We have a prob,my mother in law had a stroke 2 weeks ago and lives with my sister in law.But now she is saying that WE(My wife and me must look after her)
WE BOTH go to work Fulltime!!I have 216 hours under me this month,and my wife has 116.She doesn't go to work.
And now she is saying that WE have to redecorate the house,because We are working(I've got a bag on she wants me to pay and she can have the good life!!!)
2006-11-23 07:02:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give her a DIY book ' coz it sounds like she;s finished that HOW TO BE A COMPLETE ***** book
2006-11-24 10:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by cazme20032002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to help her as much as you can, without giving up on your life to the extent that it suffers beyond acceptable.
You and your wife should really assist your sister in law, you'd want your kids to help each other out if you was ill!
Please try to talk calmly to her and arrange a good fair compromise and try to remain civil.
Sorry to hear she's ill.
2006-11-23 15:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's at times like these you need to remember what's really important to you, your wife, your kids, your friends, your house etc.
Whatever you do to support your mother in law, these will always be the centre of your world, and hopefully, nothing can take them away.
Life is never perfect, or even remotely perfect.
2006-11-23 15:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Never say Never 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who does she think is going to look after your mum in law while your both at work.
She wants YOU to decorate HER house !!!! does she know that she can claim help from the social services for looking after your mum in law full time and maybe even get help towards redecorating. For xmas just get her the correct forms to fill in ! you can probably download them lol
2006-11-23 15:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your sister in law you have dreams about screwing her in all kinds of nasty ways and she'll leave you alone for good!
2006-11-23 15:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by The Wandering Blade 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm currently having a secret affair with my sister-in-law her husband doesn't know about it yet
I love her like hell. I just wanna murder my brother so that I can be with my sister-in-law. fu.cktard brother.
My brother made her so unhappy and she's an empty soul inside until she met me and I know i can make her happy
we can only meet twice a week and worse still in secret..how i wish my brother can be dead immediately so that she can break free of this sad marriage and be with me eternally
2006-11-23 15:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by verticalhorizonrocks 1 · 0⤊ 7⤋