like my brother's and sister's...even my 2nd and 3rd cousin's depending on if they were in my life while I was growing up. Even people that aren't "blood" but the family has adopted as family are considered off limits for relationships. In laws, family friends...etc.... but that is just me and how I was raised.
2006-11-23 07:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Nilesh, if u really love her spare her of all the troubles u’ll impose on her. Its not troubles only for u both n ur families n ur future generations but also it is in the concern of the society that u should avoid marrying ur own blood…..spare the society of bearing with mentally retarded siblings or urs….. and then if u intend to marry her and plan not to have children it is still something which is unaccepted in most of the cultures ‘coz it is considered incest and this is where we draw a line n call ourselves civilized n consider ourselves different to animals
2016-05-22 23:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you refuse temptation it gradually goes down. About there not being a genetic problem....I think that the gene pool is too close and your child could have health problems because of this.
Carefully read the article in USA magazine's Science section at
http://www.usatoday.com/news/science/2002-04-04-cousins.htm
2006-11-23 08:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Deb B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your cousin - in the Canada that's illegal - and suppose it's illegal in the US also
Why would you want to marry your cousin - when there must be hundreds of Hindu girls around??? Not only is this "out of whack" - there are also ramifications if you plan to have children.
Don't do it - it's too risky!!
2006-11-23 10:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the states, I think not, she's your 1st cousin, too much risk or recessive genes becoming dominant and messing up your kids.
IF its accepted in India, then marry her there. But I don't think its legal in most countries...not sure though.
2006-11-23 06:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im not sure cause i heard to related ppl who marry will have kids that are deformed cause the genes needs to be different. But if the parents accept then good luck
2006-11-23 07:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by moonhee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No No you can marry your mothers' sisters' daughter as well. No problem. You go right ahead.
2006-11-23 06:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by ~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-23 06:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋