Marriage & Divorce - 25 November 2006

He says they are just friends but this makes me angry. I have heard him flirting with them. I got up the other morning to go to work and he was on the phone with one of them. When he heard me he said OK bye and hung up the phone really quick. When I got in the shower he called her back. I would like to know if there are any other people out there who have this problem and how they deal with it. When I mention I dont like him doing this he just gets angry and says he wont do it anymore then just sneaks. Thank You

2006-11-25 23:41:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was snooping... I know that's what I get. When I came across adultfinder.com confirmation letter and password in his email. I checked it out with his password and he has single and looking for 1 on 1 sex? I'm ready to kill him but is it cheating? He hasn't met anyone YET!! How do I approach him when I shouldn't have been looking through his emails in the first place? I put up a profile that he would be interested in and contacted him. My plan is to see if he will go to meet "her", and leave him if he does. Should I call it quits before that. We have 5 yrs. invested in this and an 11 month old. Help please.

2006-11-25 23:30:16 · 35 answers · asked by lilmsmooody 2

2006-11-25 23:23:29 · 16 answers · asked by gulfhorizone 1

2006-11-25 23:22:38 · 2 answers · asked by toysoldier 1

I am asking because my husband has changed. He goes over his "best friend's" house EVERY weekend with out fail to make music (thats what he says but I don't believe it). When we first met, His *** was tight (very athletic). Now it giggles!!!! I never saw a man's behind giggle and be soOo loose. When he goes over there for the weekend he turns his phone off or puts it on silent. and when he finally answers the phone, he whispers. He says its because their working on lots of music but when he gives me a copy of their music, it's only like one song on the cd.
One day we were watching RENT and on a particular scene between the gay lovers, he began to cry!! That day I went and took an AIDS test. I am happy to say that I am negative and since I took the test, I haven't had sex with him and its been 3 months. I don't even look at him the same way. I feel that something weird is going on... what do you guys think???

2006-11-25 23:09:30 · 23 answers · asked by need help 1

2006-11-25 23:06:22 · 29 answers · asked by Mr Cynical 5

2006-11-25 22:56:26 · 14 answers · asked by suraj r 1

Why is my ex gf asks my friends if I have a new g/f She dumped me and she went out with a different guy She seems happy with him but why is she asking my friends if I have a new gf

2006-11-25 22:51:21 · 13 answers · asked by realsync1 1

i met my husband 19 years aga i was 16 hes 21we had twin daughters in when i was 18 we got married when i was 19 weve had our ups and downs like anyone else but i thought we were happy he started a new job 3 months ago two weeks ago found out he has been seeing a nineteen year old from work for six weeks i threw him out but he still with this girl think its disgusting considering his own daughters turn 18 in january since he been with this girl he has had contact once with his daughters with a five minute visit outside there collage i hate him so much much but deep down cant imagine my life without him been with him so long but i just hope i have the last laugh when the girl looks at him one day and says why am i with u and meets someone her own age and ends up with nobody cos he has give them all up for her what are your veiws on this situation and what do you make of it thanks

2006-11-25 22:42:12 · 27 answers · asked by penny c 1

2006-11-25 22:35:25 · 9 answers · asked by amirtasevared 1

What religions demand that both sides in a marriage practice that religion?

2006-11-25 22:34:17 · 12 answers · asked by Avia 3

my wife asked me to tell her what I like -
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so recently while she was preforming oral sex I asked her to:
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tells me how much she enjoys bieng with me, likes the way i taste, smell, that she wants me, etc.
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and I began to talk to her, and tell her what I like,
i told her i like it when she sucks my c 0ck, and to take my big hard c 0ck in her mouth, etc
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and now she is all upset because of how I spoke to her in teh bedroom.

rather than get off thesubject - how do you respond in the bedroom?

In an ideal situation how woudl you like YOUR spouse to better respond to you before, during and after the bedroom ?

2006-11-25 22:24:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and because of my family pressure i have been forced to marry a other girl,and if i have a child from her,then are their any chances of getting AIDS to me,to my second wife or to the child.

2006-11-25 22:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by suraj_brs 1

I feel that I love my boyfriend of 5 years but I also seem to be easily agrivated by him. Intamacy ... well I have been making nearly impossible for it to happen. These feelings are fairly new and getting progressivly worse. We have a 11 month old daughter and I feel overwhelmed a bit (i have 2 older daughters) and he seems to be adding to my exhaustion.

2006-11-25 22:03:28 · 13 answers · asked by lilmsmooody 2

2006-11-25 21:48:19 · 26 answers · asked by Roovs 3

My best friend has fallen for a married man who has also fallen for her. She has already left her husband & he is trying to leave his wife ; but his wife is putting up a fight. The man told her he was not in love with her anymore, no kids thank god, but why wont she leave?

2006-11-25 21:14:13 · 13 answers · asked by Lady 1

i mean this man still tells the wife at home that he still loves her but yet he,s been asking a particular girl out for a long time now.

2006-11-25 21:12:56 · 26 answers · asked by holie 1

2006-11-25 20:46:55 · 14 answers · asked by answer man 3

my fantasies are her worst nightmares!

it seems as though she might have been molested at an early age.

my fantasies put her into complete shutsdown mode.

we tried scheduling a regular get together - but this makes me feel liek a bull. completely without emotion.

i'd love to know that she enjoys me stroking her hair, holdiing her close, enjoys being with me, etc. (ok so she does enjoy when I give her an orgasm - but to get to that level is a lot of work - seems liek she is always pushing me away and avoiding my advances.

any suggestions

2006-11-25 20:34:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 20:26:53 · 26 answers · asked by X X L 1

I can only speak for myself....i never hold back, when in the heat of passion.......
Do you hold back, and not go all the way, and is it because of insecurities of how you feel about yourself, or insecurities of how your other half has placed on you?......

2006-11-25 20:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can a woman make sure that she ends up with a non abusive husband?

The reason i asked is that i noticed someone in my family is abusive. Well one of my brothers.He even called me a ***** once and i fought back telling to never EVER call me that. I fought him head on and he even tried to charge towards me to scare me. I didnt move a centimeter!

However im sorry for my sister in law. SHe has to put up with that crap. When we were kids, I would have never imagined my bro to turn out like that. He is a pessimistic person but to add the verbal abuse to it does not sit well with me.

My dad was also verbally abusive towards the end of his life. After he passed we discovered he had a huge head injury which explained his bizzare personality change. He was also controlling and he controlled everything( money wise, he would not give out a penny unless he really had to.)

2006-11-25 20:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by liipl 1

First time in my life iv'e been dumped ! I'm 46 and have 2 kids, 18 & 13.I was with my husband for 18yrs,we split 4.5 yrs ago.A year later i met the person who dumped me 2 months ago.Iv'e had a tough year, made homelless, moved 3 times, but at last i'm settled. He was going to move in but ran away the week before he was due to make this commitment, a couple of texts messages to say he couldn't come back and i heard from an aquaintence that he had finished with me.SHOCKING BEHAVIOUR !!
It took me so long to trust him, i only gave him my heart this summer, i know he is a liar, i dumped him 2 yrs ago cos seen going into his ex's flat.
Anyway iv'e found out he is with someone else and he's moving in after only 6 weeks !! I'm still hurting, how can someone move their emotions on so quick ?

2006-11-25 19:58:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee is in another country right now waiting to come here on a visa which is probably going to take atleast 6 more months. When we are together we have great chemistry and good sex that when we are apart it seems that it kills him. He always tell him how much he needs me and stuff but there is not much i can do becuz i am in the U.S. We are planning to visit each other again in January but only for two weeks but then we will be apart again for another three or four months. And I dont know if he can make it. Today he said that he is not happy and that all this is too much for him sometimes. That sometimes he misses me so much that he cant stand it and hes tired of feelin so helpless. I asked him what does he want to do and he said he doesnt want to end it but he knows that he is not happy. Its hard for me to but the thought of losing him is harder so i jus pray and hold on. I know one day we wil be together.

So what should I do?

2006-11-25 19:57:01 · 11 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2

my husband, it seems, has always had a tendency to want to be alone, meaning, not spend as much time with his women as one would normally expect when you are in a relationship. this nature of his seems to have caused many of his past relationships to fail. after 8 years of marriage, (he claims this is a record for him - he has never been with anyone that long) he has become extremely moody, withdrawn and works late into the night. this has been going on for 4 months now. when i asked him to tell me what was going on, he said he needed me to leave him alone for some time. i can understand his need to deal with his issues on his own, but meanwhile it's really hurting me the way he pushes me away, and also driving me crazy (i think the stress is causing me to get a rash - the last time i had one was when i was a teen and really stressed out about school!) anyway, i need advice from people who have experienced something similar on how I can pull through this! need words of wisdom!!

2006-11-25 19:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by harleyq8 2

I don't hate him, or even really dislike him. He's my best friend. But I'm done with him. Our relationship doesn't work on this level. I've tried everything to fix it, and we've been married a while. But I'm afraid he will hate me.

2006-11-25 19:19:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together 9 years, and 95 percent of the time I have been significantly overweight. Over time, as all marriages do, we have become less passionate, but I am now concerned with our relationship slowly beginning to reflect our sex life as of late. We have only made love 5 times this year, which is pathetic by my standards! (and would not have been were it up to me). We have always been able to talk about anything, but this is now a very overtalked and sore subject, and neither of us have a real solution for it. I mention being overweight for obvious reasons regarding our sex life, but he has always maintained it has nothing to do with the problem. I guess I am not so much looking for answers, but more to see if anyone else out there has been in a similar situation, and how they coped.

2006-11-25 19:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

we fight all the time about dumb stuff, and we have 3 kids? we fight about cleaning, jealousy, but nothing big!! what the hell is going on?? But it feels like he don't like me anymore.

2006-11-25 19:07:50 · 7 answers · asked by blue_lollypop4422@sbcglobal.net 1

I have been remarried for 2&1/2 years and my husband is very kind and a good provider. He has a lot of insecurity issues and was heavily abused as a child. This causes him to be very passive and weak-acting. He suffocates me, won't give me any space for fear of losing me. I have 3 kids from my previous marriage and he has none, and he is very jealous of the closeness between my kids and I. He does everything he can to make me mad at them.

I am so upset and sad about this, I married him for the wrong reasons, it was all rebound stuff after my first marriage ended. I don't love him like a wife should love her husband, but I feel so sad for him and don't want to hurt him. But I don't think I can live being his wife. His insecurities push me away more and more! He deserves better but I can never be happy like this!

I'm also still madly in love with my ex-husband and would do almost anything to be with him.

My heart aches over this all of the time! Any sincere advice?

2006-11-25 19:07:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any ideas to cheer her up? She has everything money can buy (that I can think of).

2006-11-25 19:06:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous