me and my ex have, been together for 10 years, we recent about an 2 month ago, and he aready dating some body. he tell me that he still love me, but right he just don't to be with me..he tell me she is just something new.just want us to kinda,start over with the fighting that we used to do. i just scared that he not going to love me anymore..should try and work on our relationship?
2006-11-25 02:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by martha h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Martha you have to follow your heart. Unfortunately I hope your heart has a big supply of glue, cause it's gonna get broken a bunch with this guy! If it's at all possible, find someone else. Look for character, and personality. Look for strength, and security. Nice buns don't hurt much either! lol
2006-11-25 02:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is entirely up to you. A man moving on 2 months after a breakup isn't uncommon. A man does try to move on.....sometimes minutes after a breakup. It's not because he is "over" the person or doesn't want to get back with them....it's because he needs to be wanted or wants to have someone in his life. The first condition of working on the relationship is that He needs to drop the girlfriends...and focus on you. If that isn't acceptable, then neither is working on the relationship.
2006-11-25 10:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by tjjone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about that.... he still loves you, but he doesn't want to be with you.
Is that someone you really want to put time, effort, and emotional value into? He's already dating somebody else - he's moving on with his life but for some reason 'stringing' you along.
without knowing more about the situation, and I know it'll be very hard on you, but it's time to 'clean break' from him. Hang out with your friends, go on a couple of dates.
He's moving on; don't let him control your time and ability to do so as well.
2006-11-25 10:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by jon_r_patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things happen in long term relationships more often than not. It is not your fault, don't beat yourself up over this. Just be calm and see if he wants out or not, and decide the same thing for you too, try to avoid the drama. Remember you are in charge.
2006-11-25 10:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Middy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty of fish in the sea.men dont usually care at first when they break up, but after a while he'll realize what he let go and u back. usually women find it hard when they break up but in the long run women get over it quicker then men and get over it.good luck
2006-11-25 10:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants his cake and eat it to. You can't let this go on. You two are going to have to set down and make up your mind about what you have going. If what you have isn't any good any more it is time to move on and stop hurting.
2006-11-25 10:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's very sincere about working things out. Go to marriage counceling. Because I think it will work.
But you BOTH have to work at it.
2006-11-25 11:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another better man for you,that will love you indeed.That man does not respect you,and does not love you,nothing indeed.
2006-11-25 10:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing both sides of the fence, you should stay away from him.
2006-11-25 10:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to move on with your life.
2006-11-25 10:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋