My cousin has 6 affairs on her husband. Her husband has one and that is with me. I really am truely in love with him but I would give anything for them not to get a divorce but he says she is to pushy and bossy, but she is but this is her marrige I don't know what to do! I am 27 and I am not the cause of the divorce. She does not know of us and she has 6 affairs and he knows of them. They have twins and a year old baby and that is why they are still togeather. He is not thirsty for sex because we have had sex 3 times in one year. And that was me who asked for the sex, not him.
2006-11-25 14:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl, you should have left him alone in the first beginning if he's with your cousin that's cruel. Now what if you and him get together and he does the same thing to you. You really wouldn't be able to say anything because ya'll were in the same situation. But that's wrong how you did your cousin and it's sick. If you loved him you would have waited to him and your cousin got out of that marriage first.
2006-11-25 14:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by lala17_2008 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious. He's not leaving his wife for you. If he can have you whenever he wants and still have his family, then why would he leave his wife? Think about it. He's using you. How old are you anyway? Why would you sleep with your family's husband in the first place? Seems to me that you have selfesteem issues. Think about this, sex is simply just sex and love is bliss. Do you have sex or make love? You may say make love, but best believe he's thinking just sex.
2006-11-25 22:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by KCATP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, first and foremost, you should be ashamed of yourself. This is family...blood. Men are never worth this kind of thing. Second, how do you know for a fact that she has even cheated on him once. Don't go by hearsay but actual proof. And another thing, why the heck are you "in love" with this dude? If he cheated on his wife, your cousin, to be with you, doesn't that tell you alot about his values and personality? This sounds like too much drama and you should just get completely out of this situation. I would confess to my cousin though. And one last thing, if he "knows" about all these times she has cheated on him, why hasn't he left already? Please consider what I have said.
2006-11-25 22:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by A Blonde Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh OH there is going to be trouble in the trailor park better call jerry springer this could be a good one
2006-11-25 22:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Fergie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away for now and re-enter his life after the divorce.
2006-11-25 22:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by John16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm tis all sounds a little f-ed up. take them on the maury show.
2006-11-25 22:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by norbet8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your just in love with someone who is not in love with you.
2006-11-25 22:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by ang. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to leave her for you.
2006-11-25 22:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure of your question.
2006-11-25 22:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋