In Love With My 18teen yr. Old Step Daughter What Shall I Do?

Question

I am fifty yrs old and i can't stop thinking about my step daughter. We have lots of fun together.

Answer 1

t's OK to have the family inocent fun together but anything other than that is WRONG. What wrong with her wanting to just be around you. She at 18 should be out with friends, off at college, or doing something other than just hanging with a stepfather. Don't do it, you will loose the relationship you have with her once she does realize and gets out in the real world.

Answer 2

If this is a serious statement, which on the face of it, it is, I would strongly urge you to seek help from a professional. Run, do not walk to your doctor and get referred out to a good therapist.

The feelings that you're expressing are inappropriate at best and boarder insest. I pray that you have not done anything to endanger the sacred bounds of the parent/child relationship. Regardless of the fact that she's your step child, she is still a child entrusted by her mother to you to help raise.

You cannot think for a second on any level that there's anything "right" about your feelings. It just crosses the boundaries on so many moral and ethical boundaries.

Seek help!!

Answer 3

Well you name seems to me to be a males name and your picture is a females name so what are you male or fremale but in any case I really think that you need help. You married her mother/father and I think that is just plain wrong and I couldnt even fathom the idea that someone would be in love with their step child. I am 31 and I have a 19 yr old step son and I wold never in a million years even consider it even if I was attracted to him.

Answer 4

She must look like a youthful version of your wife, which can be attractive. Would you want your 18yo daughter with a man your age? Do you think you are the best thing for your step-daughter or are you just horny? Is it worth tearing up your family? You know these things never end well and that you are playing with fire.

Answer 5

You need some help-she is your daughter, step or not-you don't raise a child only to go to bed with that child-and remember she is a child-you are fifty yrs old-you sleep with her mother,now you want to sleep with her child-how nasty can you get-no matter how much fun you have with her remember her mother is your wife- you need to pray and pray hard to get that out of your mind-NASTY,NASTY,NASTY

Answer 6

Stop being a friggan perfect and get some honest help!..
Not to be mean and although you make me sick just thinking of it...If you actually have any FEELINGS as a HUMAN in you, Honestly get some help with your over aged / too young lusts. And your sickness for a Family member and what it would do to her and others.

Answer 7

It's time to find something new to play with. Do you have a football? The age difference alone should tell you something...
It may not be incest but your child is your child.....whether she is of your blood or only a step daughter. Find something new to occupy your time and thoughts.

Answer 8

It is okay to LOVE her. But do it together with your wife of husband. Your picture is disturbing. You need to clear your mind. Think only thoughts that are pure, honest, just, thoughts that are holy. If the wrong decision is made, you will regret it for a life-time.
May God keep you is my prayer.

Answer 9

Follow Woody Allans example...

Answer 10

You should stay away from your daughter. Although she is your STEP daughter. She is YOUR DAUGHTER. That would be like your mother falling in love with you. How sick do you think that would be if your mother fell in love with you?