What should i do, my boyfriend hasn't called we have twin girls together, he left Thanks giving night and hasn't came home. i have called his cell several times and he does not pick up. i don't know what to do, i feel very sad and it's hard taking care of my two twins at the same time. I just need some good advice, that some one can sink in my head.
2006-11-25 06:53:21 · 20 answers · asked by bunnygirls3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be patient and ask you what you did wrong, he'll come back, sooner or later
:> peace
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2006-11-28 18:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be strong, after all, you've got twins to take care of. Try calling him throughout the day, but put your main focus and attention of taking care of the girls, he's probably just out of touch or busy, but don't worry, panic doesn't help a thing in this situation, however if he's gone for more then 3 days and nobody knows where he is, call the cops for a missing person report, but I doubt it's that serious. The holidays are trecherous times of year, but happy times, so spend them with your daughters and make sure they aren't afraid or worried. That should be your first concern as a mother, your children.
2006-11-25 14:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be that he ran off scared. First of all, your twins are your top priority. Beg your friend or sister or mom to come help you for a couple weeks until you get your feet on the ground again. Just plan your life like he's out of the picture. You need to be more concerned with your kids than how much of a sissy your bf is! Plan ahead, and if he comes back... You two need to have a serious talk. It's not all fun and games any more! You guys have kids!!!
2006-11-25 14:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you probly see life like "my kids need a father" , think about something...they would probably rather have a good, supportive loving mother and no father, than a father who comes and goes as he pleases...i say call a relative or friend to come over and help get u back on your feet and help with the twins, and forget about him. he needs to get his **** straight in order to be a father, let alone a good one....I always wanted twins...
2006-11-25 14:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Raven S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he leave? Keep calling, you don't know if something may have happened to him on the road, however, if he doesn't call you back, he may just need some time away from you. Give him some space and let him come back to you. Call his family to see if he's checked in with them. Good luck!
2006-11-25 14:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by california girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he left were you on good speaking terms ? or did you get in a fight and he left upset ? Does he do it often ? leave and not call ? Not calling you .. if he is in good health is not excusable.. he should not let you worry like this...
My other advice.. is call the cops and report him missing if he does not show up or call in the next couple of days.. God forbid maybe something happened to him !
2006-11-25 15:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've thought about how hard raising twins alone would be before you threw your legs over his shoulders! Having kids out of wedlock is one thing, but twins? Good Lord, girlfriend. "A bird in the bush, or in this case, a " c o c k ", was obviously worth two in the hand." If you hadn't had his two in your hand, you'd probably never become prego, dumbo!
Live with it and quit complaining. Raise your children not your legs!
2006-11-25 14:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by Steven S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple. Get ya a 43 yr old man from Indiana. Hey, I'm 43 and from Indiana. Give me a call
2006-11-25 15:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you CAN do. Pretty much just leave him messeges telling him to hurry home! If you need help with your twins, asking your parents or relatives to come over and explain the situation the them. They'll understand. :)
2006-11-25 14:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe call his family, they might know whre he is. You could ask your family and friends to help watch the kids for awhile. Also just keep trying to get in touch with your boyfriend.
2006-11-25 14:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by sunslover_19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's in jail. call his family and say you haven't heard from him and you're concerned. his cell battery going dead isn't a good excuse, since there are pay phones, and family phones that he can use.
i hope it all works out!
2006-11-25 15:03:27 · answer #11 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋