Marriage & Divorce - 23 November 2006

for example, i told my girl to lose 10 lb! but she just cant. now, she is about 100 lb and 5'5. i want her to be at 90 lb! btw, we are both 18.

2006-11-23 04:08:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boy friend has been leaving the house around like 2:00 am alot and coming back all drunk finaly i got my friend to spy on him she video taped them after school and i found he has been seeing another women.




My friend taped him getting invited to a 16th party for Kaylla( her name ) and so my friend made friends with her and got invited to the party and im going with her ( by the way me and my boyfriend are 23!) and im going tonight should i crash the BIG party or not go? PLEASE HELP

by the way we were gonna get married not anymore

2006-11-23 04:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If people know that their sex life is a big deal to them, why don't they make 100% sure that they "jive" with the other person before they get married? I'm tired of hearing about people who stay married but cheat because they're not sexually satisfied.

2006-11-23 04:00:14 · 24 answers · asked by charleston chew 2

she spends so much time on the computer late at night,from 10.pm to like 2.am,and she says they r her friends,but now i see that is not true,shes actually dating 2 of them,i read her chat messages to them,guys please tell me what to do,and i have all the mens details,who do i confront,my wife or them...

2006-11-23 03:37:14 · 23 answers · asked by boyo 1

2006-11-23 03:14:46 · 35 answers · asked by MissChatea 4

I am Indian living in US and married to an Indian as per the Hindu marriage act. Unfortunately, our relationship is on the verge of end and we are looking for a divorce. Can anyone suggest, if I should file for the divorce in India or can I file for divorce in US. Thank you.

2006-11-23 03:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by TPR_bgl 1

whats a good way to teach her to respect her elders?

i thought that was something parents taught their kids these days, but i guess the times have changed.

2006-11-23 03:11:37 · 29 answers · asked by catfish_alomar_jr 2

2006-11-23 03:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by neutral 2

without me.

2006-11-23 03:03:52 · 4 answers · asked by dotsycat 2

My husband and I are real sexual, we know eachother's body. We play with eachother and explore eachother's body. I know exactly what he likes and where he likes it. But I have a little problem, I cannot perform the one thing he likes best BJ'S .

Well, I can, but I really don't like it. Do you guys have any tips that can come useful?

Thanks

2006-11-23 03:00:21 · 19 answers · asked by 2pretty4u 2

My child is 14 and lives with my ex in another state. He has not followed the Visitation guidelines per the divorce decree and I have not seen regularly as I was supposed to.

She did come to visit me this past summer and enjoyed her visit.

I don't know if I have hurt her by ending the marraige. My ex was and is still controlling, money-minded and abusive.

I wonder if its better for children to grow up with two parents or in a peaceful single parent home. My ex works late and does not give her the time and attention that she needs. I have asked him to send her to me, but he does not agree.

My mother-in-law says that I have not put her first and have not made her an intelligent girl even though I may be intelligent.

I feel like I have failed in life.

2006-11-23 02:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2006-11-23 02:50:02 · 26 answers · asked by Unique 1

i need some advise about thinking

2006-11-23 02:42:56 · 28 answers · asked by bilan 1

and what are some bad ones?

2006-11-23 02:40:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE

1930's 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us.

They took aspirin, ate soft cheese, shell fish, and didn't get tested for diabetes.


Then after that trauma, our baby cots were covered with bright coloured lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking .

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.


Riding 2 up on your bike was a way of life.


We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.


We shared a bottle of pop with four friends, all drank from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.

We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank fizzy drinks with SUGAR in it, but we weren't overweight because......


WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!! NOT IN FRONT OF A TV AND PLAYING VIDEO GAMES!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.


No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.


We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem .

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no text messaging, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!





We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents .

We played with worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

The boys were given toy guns for their 10th birthdays,

made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out anyones eyes.



We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them!


The local team had tryouts and not everyone got in. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!


This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!


The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.


We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned


HOW TO
DEAL WITH IT ALL!


And YOU are one of them!

CONGRATULATIONS!


You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good.


and while you are at it, forward it to anyone born from 1980 onwards so they will know how brave you are!!!

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?!

2006-11-23 02:36:11 · 17 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5

2006-11-23 02:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by pejal e 1

I am an Indian (living in US) and my first marriage was love marriage which was not successful due to incompatibilites. Is it okay to get remarried in an arranged way now? Is it like getting a life partner is a difficult task (I am well settled, and simple person) for a guy who was married once. Is it good to look for an Indian girl who is already in US or look for someone in India? Should I look for only divorced girls, or can I also look for unmarried girls. Do unmarried girls get married to divorced young guys who are well settled. Thanks you friends in advance for your answers.

Thanks.

2006-11-23 02:27:18 · 7 answers · asked by TPR_bgl 1

2006-11-23 02:20:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are married for 6 years now, and we had a great sex life. but now she seems to dislike it more and more. i am concerned about her cheating on me i have a full time job. my sex skills are the same as used to be...

2006-11-23 02:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Lucian S 1

2006-11-23 02:09:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think about it?
One of my friends is engaged to a nineteen year old guy. We've met him and he's very, very cool. He asked her hand in marriage and they've been engaged since 2003. Now, I don'y know, but it just seems wierd that a 19-year old would fall in love with a 12-year old. We're worried that he might do something inappropriate and abuse her in some way in the furture, but what do you think? Was it right that she said yes to him, especially since she hasn't even had a chance with other guys? I mean, he's the only guy she's ever "been in love with" and it doesn't seem right that she has her feelings about guys straighta nd knows what she wants at this age... She hasn't even gone through any emotional and/or mental "growing pains." I don't think it's right, but I still think it's love.

2006-11-23 02:09:26 · 17 answers · asked by super! 2

my husband, though not always, but physically assualts me sometimes. He does say sorry the next day. This has happened a couple of times and every time he says sorry he says it wont happen again. what should i do now ??

2006-11-23 02:00:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend had a boob job like 4 days ago and is in terrible pain still. She is crying and saying how she wishes she were dead to stop the pain. I have spoke to many women who never react this way. She has called the dr and he just says its normal. Shes complain that her nipple is getting a shocking feeling an her meds are not helping. I have never seen her this way and Im worried she may be infected. Is this normal to feel this way????

2006-11-23 01:59:30 · 10 answers · asked by Kim 2

Holiday hell with new mother-in-law?
About a month ago I had asked my mother in law if she would mind If I do Thanksgiving my mother had no problem with it but mother in law did. She said it was her favorite holiday and she wanted to do it. I said no problem I just thought it would make things a little easier so that we wouldn't have to go to her house at 12 and my moms at 5. I have no problem doing that but my mother inlaw does. She thinks you should go to one place for the holidays I have always went to 2 familys for thanksgiving and I want to keep it that way. I like to see my family every year as well as my husbands family and I am willing to do both.
My mother-in-law is being really selfish she calls last night to talk to my husband and they are discusing Thanksgiving my husband tells her that we won't be eating dinner there we will have appitizers and stay a while but we are eating at my wifes mothers because we ate last year at your house for dinner. This is the problem my mom is flexible she will do lunch or dinn

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7 minutes ago
she will do lunch or dinner but my mother in law needs to give alittle too. She wanted to have dinner between 2:30 and 3pm. I swear she does it because she is jelous of my husbands relationship with my family we are all very close and we do alot of things together. She doesn't like that. She wants us to go to her house this year and my moms next I don't feel I should give in to something I feel so strong about but I don't want to be her enemy we just got married in September but we have been together over 6 years. Ohh and when she said I couldn't do Thanksgiving she said I can do Christmas day and then she tells us she wont even be their she is going to her sisters. But we have to go to her house christmas eve

5 minutes ago
What do you think of this crappy mess. I need some advice as of now my husband is so upset with his mother we are not even going for Thanksgiving. Thaings can change

2006-11-23 01:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3

I'm 23 years old and I live in a house with my parents, don't respect my feelings. I have a girlfriend who's now my fiance, and my parents won't even let me see her anymore. We're each other's best friend in real life. I've been engaged to her since November of 2004,and had been dating 5 years prior to that they've never had a problem with her before, and now we're set to get married in February of next year, and my parents now don't want me anywhere near her.

They said, "John, we forbid you to go anywhere near her, and you can't see her ever again."

She leaves in April of next year for Saskatchewan, I was going to live with her and start my own famly. They're preventing me from pursuing my one dream in life to have a family with the one girl in this world that I truly care about.

What do I do? I'm so confused and so unhappy, and so is my fiance?

2006-11-23 01:24:35 · 18 answers · asked by John K 1

2006-11-23 01:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by wild wild willy 1

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2006-11-23 00:41:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If everyone who marries think they've found their soulmate and atleast half of them are wrong how can it be. I tihnk whatever state or country I would've grown up in I could of or would've found a wife so it seems like there are several.

2006-11-23 00:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by hdb107 1

I split from my ex in Easter this year, but then he chats to me on the phone or messenger and is all friendly then he runs off to his solicitor with malicious information about me in order to gain custody of our 4 year old daughter.

I stayed at my parents house for a week and because he couldn't get in contact with me he told his solicitor that I had moved house!

He has our daughter over night every Friday and I wasn't going to go against this arrangement, but he said that I was going to prevent him from seeing his daughter. Why is he doing this and what should I do?

2006-11-23 00:31:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-23 00:23:06 · 17 answers · asked by ursown 1