A women at my husbands job who knows me became friendly and than more friendly than when i staratd to ? it, it was total denial and then i knew something was going on. she is a thorn in my side.
2006-11-25 15:44:56 · 15 answers · asked by ptk381 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would call her and tell her i was going to call her boss on her, but really dear your hubby is also to blame, he had a choice and he didn't have to go for it. just because u love him, doesn't mean he feels the same about u. hard as it is to hear sometimes we love and they don't. yes we do go into a denial thing, where we think all is well and it's because we are happy, maybe the other person is not happy for some reason or the other. mostlikely it has little or nothing to do with u, these women go after married men and persue them with a vengance until they get them. unfortunatly someone always gets hurt, i would confront her before it goes any farther. we trust our mates, and why wouldn't we so thats why it is so hard to understand when they betray us, we trusted them unconditionally to treat us fairly and not ever cross that line, but sometimes the temptation is too much for them, and they learn the lesson to late to save the marriage. confront your husband as well and let him know u are hurt, and he has to stop it, and suggest he and u go to counciling, maybe talk to a minister, if he refuses than he really isn't too interested in changing.
2006-11-25 16:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It don't all ways have to be the man sometime the woman is worse than the man.If a person cheats the reason is at home,there not getting what they need at home.But people don't think about that it is all ways the wedding vowels just a few words.Maybe ll of us should take a long look at our life's and what we could do to make our spouses stay at home instead of wondering off with someone else..............Check it out.
2006-11-25 15:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there.. The two of them are both at fault. My husband left and moved in with the stupid b*tch he worked with. But he regretted it and almost lost everything we had. He soon found out she's a freaking psycho. Let your husband know he could soon lose his job and everything else over this idiot. If it's worth it to him, all the more power to him.
2006-11-25 15:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because usually they are too foolish to realize how much that girl really loves them. Then they get so caught up in being a player or ladies man that they don't know how to appreciate that love until they fall hard and need you.
2006-11-25 16:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...It's the HUSBAND you should be pissed at...HE is the one that made a commitment to you!!!! And HE is the one that broke it!!! All guys do this..."She wouldn't leave me alone!!! " I was drunk!"..." It didn't mean anything!"...."I didn't feel like you loved me anymore!!".... " It will never happen again!!"....And so on. Bullshit!!! Think hard before you take him back...the trust will not come back easily..if at all. Nor should it if you ask me.
2006-11-25 15:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Well guy's feel that they need to get as many
Notches on their belt as possible.
They feel that to keep their "player" status, that
they can't be in a relationship.
They just need time to see what they have
right in front of them.
Don't blame yourself, it's natural for guys.
It's not your fault.
2006-11-25 15:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pardon me, Women do the same thing too. I have had many women who broke my heart too.
2006-11-25 15:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
..its not him who breaks your HEART,honey.. its you.. you break your heart for him because you want something for yourself which you know could not BE achieved..when you give and its not reciprocated you feel frustrated.. try to make yourself WHOLE again by kicking him off if he doesn't care anymore then.. do care for yourself AT LEAST!!
2006-11-25 17:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by CYRILLE102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i had to ask that question to my self after my wife went next door and had sex with him and came home and told me about it lol.then back her stuff up and left me 4 years ago.
2006-11-25 16:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not that he wants to, he just isn't seeing past himself... he's being selfish right now and you need to deal with it asap!
Good luck! And be strong!
2006-11-25 15:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by lady from the other day 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋