he is 35 but hangs out with unmarried boys of 25yrs and the only thing they get to talk about are girls. i am suspecting he hangs out with them to get some girls. what do i do?
2006-11-25 15:59:55 · 24 answers · asked by bode 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let him know that it bothers you, when i was younger my wife actually told me that it bothered her that i was out with my friends and that they were single and looking for girls and that i was with them, we can to a good solution they could hang out at my place we kept plenty of beer and it worked out fine, try some to this effect........ good luck
2006-11-27 05:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like hes very inmature....Its just silly for a married man to hang aroung 25 year olds and talk about girls.If you have any pull with him you need to put your foot down..If you can,t stop him then you need to leave him and find you a man instead of a little boy...I don,t want to offend you but what kind of life can you have with someone like this,he will end up cheating if he hasn,t already.
2006-11-26 00:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by slickcut 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of the other answers seem so insecure.....what about asking the guy why he does it...instead of "suspecting he hangs out with them to get some girls" why not try to be supportive and find out if he feels lacking in something in his life ...find out if he thinks he is getting old etc...you catch more flies with sugar.....this way you can be friendly while doing your detective work "if you don't totally trust him". Do you guys do anything together. are you involved in anything...do you go out..maybe he just wants to go out more.. are you are a homebody? don't be so quick to call the firing squad
2006-11-26 00:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by scuubay_away 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's feeling the pressures of getting older and trying to regain his youth? i think what you need to do is have a quiet night in, a lovely dinner and a dvd and just talk about everyday stuff then maybe he will realise that he isnt in his early 20's and realise what he's missing with you. good luck
2006-11-26 06:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by devils sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you r willing to put up with. sounds like your man is a little immature. tell him to grow up. although, even older married men are checking out the girls. even the really old guys. sick perverts.
2006-11-26 00:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by beccaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is wanting to cheat, and find girls, he is also very immature, i feel so sorry for u, why does he have to hang out with these other men? just going to cause trouble in your marriage.he doesn't seem to value u as he should.
2006-11-26 00:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unmarried? 25? probably wa*k buddies.
2006-11-26 02:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's doing this now, trust me, he will be doing this in some form 5 years down the marriage!
2006-11-26 00:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by hippiegirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him. He's immature, and proving it by hanging out with a younger crowd.
2006-11-26 00:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by morgysan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He's enjoying himself and its all harmless. I'm sure they other guys look up to him and it makes him feel good. I really doubt he's into the other guys for the girl talk - more like the guy talk.
2006-11-26 00:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋