Marriage & Divorce - 25 November 2006

What should i do, my boyfriend hasn't called we have twin girls together, he left Thanks giving night and hasn't came home. i have called his cell several times and he does not pick up. i don't know what to do, i feel very sad and it's hard taking care of my two twins at the same time. I just need some good advice, that some one can sink in my head.

2006-11-25 06:53:21 · 20 answers · asked by bunnygirls3 1

2006-11-25 06:44:05 · 12 answers · asked by Cynthia B 1

Around this time last year, I found out my husband had sex with my best friend. And lately I have been giving him loads of attitude because of it. We over came this, and there have been many positive changes in our marrige, but lately I feel like it's still not enough. I already forgave and I am a christian woman, why is the bitterness corrupting my atitude?

2006-11-25 06:40:37 · 17 answers · asked by AntzaGurl 3

I am fifty yrs old and i can't stop thinking about my step daughter. We have lots of fun together.

2006-11-25 06:35:22 · 28 answers · asked by sam 1

I was interested as to how many married couples live this way, and would like to share on this subject.

2006-11-25 06:35:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Feeling like I want revenge?
I found out that my sister in law has not only befriended my husband's mistress (now girlfriend/baby momma) but also cosigned my husbands affairs by validating lies, my husband has told to the other woman. I blame my husband (soon to be ex) for his infidelity and I have dealt with him my own way. But for my sister in law to have discredited me and tells lies about me and has even talked about my kids (her niece and nephew) with this other woman outrages me. She has been playing both sides of the fence and has acted like she was my friend for years (borrowing my car, sharing intimate details about her past lovers comparing them to her husband, borrowing ends which was never paid back and etc) I am not saying that I'm squeaky clean either. I have one piece of information that would devastate her but revealing such information would hurt someone that I truly love in the process. But I can't stop feeling the want to see egg on her face.

2006-11-25 06:33:47 · 10 answers · asked by juicydiva21 1

he.told.me.that.hes.never.been.but.i.got.a.phone.call.from.his.kids.mom.saying.they.were.married.for.10years.and.he.told.me.not.to.believe.her

2006-11-25 06:33:23 · 4 answers · asked by donna m 1

I always read things on here saying how their boyfriends last for hours on end. Bull ****. 3 minutes and boom, im done. i aint takin no hour or 2 hours or longer. You women are lying out your teeth.

2006-11-25 06:32:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 06:31:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 06:30:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 06:27:25 · 6 answers · asked by Deepak S 1

We have to complete a form (travel insurance) and it asks if I'm related to another person included on the form (i.e my Wife). Stupid question but we can't get a definitive answer from any of our nearest and dearest! What do you think? Thanks very much.

2006-11-25 06:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by voddy-monster 1

2006-11-25 06:16:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that my sister in law has not only befriended my husband's mistress (now girlfriend/baby momma) but also cosigned my husbands affairs by validating lies, my husband has told to the other woman. I blame my husband (soon to be ex) for his infidelity and I have dealt with him my own way. But for my sister in law to have discredited me and tells lies about me and has even talked about my kids (her niece and nephew) with this other woman outrages me. She has been playing both sides of the fence and has acted like she was my friend for years (borrowing my car, sharing intimate details about her past lovers comparing them to her husband, borrowing ends which was never paid back and etc) I am not saying that I'm squeaky clean either. I have one piece of information that would devastate her but revealing such information would hurt someone that I truly love in the process. But I can't stop feeling the want to see egg on her face.

2006-11-25 06:16:28 · 17 answers · asked by juicydiva21 1

when you lose someone u loved

2006-11-25 06:15:04 · 18 answers · asked by adi_pit 1

For what reason do you ask a woman to marry you and spend the rest of there life with you, then all you do is look at porn, then you lie about it. At first I was really into it but since he sneaks around all the time to look at porn its just a total turn off. I give him what he needs in all the ways a woman would. So what is the deal what this porn thing????????????

2006-11-25 06:08:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Actually my son knows the truth but doesn't say he does to them and he let's the two of them go on with their charades. She gets up and puts on a uniform and name tag in the mornings and acts like she goes to work. They have been able to buy lots of things for everyone, but with knowing how they do it (she does it) I feel it is going to cause my son to have the wrong morals and values and also teach him to lie. Son is 13. The woman is also very manipulative to the point it is scarey! At the same time she really is a likable person to everyone. She is jealous of me and there really is no reason for it. She does not let my ex and I talk without assuming something, therefore him and I hardly speak and don't get along very well. She pays child support, and says that will stop if I don't want her involved as a parent.

2006-11-25 06:06:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend (age 23)and I (20) have been living together for about a month now and his parents are totally against it. They refuse to come over to our house for anything, not even dinner. They treat me different now that we live together, and I just don't understand it. They are not religious and can never give us a good reason as to why they don't like it. He's old enough to make his own decisions why do they treat him like a child? What's the big deal about us living together and why do they think its such a sin? Can anyone shed some light on this for me?

2006-11-25 06:01:55 · 9 answers · asked by whitterbug469 1

I met someone after a very bad breakup with my husband of 25 years, the new person is in the same situation as he is divorcing (end ) of 25 years also.We had been connected and gone out for the past month and sometimes it seems like he has excuses when we set up times to go out more than once a week. We talk everyday 2-3 x a day but go out once a week,I want more but he seems to get close and then backs away. Ive been out of my situation for over a year- hes been out of his for 9 months. Hes a little older than me,and i do like him but my patience is thin. I had a hard time opening up to anyone and i did with him, but maybe im making too much of this? I just want someone who wants to be with me and do a lot of things together and see often, ect. He says ask him anything and he will answer hes just very busy (owns his own company) and that i need to be a little flexible. How do i keep from taking everything to heart or am i right in how im feeling?

2006-11-25 05:51:45 · 13 answers · asked by still hoping for love 1

My ex wants to see our daughter but I don't want him to have any thing to do with her.He can't even afford to take care of himself and he's a drug user.I don't want any support payments or anything I just want him out of our lives.What can I do?

2006-11-25 05:50:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Plz answer only if either you, your mate, or the both of you have cheated on one another. Are you still together? Have you gotten married since? Have you gotten over the past??? How did you??? Or was it a mistake to stay together after ??? Advice and situations plz

2006-11-25 05:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by 1st time mom 2

I have been in involved with my husband's(now ex) brother in law for over 4 years and can't seem to breakaway. I think I am in love with him but how do I know for sure that it's not lust? I know it's wrong but neither one of us can seem to walk away no matter how close we become to being found out. Is there anyone dealing with the similar situation? Any advice

I neglected to add that we do spend quite a lot of time together outside of sexual encounters. We have taken trips together and we share a lot of genuine common interest in the same things which has drawn us closer together. I have been separated from my Husband for over a year and married to my Husband for 10 years. There was not an immediate attraction between me and my brother in law. It wasn't until we realized we shared common interest and spent an increasingly amount of time together when we realized that we were becoming more attracted to each other.

2006-11-25 05:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by poundcake1111 1

ive been with my hubby for 11yrs and i love him to death. he works alot (midnights) and im a stay home mom. 3 yrs ago i started playing an online video game and ended up meeting a "friend". we can talk via headset on the game and have gotten very close and very flirty in the last 3 yrs. but now i can't get him out of my mind. we have NEVER seen each other not even a picture. there is EXTREME sexual tension between us. everyone on our game knows that we are like this. we always talk bout how we can never meet because we would just attack each other. he is on east coast and im in midwest. but the thing is i love my hubby and when he is around we are great together. we have a wonderful life and could NEVER leave him. but as soon as he walks out that door i can think of nothing but my "friend" my question is can i be in love with 2 men at the same time?

2006-11-25 05:42:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I got into a very bad argument. Hurtful things were said. To make the problem worse, I ended up drinking too much that night and placed a phone call to my ex husband. I happen to know that he is still in love with me even after all these years. I quess I was looking to talk to someone, I don't know, like I said I was very drunk. Anyway, my husband and I patched things up the next day. Now I feel so guilty. The conversation was pretty innocent but I still feel bad about the call. I also caused problems between my ex and his girlfriend. I know this through mutual friends. I would have a serious problem if my husband got a phone call at 12:30 at night from his ex wife. Should I tell my husband what I did or just leave it alone and hope he doesn't find out.

2006-11-25 05:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by atlgirl 1

My husband was working with this girl, and she was calling him all the time - not always work related. Then she finished working with that company, yet she still calls him. I confronted him and told him it makes me uncomfortable that she calls him. So I went out of town last weekend and my husband sounded like he didn't want to talk to me on the phone, and when I got home I saw that he had called her a couple times while I had been gone. So he went out to the bar last night, and I went around 1 just to see who he was with, and sure enough this girl was there along with a few of the guys from work. It didn't seem like she was exclusively out with him - they were just all standing around talking. But when we went home and I asked him why he had been calling her while I was gone all he could say was 'I don't know'. I feel sick to my stomach - did he have her over to my house while I was gone? I don't know what to think. Do you think he's cheating and how should I deal with it??

2006-11-25 05:39:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Separated for years - not legally. Spouse ran up over $50,000 in gambling debt at Atlantic City-then died. Is living spouse responsible?

2006-11-25 05:38:59 · 2 answers · asked by Dorothy 1

Wondering when enough is enough and when to let go and give up.

2006-11-25 05:37:06 · 22 answers · asked by WUDDALIFE 2

2006-11-25 05:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by jennyvee413 2

He leaves the room when he is on the phone ... he will not let me see it ... he believes that his phone is "private and personal". I have always trusted him and do not believe he is having an affair but it really hurts my feelings ... I feel that as a couple you should be open and honest. I have no problems with him using or reviewing my cell-phone. I have nothing to hide. Thoughts?

2006-11-25 05:19:02 · 36 answers · asked by allyinminneapolis 4

2006-11-25 05:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetblue85 2