When in the heat of the moment?........?

Question

I can only speak for myself....i never hold back, when in the heat of passion.......
Do you hold back, and not go all the way, and is it because of insecurities of how you feel about yourself, or insecurities of how your other half has placed on you?......

When i say hold back i'm talking about feeling insecure about e.g. body shape etc so does that prevent one from giving love fully to the utmost intensity?....or is it not a problem at all...just a question......

Answer 1

I used to when i was young. I would hold back cause i was shy about showing my body. I was worried about is my stomach flat enough? is my body nice? does he like my poo-nanny lol.
When i got older and more experienced i became less shy and opened up oh boy did i open up lol Thank God cause i discovered things about my body that i don't know back then but I know now and i can teach him heehee.

Answer 2

I hold back.
If you get caught with the heat there is a possibility of a forced marriage, abortion, STDs and a whole lot of shet. Try to control yourself especially if you are not all familiar with a person. like knowing her genes, family diseases and the lot.

Answer 3

never hold back,if you do you don't deserve the attention in the first place.If your using sex as a tool then you are lying to yourself,to him,and to the vows you gave.Marriage is 100 percent work on both sides to be successful and that applies to sex as well.

Answer 4

I go all the way cuz if you and your b/f or g/f are in the heat of the moment and you pull away,you just turned down sex.Who the F*** would do that?...

Answer 5

I don't understand the question...hold back from orgasm, or hold back fom performing the act itself? I can't see why anyone would hold back from either, but that's just me...