I'm 29. Been married for 3 yrs now but together for 10. Tonite we started fooling around for the first time in over a week and he just stoped. Said his leg was acting funny. This isnt the first time. Is it me? Help. Need advice on how to satisfy my husband. I feel like i've lost him, I'm so lonely and horney.
2006-11-25 15:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by katie h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask him to see a doctor about his leg. he might just be telling the truth.
add a little spice to your marriage, cook him a nice meal or take him on a date... buy some sexy lingerie and see what happens...
you need to discuss this with him and ask him whats going wrong. maybe he was issues at work and its stressing him out.
good luck
2006-11-25 15:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's hard to say. Has something change for either you...is he under more stress at work? After marriage a lot of couples both gain weight...not to say it's right, but perhaps there is some physical attraction lost? Perhaps you've both fell into a routine of sex and he's bored..? I suggest finding what has changed within the past year and see if it has something to do with that. Sad to say but more and more men seem interest in "anal play"..maybe he is needing more stimulation there or even just orally?
2006-11-25 15:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by kc4frks1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like either avoidance behavior-like he does the fooling around thing with you for your sake, but when it comes down to it...backs out. This is not normal for a guy in a healthy relationship- I would investigate why he is acting this way. Other possibilities include performance issues that he is unable to deal with.
2006-11-25 15:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by hippiegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its nt u silly,believe me its nt u...i do undrstnd wat ur goin thru,i dealt with it myslf. U say its nt d 1st time he has refused sex.is it al fine at home or at work? Is he overstressed bout nethng? Do u spend quality time 2gethr& most importantly do u comunicate regularly?r u both stil as much a part of each othrs lives as b4?dos he knw wat ur goin thru1?if nt pls do go 2 him rite Nw & jus talk.dnt acuse bt let him knw cry if u wnt bt let go of the pain,release d bagage,let him hold u,soothe u..build d romance,make time 4 togethrnes.& by d way r u sure it was nt a realy a leg pain??or mayb he wants 2 xperiment bt dosnt knw hw 2 tel u?wateur jus ask him k?rready 2 go?1 hug.gud luck. 9h8
2006-11-25 16:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Celine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i came here to help with the question posted. no clue to help. i guess he just wants to be roomates. tell him if he doesnt shape up, he might see a replacement on his side of the bed.
2006-11-25 15:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his leg was really bugging...one time I got a cramp in my leg so bad...during sex...my b/f got so put off with that....that ended that romp real quick...i couldnt help it....so maybe it's not you....but why sex only in a week??? That's not enough...unless you have medical issues or something.
2006-11-25 15:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that hes prob bored? you could get kinky and see how he responds. if that doesnt work, i would seek counseling for the two of you, because you are at high risk of cheating
2006-11-25 15:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man is not normal.
2006-11-25 15:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to hear HIS side of this story.
2006-11-25 15:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL THEY R CALLED DILDOS HE'S GEETING SOMEWHERE ELSE
2006-11-25 15:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by sixtylbscat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋