If your ex's wife is a high paid prostitute would it bother you? if you had a son that visited his dad often?

Question

Actually my son knows the truth but doesn't say he does to them and he let's the two of them go on with their charades. She gets up and puts on a uniform and name tag in the mornings and acts like she goes to work. They have been able to buy lots of things for everyone, but with knowing how they do it (she does it) I feel it is going to cause my son to have the wrong morals and values and also teach him to lie. Son is 13. The woman is also very manipulative to the point it is scarey! At the same time she really is a likable person to everyone. She is jealous of me and there really is no reason for it. She does not let my ex and I talk without assuming something, therefore him and I hardly speak and don't get along very well. She pays child support, and says that will stop if I don't want her involved as a parent.

Answer 1

Remember she is your ex-have you talked to your son about how he feels about his mother-you know no matter what she do for a living he is still her son-your son is 13 yrs old if he was going to lie to you he would have started by now,don't judge him before you talk to him-he may surprise you-you are the one that shape your son-you set his values.morals and teach him that he should always tell the truth,no matter what-who is this she that want let you talk to your ex-if she is that jealous,she have no confidence in her self and no faith and trust in you-love your son teach him right from wrong no matter what-you are his father,be a father-let no one come between you and your son-you can get another woman,but not another son-have a relationship with your son-she is his parent just like you are-the two of you will always have something in common (A SON) and nothing or no one can change that-be a dad-not a want-to-be dad-stop worrying about what she do for a living-worry about being a parent to your son,he did not ask you are her to be his parents.

Answer 2

hello,
well i don't know if this lady has a child or not....but tell her to grow up and get a real job....and why is she paying child support your ex made your son not her????whats really going on!!!!go to the courts most courts would rather the child be with their mother than the father any way and your son has a voice in the court any way most states you gotta be at least 12 to be heard by a judge.....so just take him to court for the custody and make him pay the support and not her what will he do if she leaves with the money and not there to pay you??????some thing is fishy and not right.....cause it can't be that good for him so let her take every thing over with him supposing he has balls and stands up for his self....good luck and don't you let her run your life either.....you are his mother and she is nothing....

Answer 3

This doesn't seem like a very good role model. You can always speak to the court system and request sole custody with visitation only with the father, not the new wife. Courts are generally understanding, although if you don't want her to go to jail, you might not want to mention her real job, and just say you don't like her manipulative, immoral ways around your son...and that it is your right.

Answer 4

How do we know that this is all true? Besides you are not married to this guy anymore. Stop trying to control him through his son. Your son will be OK. His personality was formed by the age of 7. So if he does not have morals it will be yours and your exs nurturing and DNA that affects that.

Let go.

Answer 5

If you can get enough proof that she is doing this, then you need to get full custody of your son. The courts will not allow a child to be around that type of lifestyle. My advice; hire a private detective to follow her around and get the proof you need. Good luck! :)

Answer 6

Tell that b*tch off where she stands! Seriously, get her straight.