i mean this man still tells the wife at home that he still loves her but yet he,s been asking a particular girl out for a long time now.
2006-11-25 21:12:56 · 26 answers · asked by holie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love has nothing to do with it. He wants some action on the side and also to pretend he is a loyal family man. He's a creep.
2006-11-25 21:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 03:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, the girl he is asking out is not intrested in him and he should spend that time that he is chasing after the other women to remember why hw fell in love with his wife, maybe you should ask him this question, will that "new girl turn in to his wife if he does not change the action that led there relationship to the point it is now a marriage is a committment, not just one party, but two what ever he can do with this new girl he could do with his wife, if it is because she has "Changed" , this is bull, this is lack of time spent with his WIFE, time he is spending chasing this same women, that this new girl will be a nagging wife ten years for now, this is my suggestion, He should say to him self, well I love my wife, but I want to have fun, well, guess what your wife culd be fun, ask him to take a good look at her and say why did I fall in love with her, I bet anything it is the same reasons why he want this "new" women; Remember women are not cars, we are people to we have needs and we KNOW when our husbands are not totally cont. to us. I belive in God and if you do belive in God ask him to guide you to help your friend to find the love he once knew with his wife, because God created marriage between a woman and a man, not women and men; singluar two not more, Hey, man think of this what if your wife flipped the taples on you and said, honey, I am going out with Bill from the office, and you say a meeting and your adoring wife say "NO" it is a DATE...she tells you, instead of hiding it from you... So any way, tell him to reflect the damages, not only finiacial, but emoitioal.. I guess my point is if he is wasting time chasing this other women, he could use just 30 % of that time to remember why he turly fell in love with his wife.. he married her so he must love her, if he turly did not who to say he really loves this other woman, he should refect on his marriage his effords, his contubution and the amount of time he spends with his wife, any sacerfices he is willing to give for his wife, because guess what he would sacfice alot to be with this other woman that could or could not care for him, when back at his home stand a wife with open arms waiting to adore him love him and welcome him home, is that worth giving up on a possiable empty one sided infactuation? that is the question I would ask him.
2006-11-25 22:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knew that girl before his wife,maybe there are best friend..but if he just now know that girl, that's mean he only to fool around..but as a wife first thing in married is trusting each other..if have some problems make sure slow talk first..we are marriage to take care each other with love..for the guy out there please respect your wife..women is a gift for you..you have to appreciate it..
2006-11-25 21:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by shu_pim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's not be judgemental here. We should know a lot more to give an opinion. He might be unhappily married, yet tries to avoid divorce for the sake of something that he and his wife care about.
2006-11-25 21:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is a JERK !!!! Perhaps if someone mentions to his wife who he supposedly still loves what he is up to, it might just put out the fire in his pants !!!! All he wants is a bit on the side. Morons like him make my skin crawl !!!!!! If he needs to fool around, then he needs to be single .
2006-11-25 21:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to play around and enjoys the challenge of trying to get the girl to say yes to him. More than likely, he has no intentions of leaving his wife at all. He just wants to have his cake and ice cream.
2006-11-25 21:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by jdhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is very confused....needs to slow down and realize that he already has one commitment.
One that is sacred and he shouldn't take lightly.
Marriage is Marriage, it doesn't mean while at work He can play or just because things are going well at the moment he can play.
The only person he should be asking out is his wife.
best wishes
2006-11-25 21:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love his wife and he only wants to play around with the girl he is askin gout . Clear as day/
2006-11-25 22:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the man? Not to be rude, but just curious. I think this person should make a choice about what he really wants. Love triangles are never good. Are there kids involved? I dunno... I think it is not worthit. And it is also not fair.
I hope the situation works out for the best, and if I was you, I would stay out if it!!
Love
2006-11-25 21:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋