How do I tell my husband that I am tired of him spending unnecessary money and not sticking to a budget?

Answer 1

show him your question

Answer 2

As an adult you face the problem head on. You find a quiet moment and compose your thoughts. Decide what you want exactly.

Do you want him to know he is wrong or do you want a soloution.

Do you want to manage the money? Do you want to put him on an allowance? Do you want to keep a separate account from his? Do you want to split the budget and require his "donation" with each paycheck into a joint account for the bills, keeping your extra money separate so YOU can stick to the budget? Or do you want him to be wrong?

Answer 3

tell him that he needs to stick to a budget or you'll go broke. Tell him if he doesn't stick to a budget then you'll take over all the money and put him on an allowance. then stick to it, don't let your family go bankrupt because of his spending.

Answer 4

well i hope this helps he proberly dosent care about money and dosent respect it so my addvice would be take controll of all the money and if he dosent like that idea give him an altamaydem which is you look arfter all the money or there will be none for him to wast because you will spend it or i know its not nice but hide it from him in a private bank account

Answer 5

Buy a budget book and put every thing down and get him to go by it and be sure to save some for a rainy day you never know what you will need.

Answer 6

is he spending the money unnecessarly or are you just trying to stick to a budget that you created or a budget you both agreed upon

Answer 7

answer this is he the only person working, and what does he buy, lunch, sodas or something that is not needed. first if he is the only one working, u go and get ur lazy but off the p/c and get a job. second the money is not being blown then whats the problem.

Answer 8

Tell him. What else do you want to hear? It's not rocket science. If he doesn't understand when you tell him, start moving the money to another account so he can only use a certain amount.

Answer 9

I'm married.. My wife and I keep a budget. I get spending happy sometimes and she helps me out when the money burns a hole in my pocket. He shouldnt get mad. If he does he's an a55 hole!

Answer 10

say 2 him '"bay u need a bujet cuz u spend money like no 2morrow and pretty soon we r gonna be poor cuz of u spendi'n a that money

Answer 11

"Honey we need to talk. We are going to go bankrupt if WE don't place some restraints on our spending." Make it a group project and ask him if he has some suggetions.