Marriage & Divorce - 25 November 2006

2006-11-25 16:14:32 · 9 answers · asked by Donna 2

I feel like i live with a roomate a bad roomate at that. I cook clean work a full time job and take care of two kids. My husband after work sits watching tv or playing video games. Hes forty and acts 16. He works alot of crazy hours and when he is home he's on the phone with his friends or in front of some video game. By the end of the day im exhusted. I try to talk to him it always ends in a argument. He always says i dont do anything, my house isnt super clean we have a toddler and i am always picking up toys. His sex drive is horrible , and im angry all the time.

2006-11-25 16:10:49 · 32 answers · asked by Notsogreatlife31 1

he is 35 but hangs out with unmarried boys of 25yrs and the only thing they get to talk about are girls. i am suspecting he hangs out with them to get some girls. what do i do?

2006-11-25 15:59:55 · 24 answers · asked by bode 2

For 5 years. NO CHILDREN after married for 11 years.

2006-11-25 15:52:03 · 18 answers · asked by bob 2

that we would spend the holidays together. It works well for both of us because neither of us have a boyfriend or girlfriend since it's so difficult with kids and we both put our children first. While it was a nice holiday and the kids loved it, sometimes I feel so selfish for our marriage ending, I was so unhappy and couldn't stand staying married to him but now I wonder if I made the right decision since it seems like there's no one out there for me at this time. I often feel destined to be alone, do you truly think we meet just one mate in a lifetime? Do you think we ever have chance at love again? It's been two years now and not a glimmer of hope, I'm starting to lose faith. What do you think?

2006-11-25 15:51:09 · 15 answers · asked by ooolala 2

2006-11-25 15:50:53 · 15 answers · asked by non active 2

2006-11-25 15:47:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

A women at my husbands job who knows me became friendly and than more friendly than when i staratd to ? it, it was total denial and then i knew something was going on. she is a thorn in my side.

2006-11-25 15:44:56 · 15 answers · asked by ptk381 1

we went to counseling. He has just gotten more possessive and jealous. Now at Christmas,he tells me he wants a divorce.I've done everything he has asked. I thought we were doing fine. I went out with some of my girlfriends. He said it was ok. Our agreement was that I would be readily available by my cell and I was. I had nothing to hide and was showing him pictures I took of me and my friends and he saw that I danced with some guys . I wasn't trying to hide anything. It's almost been three years and I thought he was ok with us. I love to dance and am very outgoing and he is a real homebody. I really crave just plain ole' honest fun interaction with my friends. He says he still loves me but he can't trust me. I'm heartbroken. I want this marriage so much.

2006-11-25 15:35:19 · 34 answers · asked by wonder woman 5

during sex and now she does not believe me, how do i convince her that i still love her.....it is just a fantasy,,,,,,, or is it bad to fantasize?

2006-11-25 15:33:44 · 12 answers · asked by minip 1

2006-11-25 15:33:25 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3

My husband is never employed for very long at any job. He is the "eternal student" always studying so he can get a "better" job..he supposedly uses the day to study but doesnt study much. At night I see him just watching TV or playing his guitar. We are new to the USA. He says he is battling to find a job in the IT industry.

I question how much effort he really is putting into his job searches. We have now been here 1 year and he has perhaps contributed 2 months worth of work over the whole period. Is this expected for an average person in the USA not to be able to find work, Or has he got some mental illness that he just doesnt really want to work..like a moocher syndrome?

If so, how did you handle the situation if you were married?

2006-11-25 15:26:45 · 12 answers · asked by hippiegirl 1

will the child still be power of attorney over mother

2006-11-25 15:25:58 · 7 answers · asked by Rae S 1

2006-11-25 15:23:14 · 18 answers · asked by ptk381 1

husband knows his wife loves him and never want to leave him, spiritual love of wife make her stay in marriage with infidelity, wife knows well her husband's bad habit, and keep forgiving him, and husband is persistent to go back his bad life style, wife never wants to change her status. Does she deserve to have that kind of love from her unfaithful husband?

2006-11-25 15:12:16 · 17 answers · asked by Naivegirl J 1

I'm 29. Been married for 3 yrs now but together for 10. Tonite we started fooling around for the first time in over a week and he just stoped. Said his leg was acting funny. This isnt the first time. Is it me? Help. Need advice on how to satisfy my husband. I feel like i've lost him, I'm so lonely and horney.

2006-11-25 15:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by katie h 1

I'll make it short...Married more than 2yrs. Separated since June 2006, found out he's been cheating on me all along...He came back September and wanted to work things out..I gave him another chance (because of our child), but found out he was still unfaithful (found out his cellphone code)...We had a big fight so he left. It has been 2mths since we had any communication... slowly picking up the pieces, went back to school and working to support us (hoping by nextyear, I'll have enough money to file for divorce). Today he called and left a message saying he wanted to speak to our child (only 20mths old)...I know he has the right...but my feeling is, he's a father only when its convinient..(BTW, he's not paying child support because he quit his job and went back to school)...I don't wan'na talk to him right now, I know I will fall apart...This is driving me nuts right now..... any advice?

2006-11-25 15:06:22 · 15 answers · asked by R 2

2006-11-25 15:01:08 · 17 answers · asked by gone 1

Believe or not believe - a most patient, tolerant, faithful, caring wife to be cheaten quietly for 10 years by cunning husband, a naive wife trusted husband to be sick, and then find out he visited brothers to have sex once a week, a month.... Husband always says that with his wife "I am a one woman husband"..Please give wife good advices - What should wife do?

2006-11-25 14:59:23 · 19 answers · asked by Naivegirl J 1

2006-11-25 14:46:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 14:41:09 · 15 answers · asked by R L 1

2006-11-25 14:32:37 · 11 answers · asked by whinniepooh 1

He like to hunt, like action movies, and sports? I really dont know what to get for him this year? any suggestions would be very good!

2006-11-25 14:31:07 · 23 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3

If a 33 yr old woman persues a 64 yr old man for 4 years then he divorces his wife is this just infatuation with a young slut making him feel young and they marry will it last or will he or she do this again to one another?

2006-11-25 14:20:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I have been separated since February and I have been trying to get him to file the papers ever since. Well he keeps finding a reason to push it back. He wants to do the holidays this year as a family, and we did spend Thanksgiving Dinner together. We were only together for like 2 hours that day. Now he wants to spend the entire day of Christmas together! My parents don't want him at their house on Christmas, and I told him that we could be together for the kids to open their presents, then me and the kids would spend Christmas dinner with my parents..and then he could have the kids in the evening. Well he thinks that I should tell my parents that if he can't come, then I am not coming. But we are getting divorced, so what would you do?

2006-11-25 14:15:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I although being separated for 6 months still talk to each other everyday. We fight alot but only because he will not let me know one way or the other if he wants to work on things or get a divorce. He says he doesnt want a divorce, but he just wants time away to miss me. I have been not so nice to him in the past, name calling, pushing, being very mean. I have taken care of my anger issues and he even says he knows how much Ive changed. Now he has changed into the person I used to be. I have recently caught him in quite a few lies and when I confront him he gets angry and wants to hang up from me. I have been nothing but good to him since the split. He says he loves me but hes not "in love with me" what does that mean? Should I really just leave him alone? Hes depressed and does not have anyone else. I need alot of help...What should I do?

2006-11-25 14:14:20 · 10 answers · asked by Confused1 2

mom has full physical custody and dad has joint legal custody. the court order says reasonable visitation per mom. what is reasonable visitation fro dad? the child is 14months old. mom has been the primary caregiver since birth.

2006-11-25 14:10:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 14:09:33 · 14 answers · asked by whinniepooh 1

2006-11-25 14:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by booker 1

My cousin has 6 affairs on her husband. Her husband has one and that is with me. I really am truely in love with him but I would give anything for them not to get a divorce but he says she is to pushy and bossy, but she is but this is her marrige I don't know what to do! I am 27 and I am not the cause of the divorce. She does not know of us and she has 6 affairs and he knows of them. They have twins and a year old baby and that is why they are still togeather. He is not thirsty for sex because we have had sex 3 times in one year. And that was me who asked for the sex, not him.

2006-11-25 14:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 1