Marriage & Divorce - 25 November 2006

2006-11-25 02:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by Ozzy Boy 1

i split up with my sons dad 3 months ago, i loved him more than anyone i had dated. he has been seeing the kids but being nasty and nice to me. he turned up drunk last night and smacked me around, i have bruising all over my face, my back. the ordeal lasted for 4 and a half hours and he said sick things about my daughter and showed me and boasted texts of girls he has been seeing. as soon as he left i called the police and got him arrested. i am getting an injunction and i won't turn back ever again. anyone
help me i am feeling so low right now and this is the strongest i have ever been

2006-11-25 02:29:38 · 41 answers · asked by DONNAIS 2

2006-11-25 02:29:06 · 3 answers · asked by beesonmichelle 1

i think they do somehow as survey says...eh oh (family fortune sorry lol :D ) what do you think?

2006-11-25 02:18:13 · 16 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

my wife and I have been separated for 2 weeks.. and I am disabled but I am required to go back to work. (Long story.) Anyway, my wife is angry at what our relationship has become.. and I am angry at her for a lot of things. I hurt emotionally now... our last few conversations have been venomous.. and I know the end is the answer but I can't seem to cope with the question of being alone again... I don't want to be alone.. but it's where I am going to be. We just bought a house and I can't make the mortgage payment by myself... and I can't get roommates in time.. I don't think anyway.. My parents have been great and my sister has really been there for me.. I just hurt so bad inside. I am trying hard to start to rebuild my life.. even though it physically hurts me so bad.

What can I do to make the pain go away?

I don't want to be a whiner... but I am not a loser... like my wife kept telling me I am. It just really hurts.

2006-11-25 02:15:18 · 12 answers · asked by Eshi 2

A friend is carrying on a sexual relationship with a married man while they are both are deployed. I suspect he thinks the fling is just that, a fling, and will discontinue contact with her upon his return to his duty station. She is hoping they will continue to communicate and she will see him from time to time when she returns to her duty station.

Also, she tells he me keeps his wedding ring on during the act which I find a little odd. He doesn't talk about his wife much but he frequently talks about his kid. I think he likes her but it's just sexual for him.

He's very attracted to her and they get together as much as possible. I think she is beginning to have feelings for him. I try to tell her it's just a deployment affair and to just enjoy the sex. She confided in me that she hopes to continue the affair when the leave.

What do you think?

2006-11-25 02:13:49 · 20 answers · asked by buffythebeast 1

My name is Roja, I got married in 1995 (a settled marriage only). My husband has a illegal affairs with some body else and my husband left me. I had a son of one year when he left the home. I am waiting for him. But could not trace him. Already 11 years completed. Now my child is 11 years.
In 2000 at my office, one of my co working staff asked me to marry. I refused and told the flash back. What had happen to me and also I had a child. But with the help of their friends and colony people he got married me in registered office (law and order & government rules and regulation). He works in Indian army.
My problem is my husband was not yet all introducing me to their parents and relative. More over he was not informing at the office as wife.
And now he was telling that, from my first husband I have to take divorce.
Please suggest me what should I do now.

2006-11-25 02:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by Naveen_oucity 2

2006-11-25 02:12:29 · 11 answers · asked by rest_relax_forever 1

me and my ex have, been together for 10 years, we recent about an 2 month ago, and he aready dating some body. he tell me that he still love me, but right he just don't to be with me..he tell me she is just something new.just want us to kinda,start over with the fighting that we used to do. i just scared that he not going to love me anymore..should try and work on our relationship?

2006-11-25 02:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by martha h 2

I want so much to serve god and live a good life with some meaning to it, but most christains i have met are so judgemental even my own family i'm sorry to say, what does it matter what you wear or how your house is done up its so frustrating i feel i'm being watched and picked up on everything i do or say. all feels so false. What can i do without offending

2006-11-25 02:10:28 · 22 answers · asked by smouldering wolf 2

He has tried for 8 years to stimulate her with his fingers or his tongue and she won't allow it. He asked me what he should do. How can I help?

2006-11-25 02:02:37 · 19 answers · asked by puzzled 2

I was married for 3 years and my husband was apart since then. He visit me 3 months once for a week. He work in US and I'm in Asia. He keep saying that he'll be back and stay with me but never happen up to now. I am very disapointed and feel lonely. I have a baby with me. I feel bad for him too. Everytime we talk about it, he'll get angry and said that he need to make a living. He also had his previous marriage daughter that stays wth him in US. I feel like he gave more attention to her compare his son here. I don't know and confuse, please help

2006-11-25 02:01:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

TAIPEI: A Taiwan woman has been sentenced to 20 months in jail for severing her unfaithful husband’s penis and flushing it down the toilet, a newspaper said yesterday. The July attack occurred in Nantou County, central Taiwan. The Nantou District Court announced the sentencing on Wednesday, according to the Liberty Times. On July 29, the wife put four sleeping pills into a cup of grape juice that she served to her husband, a police officer said.

After he fell asleep, she tied his limbs to the four legs of their bed with nylon robe and sealed his mouth with tape to muffle his shouts.

Using a banana knife, the wife cut off her husband’s penis and flushed it down the toilet. She applied Chinese medicine to his wound to stop the bleeding before calling police to turn herself in, the daily said.

The court could have given the wife a minimum five-year sentence but showed leniency with a sentence of 20 months, citing the husband’s extramarital affair as the cause of the castration.

2006-11-25 01:59:09 · 9 answers · asked by adam333975 3

So many people settle in life (I am raising my hand to on several issues don't worry) because of decisions we made earlier, or circumstances, or we just don't think something better is out there for us...

Why do we settle when if we wait, we might find something in life that is worth waiting for?

Why don't we search for what is best for us even if it may take awhile?

If you have settled, do you ever ask the question, "What if..."

2006-11-25 01:57:36 · 20 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

My friend is married to a woman who has been cheating on him for 2+ years and currently lives with her boyfriend in another state. He admits his marriage is irreconcilable (which is plain to all). He now has a girlfriend that he has sex with. I have told him repeatedly I do not want to meet his girlfriend until he divorces his wife. I've made it clear that I think him having sex with a woman other than his wife is despicable and I do not want anything to do with his "slampiece" until he gets divorced. He has not even filed preliminary paperwork to divorce his wife and he has no plans to begin divorce proceedings. I don't want to give even a hint of encouraging him to cheat on his wife, so I don't want to meet his girlfriend until he gets divorced. I'm trying to get him to put his marriage behind him so he can date anyone he wants without the stigma of adultery. Is that an unreasonable stance to take?

2006-11-25 01:57:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married 2 years, and get jealous anytime my husband is around females at work. He is a resturant manager. Maybe because I'm pregnant and knocking on 30's door, and he works with 18 to early 20ish females, some of which are hot. He swears he will always be faithful and has no desire to run around. He has done nothing to prove himself untrustworthy, so how do I overcome my insecurities?

2006-11-25 01:53:18 · 26 answers · asked by sky 1

if acsedental handicap they acept. but by birth they did not acept why ? or they considerd as friend only

2006-11-25 01:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by suhas_jaihind 1

maybe someone needs to tell my wife of 14yrs that if a man knows your married and have kids and he doesnt care he cant be trusted.I think he does not have any morals to begin with.yeah shes at fault too because it takes 2.but why would she sacrifise her 14 yr old marriage for something like that?and yes I have been very faithful,supportive and affectionet with her.she is 33 and I'm 32 yrs old.could she be going through a mid life crisis?

2006-11-25 01:41:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband use to be christian but for the better part of our marriage I sometimes found myself wondering.He has had numerous affairs and never seemed remorseful.
A lot of people say to divorce him but I love my husband very much and I find myself praying a lot for God's intervention and for me,peace of mind because I felt like I was losing it.
Now he keeps almost criticising me as to why I am spending my time praying when nothing is working out for me as far as he sees

2006-11-25 01:36:45 · 36 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

What if one of the ppl in a marriage, is suspected of cheating, and denies ever doing it, should the other forgive and forget? And how would they make things normal between them?

2006-11-25 01:33:58 · 22 answers · asked by Adan M 1

Sold my furniture when I moved into her place that she rents from her parents. Her parents never approved. Although they live in AZ and we're in Chicago. 3 months ago I traded my car for a ring. I was recently laid off and money is tight. Now what?

2006-11-25 01:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had my divorce with my h,i have 2 kids and my whole familly turn their back on me.some of my friends also............why do i feel so lonley in this world?why can they be so cruel to me?just because i divorce?

2006-11-25 01:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that nice women always seem to hook up with not so nice men, and nice men seem to always hook up with not so nice women?

2006-11-25 01:10:24 · 22 answers · asked by oracle1 3

what would you think if you have two toilets in your house and there is a party going on. One of the toilets is broken and sometimes has a problem.Your girlfriend is inside with a man. When you ask her what she was doing she says he called her to help him flush it. Now would she cheat in her hse too, with all the guests , who would definately see her coming out of this toilet.And she is sober.The guys drunk.The toilet door is locked and she swears it wasnt. You knock and she opens it a few seconds later saying how she was helping him flush it cause he had called her to show him how its flushed.Again: she is sober doesnt drink.Would she risk something like that or was it just a stupid mistake? Guys r more daring and i wouldnt do that with a woman guest when gf is there n other guests. What yall think

2006-11-25 00:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I said to her that i love you and your sister. Will you both marry me ?

2006-11-25 00:52:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked my husband about the pics I found with twin boys.He said they are a friends' but dishonesty has become like second nature to him.I am absolutely terrified and would be furious if they were his.

2006-11-25 00:48:04 · 28 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

If you knew your best friend was cheating on her husband, but she didnt know that you knew, and she constantly asked you to lie to her husband if he asked, and say she was with you, when she wasn't, Would you? If no, what would you tell her if she asked you why not? (keeping in mind, she doesn't know that you know about her cheating)

2006-11-25 00:45:40 · 21 answers · asked by Dani 7

there are housewives, so why are househusbands frowned upon?

2006-11-25 00:35:51 · 19 answers · asked by sandy d 1

I want to reconcile with my ex. Haven't filed the papers yet. I was busy with my life--working, going to school, being stressed out. He supported me financially and was a good husband. I, on the other hand, didn't pay him a lot of attention, didn't take his advice, and was generally absent. I never meant to make him feel unloved...I was trying to make things better for our future. Once I was done with school, he could quit his job and seek his dreams. He said all I did was use him and abuse him, which is unfair.

Being apart from him for three weeks has given me time to reflect on my role as a wife, and what I did wrong. I don't think our relationship could've gotten better if he had remained in the house. It's a wake-up call.

He said he was lonely and missed me, but didn't say anything about reconciling. We are attracted to each other and love each other. He's so hurt. Been playing it cool, letting him lead the way.

Is it too late? Best approach?

2006-11-25 00:31:03 · 18 answers · asked by Calc44 1

I was 18 I had a preminition that I was never going to marry an American. I was living in a medium sized town and I didn't know any foreigners. Moving on I married two Syrian nationals.

2006-11-25 00:25:50 · 5 answers · asked by Laela (Layla) 6