2006-11-25 02:12:29 · 11 answers · asked by rest_relax_forever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on what the rest said, do you understand me Dear. Good luck.
2006-11-25 02:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know the rest of this story, but I really don't think that a husband should be calling another woman that is not his wife "dear". And threw sms at that, kind of make a person wonder about it. There should be reason why you should not be aloud to look at his sms any way. You are married to this man, he should have nothing what so ever to hide. I would ask him what it is all about.
2006-11-25 11:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could really be anything. If the salutation of the email/message is "Dear _____, how are you?", it is absolutely nothing. If he's calling the woman "dear" while talking about sexual things, then yeah, he's cheating on you. If he's talking to her about completely innocent things like work, interior decorating or astrophysics and calls her "dear", it's probably nothing. I call my female clients and co-workers "dear" on occassion and mean nothing by it.
It's really too hard to tell unless he just calls this one person "dear" a lot.
2006-11-25 10:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would think that if he had a history of cheating or straying then it would be something to worry about but as previously state it is a common word used by men and women toward others. So I would say "No Worries."
2006-11-25 10:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Scott S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confront him but dont do it rudely. he may mean nothing by it. its just a common word used for endearment. id ask but ask nicely or over a nice dinner. just act like something is bothering you and hell ask. but do remember you were being a sneak. DO NOT expect a quick nice response. quiltly or not he will still be mad that you were playing detective on him. that is just wrong. do appologize for that, however you do have the right to know if he cares for someone else.
2006-11-25 10:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Lover?
Then I'd dump him
2006-11-26 21:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could mean something and it might not mean nothing see people have different wats of talking to people when i talk to people i say baby babes boo and all that but that don't mean i'm having an emotional physical or mental relationship with those people thats just who i am your husband might be the same way or totally different don't be afraid to ask
2006-11-25 10:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by tyree_dickerson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so i take it your hubby doesn't use those nice words with people?
I guess you know him better than we do, but as far as that, I call people sweetheart, dear, darling, honey. It's just nice terms I use, not only towards men, but alot to the gals.
u know him best!
2006-11-25 10:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him about it. Don't jump to conclusions. GIve him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-11-25 10:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Dear" is a common salutation. Ever write a snail mail letter?
2006-11-25 10:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋