for example, i told my girl to lose 10 lb! but she just cant. now, she is about 100 lb and 5'5. i want her to be at 90 lb! btw, we are both 18.
2006-11-23 04:08:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SHES NOT FAT !! why would she listen to you !!! AND DONT U dare saying that GIRLS NEVER LISTEN .. we do listen ONLY if our men asked for somethin possible
2006-11-23 04:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
dude, you should read what people have said here. first of all you need to grow up and get a life. Your girlfriend had a life before you and will have a life after you. Also if you don't change your screwed up way of thinking you will find yourself one very lonely old man.
and At 5'5" and you want her to be 90 lbs ? Are you serious, dude you have more issues than you realize. I think that its time that your Girlfriend dump your *** and get on with her life and find a guy who would treat her with class and respect.
Here I thought that living in 2006 almost 2007, that guys with this mentality were history. once she shows you the door don't be surprised when it hits you on the *** as you land on the curb where you belong.
you better seriously think about getting yourself some good counselling cause I think that you are long over due. You might consider some psychotic drugs to get your pH levels back to normal if it is at all possible.
and you should lay off the illegal drugs as well
2006-11-23 04:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by mckbrian 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is not up to you to tell her how much she should weigh, unless of course she is morbidly obese, like 200+ pounds, which would not be good because of her height, and she could become at risk for heart disease, diabetes and other chronic health problems. And no, girls should not obey their men. Your girl is her own person and she does not have to listen to you or even obey you. Even if you guys end up getting married, (hopefully she will dump your a$$) you will still not own her. You cannot own another person. She is not a slave and I think you should question yourself as to why you are asking her to do this? Because you think she is fat? What about what she thinks about herself? 90 lbs. is about average for someone who is 4'10". And is notice all your questions are about your girl losing weight, and the questions are fine, because this is what is on your mind, but you need to be sure you want her to lose weight for the right reasons and when she dumps you and you are alone, you can have the satisfaction of knowing that it is your fault you are alone because you drove her away. Have a nice life, ALONE!
2006-11-24 03:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, you are a douche-bag. A 100 lb girl doesn't need to lose 10 pounds. You are downing her appearance when she looks just fine the way she is. Women have enough self-esteem issues without you dissing her weight, and I wouldn't be surprised if she gains some pounds because you stress her out about it.
2006-11-23 04:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yeah i sometime do agree about the whole weight problem
I wouldnt want my future guy to put couple of pounds!
i just read couple of ppl saying up there
shes alright and already skinny.
So i think u should take a break.
And if she doesnt have any flabs or
something like that or a fat a s s,
than i think just leave the poor girl alone
and move on!
2006-11-23 04:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Pinky 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Do you even love this girl? I mean love her for who she is and not what she looks like or how much she weighs. Is there not anything more to you than your destructive weight obsession?
You are 18, but I get the impression you don't want to grow up and you don't want to be with a woman, but a little girl that you can control. You can't carry on like this, you are going to make your gf very ill by forcing her drop 10lb more.
Don't you even care about her health or her emotions. It's like you are just a shallow shell of a man and it's really very sad to see. Take care.
2006-11-23 05:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all who made you in charge of your girlfriend and her weight. why do you want her to be 90 pounds? you think that will make her look better? why do some guys feel that a skinny woman is the dream girl? no. is she happy with the way she is? if she is leave her alone. if she cant loose the weight be a good boyfriend and respect that or leave her alone. wow you really made me upset at that one. and no women dont have to obey men. when we tell you to do something yall sit there and whine and dont wanna do nufin so why should we listen to you. who iz u?
2006-11-23 04:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by shanice 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have no right telling her she needs to lose weight. And even if she does, she needs to do it for her. Besides, 5 '5 and 100 lbs is way to thin.
2006-11-23 04:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by ang 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
WIVES are suppose to submit to their HUSBANDS, and that would only be under appropriate circumstances. You want your girlfriend to lose 10 pounds when she is already thin enough, isn't appropriate or even understandable.
I think you need to grow up and mature a bit, and then maybe your girlfriend will want to either gain or lose weight because you love her or for the right reasons. The reasons you have detailed are not the right reasons.
2006-11-23 04:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by the_proms 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm glad she's 18, because you could be put away for abusing a minor. In jail, you would find out what it means to obey.
Please seek professional help. Your control issues indicate that you feel helpless and weak, and need to tell others what to do and how to please you. This is how criminals begin...You are not convincing anyone that you are strong. Your question indicates the opposite. Good luck to you.
2006-11-23 04:17:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest only one thing for you. Leave the poor girl and never get another one until you grow up. It is clear you are the worst thing that ever happened to her so do her that favor.
Who gave you the belief that you should be her boss.
She should kick you to the curb and get a man that knows the real value of his woman. Sure isn't you.
2006-11-23 04:19:57 · answer #11 · answered by John B 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋