First time in my life iv'e been dumped ! I'm 46 and have 2 kids, 18 & 13.I was with my husband for 18yrs,we split 4.5 yrs ago.A year later i met the person who dumped me 2 months ago.Iv'e had a tough year, made homelless, moved 3 times, but at last i'm settled. He was going to move in but ran away the week before he was due to make this commitment, a couple of texts messages to say he couldn't come back and i heard from an aquaintence that he had finished with me.SHOCKING BEHAVIOUR !!
It took me so long to trust him, i only gave him my heart this summer, i know he is a liar, i dumped him 2 yrs ago cos seen going into his ex's flat.
Anyway iv'e found out he is with someone else and he's moving in after only 6 weeks !! I'm still hurting, how can someone move their emotions on so quick ?
2006-11-25 19:58:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like u knew he was a loser now he proved it again find a better one
2006-11-25 20:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really just think about how you have had a lucky escape. Why would you want to live with someone who shows such little regard for your feelings? Better to find out now that 2 years down the line when you would have been even more hurt
If I were you, I would try to forget him and enjoy the party season that is before us. You never know, you might just meet the man of your dreams!
Good luck
2006-11-29 19:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by lucyt20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy was a control freak....he sussed your vulnrability and fed his ego on itfor a while and then moved on to the next to do exactly the same thing. Feel pity for the new woman for she does not yet know what is ahead of her for he wiull do exactly the same again.
You are worth more than this. Put it down to a blip in lifes rich tapestry and seek to look after yourself....you are the important person in all this. I do understand your pain was recently duped myself by such a character and they are simply shallow and hollow examples of men. There are better out there.......in fact these users will die lonely inside.
2006-11-25 22:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady!! Take a break!!! You have just got your life back!!
Check it out, you have just ended a long term relationship, getting messed around in your new one, AND, did you manage to even work out what you was going to with in your life before you met this new guy? I do not bash you, but I want to encourage you to think about YOU!! Now you can start fresh!! Get a make over, do something good for yourself, what is it you always wanted to do? go for it now!! you are free, discover you again. Then later, you can meet a guy when you are ready. The new you, a new man, new life etc... C'mon girl!! You deserve it, to be happy again. I urge you to build up your confidence. I swear, you will never look back and your whole perspective will change, and you will be able to have stable people in your life to be connected with. I wish you all the best girl. Make loving you, a priority now!!!
Love sista
2006-11-25 20:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you have been through it, never mind Girlfriend He wasn't right for you, and what's not for you cannot stay around you, because God has control of your life. People come into your life for a reason or a season, you bless them and let them go and then you make room for the next one, you can make the lesson hard or soft, notice I said YOU because you are the one that allows or gives these people the power to hurt or to heal. Be strong and look at your stuff.
2006-11-29 05:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by bty912324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it particularly is the actuality omit. you fairly think of he loves you that plenty? you fairly think of you are the worldwide and love of his? NO! He purely stayed with you for 3 years for 3 motives: a million. so as that he could have somebody to be sexually related with 2. so as that he could have somebody to be observed as as a girl chum jointly as he's calling certainly for one. 3. so as that he can merely sell off you after he discovered the single he's calling for. I do experience sorry for you. That your thoughts have been manipulated, used to wreck you. besides, concerning the being pregnant, consistent with hazard he exchange into besides making plans to ask you who's the daddy of that baby, whether he's accustomed to it particularly is him. for the reason that he particularly does not have any dream to have somewhat one. And once you have been pregnant, he merely dumped you. F*ck him. For you female, please study out of your stories. do no longer abort the baby. S/He may be the residing sign no longer of the errors which you probably did, however the desire which you have after those errors merely dumped you. would the rigidity be with you.
2016-10-04 09:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a rat hunny - so sorry that you are hurting at the moment but it sounds like you had a lucky escape - don't give up thinking that you will find a relationship/friendship that you can trust in - i've been there done that and am now desperately happy. good luck and have a hug from me ~x~
2006-11-25 20:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by mousie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now, I would concentrate on 2 things: Taking care of yourself and your children. You don't need that loser. Eventually, you will find someone else, heal from this breakup first.
I wish blessings and success for you and your family.
2006-11-25 20:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by mcneill_35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is truly amazing how the other person in a relationship can indeed "turn" on you and make you feel as if you are and have been totally irrelevant in that previous relationship. I guess they must have some problem as well.
2006-11-25 23:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by neutral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion he was playining you and this other person. He just figured that she had more to offer him. Don't let yourself get down about it. You are better off. He is the type of person that will never change and she will find him doing strange things to her too. Just be thankfull it wasn't you.
2006-11-25 20:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jason B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not about emotions its about his lying. You dumped him 2 years ago - most likely because you didn't trust him, in future listen to your instincts - they are rarely wrong.
2006-11-26 08:31:07 · answer #11 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋