during sex and now she does not believe me, how do i convince her that i still love her.....it is just a fantasy,,,,,,, or is it bad to fantasize?
2006-11-25 15:33:44 · 12 answers · asked by minip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as a woman, i would be mortified if my husband was imagining i was someone else during sex. id prob think he was cheating as well.... i would focus on your wife during that deed.. if you cant, then maybe seek outside help.
2006-11-25 15:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's not bad to fantasize, but does she believe it's Hillary Clinton and not some other Hillary? That's the first thing I would have thought, are you seeing someone named Hillary, because Clinton's not that attractive. I would have believed "Duff" more. or is it someone you know?
2006-11-25 15:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a basic security issue here.
fantasy is great, and a secure person recognizes that.
your lady probably has fantasies, but i doubt she would admit this at this point.
what to do? just be as sweet as possible.
if she is a little open minded buy a penthouse letters magazine and read the whole thing in bed, let her see there is a bunch more than she may want to admit.
hustler and others get a little rude, and some of the others are written by staff, and not readers.
good luck
2006-11-25 15:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by elmo o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hillary?? Did you want her to call you Bill. Fantasies are cool if you let her know maybe she will get a Hillary wig and go with it.
2006-11-25 15:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It aint bad to fantasize man! Just get her the blonde wig to loosen her up a bit. She can even become your wife's alter ego. Don't make me go Hilary on your ***!
2006-11-25 15:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by devilUknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely i'm particular that Hilary would not somewhat supply a **** if shes being referred to as a d!ck in a skirt. yet i think of its somewhat immature. I easily would not care approximately such an insult in the direction of me.
2016-10-17 13:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hilary Clinton........You need a better fantasy buddy. SHe is ugly!!!
2006-11-25 15:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Hello!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hillary Clinton....of all the women to fantacize about......you could frostbite on your di.ck with that broad......lol........
2006-11-25 15:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince her, you have to put in work and prove it.
2006-11-25 15:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her it's ok to now call you Brad.... or Mel... or whomever... it's only fair right?
2006-11-25 15:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋