My ex wants to see our daughter but I don't want him to have any thing to do with her.He can't even afford to take care of himself and he's a drug user.I don't want any support payments or anything I just want him out of our lives.What can I do?
2006-11-25 05:50:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we were never married. and she has his last name.He didn't even want me to have her and for 5 years I listened to him sya he didn't want ant of this.So I left him and now he wants something to do with her.I just don't get why he can't leave us alone.She is much happier with out him around cuase all he does is when he is around is tell her wait just a minute while I finish my smoke or he puts on the TV so he doesn't have to do anything for her.And to top it off He has 2 kids from a past girlfriend that he convinced her to give those kids up for adoption.
2006-11-25 06:25:36 · update #1
when i was raising children and went thru a divorce ...i had abated all child support and drew up an agreement between the ex an myself. of course thru an attorney. he was to have no contact with the boys until they were 18 yrs. of age. and he had to pay no child support.
2006-11-25 06:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Legal question..You should check with a Lawyer and have that type of information provided that the courts may take that into consideration and the visitation may be limited and may be restricted to certain place and companies.
2006-11-25 14:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek legal advice in this situation . Until the court prohibits it he does still have legal rights to visitation but he also has legal responsibilities also. Get professional help as soon as possible. Contact your local social services they can be a great help.
2006-11-25 13:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by James I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your doing the right thing because if he sees her there is a chance he might say somethings and if shes young she'll be happy to see her daddy and will believe what he says. If you want him out then say that hes not a good example and if he trully loves her then he'll stay away.
Hope it helped,
Brianna
2006-11-25 13:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Legally, he does have rights to see his daughter. Due to his drug use, you can petition the court to only allow supervised visits. Good luck!
2006-11-25 13:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a lawyer and settle the custody. You would have to prove him unfit in order to keep him from seeing her at all.
2006-11-25 14:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to solve that problem is court.
basically you have to prove that he is unfit in a court of law and poll the court for full custody with no visitation
2006-11-25 13:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by ASHLI B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well did you discuss this with your lawyer during your divorce ? you should have maybe you would have been able to stop something before it started . I feel for you i know that you are in a tough sittuation . contact your lawyer he or she may be able to do something now. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-25 14:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HOney,
If you have an ex on drugs the answer is in your head. It is not htat you "cant" you must not let her see dad. He is not stable!!!!!!! Go to court and get full custody NOW
2006-11-25 14:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to let him see them until you can prove in court that he does something that could eather harm them or himself.
2006-11-25 14:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Debater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋